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    Ok, I am so mad right now, I can't even think straight.

    Here's what happened:

    I arrived at work, and when I walked out onto the main floor, there was a huge commotion in the middle of the main seating area. There was a table there with some big spenders (I recognized the guy, it was someone I had sat with in the past and made quite a bit of money off, and he "makes it rain" on stage, throwing $100-200 in ones up in the air). So naturally, there were a ton of dancers all over that table.

    I decided to stay away, and just work on the other customers around the perimeter. Ok - that's the background.

    An hour passes, and it's my turn to go on stage. I dance on main stage, and "make it rain" guy sees me, hollers "YEAH!", and walks up to the stage. He takes a shit-ton of dollars (approx $100-200), and throws it up in the air. I'm pretty excited, because the first hour I was there, it was really slow.

    About 30 seconds later, this girl walks up, and starts CLEANING UP ALL MY CASH. I kneeled down, trying to talk to her. I asked her, "hey....hey...what are you doing, are you helping me?". She looked away TWICE. The 3rd time, she said, "some of this is mine". She hadn't been on stage in a long time - it wasn't "leftover" - LOL. I couldn't believe my ears. Hers? WTF??? I couldn't get off stage at that point - so I watched her collecting all the cash. I finished my stages, and went to talk to a manager.

    I was then pretty much, "brushed off" by Al, our daytime manager (who I REALLY liked up until this point). He pretty much said, "we can't ask her to give it back", and walked off!!! I followed him and said, "hey, DON'T write this off Al...this isn't right". We then proceeded to go back and forth a bit, ending with him raising his voice to me, on the main floor. I was just stunned.

    I sat down with a customer that was sitting near the stage and witnessed it all. He offered to talk to the manager(s) as well....to attest to what he saw. He even told me, "I thought she was a waitress or something, trying to help you out. I can't believe she did that".

    I was livid. Actually, livid is not the word. I could NOT find her at this point - of course she was hiding. I was shaking, I was that mad. I tipped out the housemom, and headed to the DJ booth. While talking to the DJ, another dancer that has been there 3 years - told me, "Don't ever talk to Al, he won't handle ANYTHING", "talk to Steven". So I did. I had never met Steven, but he pretty much blew me off as well.

    I went to the DR, got undressed, and was about to take off - then the DR phone rang, and it was Thomas (a night manager). He asked me to come talk to him in the office. He pretty much listened to the story, but then proceeded to take this girl's side, saying EXTREMELY irrelevant things (like how many 1's she cashed in that day). Basically saying, she made a shitload off that table and just WOULDN'T steal my money. LAUGHABLE!

    It got to one point, I said, "there are cameras everywhere, just watch the damn tape". It's NOT hearsay. It's ON VIDEO. Plus, I had customers out there, ready to tell him what happened, who saw it with their own eyes!!! They pretty much blew it off, told me to calm down, and not to let this "get to me". Are they kidding? It's not even the cash value of it....it's the damn principle. Where do they draw the line? That was my money. If someone steals from me, they don't do a thing? I guess this is SC reality, staring me in the face.

    The girl (yes, GIRL) that took my money just turned 18, started just a few weeks before me, is completely uneducated and GHETTO. She missed work for a week because she broke her nose (fighting a GUY). Classy bitch.

    I mean, how trashy is this??? To crawl on your hands and knees, picking up MY tips? Ugh. Before she walked off (whule I was still on stage), I said, "wow, that is f*cking shady, I guess you need it that bad?". I have so much more I WANT to say at this point, but I'm afraid to even confront her, for fear of losing my temper and doing something I will regret. She is not worth that. But goddamn. I am so mad right now.

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    Wow, I'm really sorry this happened! You definitely handled it A LOT better than I would. I would have hunted that bitch down & thrown a huuuuuuuuuuuuge fit. I might of hit her once or twice as well.

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    Don't say anything to her. I had something like this happen to me once. It's really messed up! i'm sorry you had to go through that.

    If you would've beat her ass then they wouldv'e stepped in but you try to go about it the right way and they don't do shit? honestly I would've did the wrong thing lol I wouldve went in her purse in front of her face and took my money out then she would've companed as well and the owners would have no choice but to investigate.

    This is a classic case of girls fucking managers and getting special privliges like the ability to steal money and get away with it
    before you point the finger make sure your hands are clean

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    OMFG what fucking asshole managers! and that stupid bitch. I once had someone steal $100 from me when I was on stage too. Now I always collect all before anyone tries to take it. I would feel weird going back to that club after something like that.

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    That's happened to me before with one of those instances where a guy "makes it rain". The girl just collected all the tips and refused to split them with me, no one would listen either. I didn't care that much because later the big spender bought a long string of dances with me. If he hadn't spent money on me, I would have hunted her down and made her give the money back, maybe by collecting collateral, like her makeup bag or hair straightener. Girls are bitches, she sounds like she needs a talking to.
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    oh HELL no!!!!! wtf?!?! i would have been piping hot mad.

    Fuck that shit. I can't believe they wouldn't stickup for you (the managers). What limp-dicks.

