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    I dumped my best friend I guess

    After about 8 months and only hanging out 3-4 times I decided it was "over" with this girl. She was turning me into some sort of stupid lovesick puppy, I was always calling and texting to hang out- go roller blading or have her over to see my puppy, new house, etc and she was just too stoned to get it together, put her damn clothes and make-up on and leave the house.

    The thing is- I started a joint credit card with her so that she could get her boobs done. My credit is awesome and she had none. Every month it's been the same sad song and dance where we have to use MY bank account to pay it and she gives me the money back later. She pays late every time. That'll go on MY credit score eventually! Well, when she called me up ONLY to use my account and didn't return my calls about hanging out- I'd had enough.

    It hurts to know that in reality it was ME who got the brush-off. ME who wasn't important enough. But I feel good about sticking up for myself and leaving a a voice message saying that "I'm done".

    When it's all said and done she was stupid anyway. She was a "body basher" always so down on her little invisible flaws. Thats why she couldn't leave her house or whatever. That shit is contagious!! I'd have nothing to talk to her about if I didn't invent insecurities which I don't even have!!! I'm glad I'm finally done waiting for her responses. It was weird. Anyone have similar stories or input?

    BTW- in my message to her I also gave her an option to still be my friend. I said- If you are just really depressed or something and thats why you've been acting like this then I totally understand... (so I still sound like a wuss still-whatevs)

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    Default Re: I dumped my best friend I guess

    Good for you. I recently decided that I didn't want negative people on my life. There are some people that I don't talk to anymore. It's hard but in the long run better for me.

    I wish I had an answer about the credit card situation. Since it's in both of your names your still going to have to pay it, if she doesn't, then take her to court for her half. Be sure to keep records of all of the payments you make and that she gives you, write her a receipt for her payments.

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    Default Re: I dumped my best friend I guess

    Quote Originally Posted by KennedyWinters View Post
    The thing is- I started a joint credit card with her so that she could get her boobs done. My credit is awesome and she had none.
    Really. Bad. Move.
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    Is it possible for you to cancel the card or do both of you need to do that since it's joint?

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    That sucks that she used you like that. I've been through this before and it really hurts. I wouldn't break off your friendship completely if you still want payments for her boobjob. Still be friendly towards her because if you get hostile or rude to her, you won't get any money back. I would contact a lawyer as well to see if there is any way you can get out of paying for her boob job.

    I had to learn the hard way as well not to trust people with money. My mom gave me good advice that I still go by - She said Never lend out money and if I do, I should consider it a gift because I probably won't get it back. I lent a friend a few hundred because she was down on her luck and bouncing from friend's house to house and she spent all the money on drugs and anytime she would get any extra money to pay me back, she would spent it on something else and she actually ended up physically attacking me because I kept pressing the issue that she owed me money.

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    She wasn't using me really....Her mom's credit was bad and I was her only real friend at the time. She felt like her life was spiraling out of control because her self esteem was so low (presumably due to having no boobs in life). I couldn't bear to watch her fuck stupid guys one after the other thinking each might really love her. Turns out she just fucked more of them after she got boobs!!

    So the entire balance is hers, I'm the secondary (aka default) cardholder. I assume she will keep paying because she shouldn't be so retarded that she fucks up her own credit. How would she get a loan for the second operation? Making them even bigger?

    And yes the card has been cancelled (by me) many months back when she first started being shady.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KennedyWinters View Post
    . I assume she will keep paying because she shouldn't be so retarded that she fucks up her own credit.
    Yeah. No one ever does that.
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    I think you've hit the nail on the head, Kennedy, when you talk about the negative orbit this woman is in being contagious--it is, and that is an even greater danger than the financial stuff. Good for you for using your instincts and moving away from this situation. I hope you'll keep your guard up, and look for friendships now that help your heart, rather than injure it. Hang in there.
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