After about 8 months and only hanging out 3-4 times I decided it was "over" with this girl. She was turning me into some sort of stupid lovesick puppy, I was always calling and texting to hang out- go roller blading or have her over to see my puppy, new house, etc and she was just too stoned to get it together, put her damn clothes and make-up on and leave the house.
The thing is- I started a joint credit card with her so that she could get her boobs done. My credit is awesome and she had none. Every month it's been the same sad song and dance where we have to use MY bank account to pay it and she gives me the money back later. She pays late every time. That'll go on MY credit score eventually! Well, when she called me up ONLY to use my account and didn't return my calls about hanging out- I'd had enough.
It hurts to know that in reality it was ME who got the brush-off. ME who wasn't important enough. But I feel good about sticking up for myself and leaving a a voice message saying that "I'm done".
When it's all said and done she was stupid anyway. She was a "body basher" always so down on her little invisible flaws. Thats why she couldn't leave her house or whatever. That shit is contagious!! I'd have nothing to talk to her about if I didn't invent insecurities which I don't even have!!! I'm glad I'm finally done waiting for her responses. It was weird. Anyone have similar stories or input?
BTW- in my message to her I also gave her an option to still be my friend. I said- If you are just really depressed or something and thats why you've been acting like this then I totally understand... (so I still sound like a wuss still-whatevs)



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