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    Just some of the random excuses I heard from management:

    ~ "Her story sounds feasible" (her story was: I was just helping her pick up her money. I set it on her stage).
    ~ "She has cashed in 400 singles today". (and your point is WHAT??? She's stealing them!!)
    ~" She works 3 days a week and is here before 11am. (Again, COMPLETELY irrelevant, and I have no idea why that would make her most trustworthy).
    ~ " When guys are throwing money, it's a free-for-all". (NOT when it's on MY stage!! If it's on the floor, at a table with multiple dancers, then sure, I can SEE that.)
    ~ "We can't ask for her to give the money back, it doesn't work that way". (this is AFTER they made the housemom give back the money SHE took earlier in the day, from another dancer who had it "rain" on them, and left a few bucks under some chairs).
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    Are you going back?

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    OMG. I would flip my shit.

    When people stop being reasonable, I stop being reasonable. I would freak the fuck out if this happened to me. Tears would surely be involved.

    You handled this in an impressively professional way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by *Iris* View Post
    Are you going back?
    I plan to.

    I make really good money there, and they have been very understanding about my need to work short shifts (4-5 hours). I LOVED my club up until today. Never had any serious issues with any manager, and stayed away from any drama with the dancers. I have already been hired at The Lodge, so I don't know....I think I need to calm down and sleep on all of this before I make any major decisions. I'm still so mad.
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    I don't think that many clubs care about how many hours you work. I typically would work only 4-5-6 hours, just saying.

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    Wow, kudos to you girl for dealing with it so well. If that was me I would've stopped dancing for a sec and pushed all the tips aside...lol..well actually at the club I worked at some of the girls and I were good friends OTC so one of them would've stopped her right there so I wouldn't have to stop dancing.
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    When girls like this create problems like that, they usually dont last long ya know? Hopefully someone will run her out or she will move on to a new club. It was fucked up though.
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    Holy shit. I would have flipped out- you handled it really maturely, and I'm sorry that being mature doesn't work in shady stripclubland.

    I'd try another club. You have a sneak peek of what management would do if you were ever assaulted, or if a customer ever ripped you off.

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    woooow I got so pissed reading your post. It wasn't like she took some trivial ammt. of money from you. It was like 10+ freaking dollars! Don't you think thats odd how no matter what happens managers will never watch security tapes. Doesn't matter if it was stolen make-up or a car got broken into- they wont watch them! Seems suspicious.

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    WWWWWWHHHOOOAAA NOT COOL.

    I hate when you see all these DRUNK crazy 18 yr old children dancing and acting like idiots. They arent even supposed to be drinking!!!!!!!!!!! Funny how that got overlooked.....

    Anyway, good for you for not beating the living crap out of her I probably would have flipped out royally

    She sure has BIIIIIIGGGG balls to just go up on stage and start taking money?!?!

    There has only been a couple times that my stage was so flooded with singles that I needed help...I grabbed the closest girl that I knew and asked her specifically "Can you help me ??" If I don't ask you to- DON'T HELP!!!!

    If its not your money DON'T TOUCH IT unless asked

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    I'm so sorry babe, I can't believe the nerve of that bitch!! And I really can't believe NO ONE took your side! Wow...people....*shakes head* Good luck on whatever you decide to do next, I hope it works out for you.

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    I have to commend you too on how maturely you handled it. She is a sad individual with no dignity... you know you're much better than a dumb girl like that. If that had been me, I would've stopped dancing and started picking up all my tips... I can't believe this chick stole from you in the open and management doesn't do shit!
    good luck with your decision... the fact that management was acting like that would be enough for me to leave... not to mention the fact that if you stay you're going to have to work with this girl.
    you're super hot and I'm SURE you will make good money anywhere you go.

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    OMG I would have killed a bitch. Kudos for being such a grown up.

    Since there's nothing you can do about it at this point, try and write it off as karma. The next girl she tries that shit on might not be anywhere as cool as you...

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    Just reading this made me really mad. I have a pretty level head, but if I had been in that situation, I called her out, and she didn't give the money back...

    If I were you, I would speak with her briefly and just make sure she doesn't think she can try something like that again with you. But Luxurious1 is right, you might not have to worry about her for very long.
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    Wow!!!! Low down dirty thieving trashbag. I mean seriously, how pathetic to get down on you knees and steal another girl's tips. Wow, I hope I never see this happen.

    So sorry txchick, I'm surprised at the managers' attitude, I know your club, its a good one, that just really sucks.

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    A lot of moron douchebag managers will brush off complaints between girls because it is far easier than actually managing strippers (which, to be fair, is kind of like wrangling cats). There is, unfortunately, nothing to be done about this fact. The guys you will work with in strip clubs tend to be retarded and will always take the path of least resistance regardless of what it might sprout in the future. Like they don't care who is right or wrong or what might happen next week - they care about what is easiest for them to implement today, and it would not be easy to get your money back.

    I'm not exactly sure what you can do about it. It sounds like you handled it as reasonably as you could; you could maybe ask how they will handle it next time?
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    wow. I would have been livid as well, bt I would have walked off the damn stage and followed tha bitch and demanded m money back. I'm not a fighter, I wouldn't have screamed and threatened, but I would have followed her and calmly demanded she give me my money back. If she refused..I would just wait until her next stage and when she got tips walked up and picked them up off her stage. When she would say what are you doing I would say..oh, some of it's mine.

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    ^^Ha! That's awesome.

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