Ok, thats not true, I love cuddles, I just can't cuddle in bed. I'm ok for some cuddling when we first get in bed but then I just get too claustrophic. I can't sleep all wrapped up in someone, I need my own space. Even if the bf rolls over for a cuddle in the middle of the night it wakes me up straight away and I have to shove him off.![]()
I feel like a meany but it just freaks me out, I get all hot and sweaty and I feel all fidgity, I need my own space. Its not the bf, I've always been like this with every guy I've been with, I've probably fallen asleep cuddling about 5 times in my life. Even in the morning I have to be totally away before I cuddle. This morning the bf was up early and rolled over for a cuddle before he got up for work. When he does this I just bear it coz I know he wants some cuddles before he goes but I really hate it.![]()
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I think it might be because I'm a troubled sleeper, in the past I've gone through weeks of not sleeping well, sometime the tiniest thing can wake me up and once I'm up I'm up and can't get back to sleep. It makes me feel like a bad girlfriend though, is anyone else like this?





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this is why at my place I have to sleep on my back when i initially go to sleep. my cat, Marnie, loves to 'dominate' me. Luckily she just usually leaves or something once I am asleep (sometimes waking me up). I love waking up to find her curled up at my feet right next to me. It's one of my "must haves" for a cat.. a cat that likes to sleep next to me. 

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