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    What do you think: Am I doing the right thing? (LONG RANT)

    So, I have decided that I do not want my daughter around my SO's family. His mother needs to take her depression meds, but won't take them, because they make her "face break out" that is not a good reason to stop taking them, especially since she doesn't show that she cares about how she looks physically anyways. She filed a cps report on me, and when cps came to visit they were saying the accusations were ridiculous. I know she was trying to hurt me by doing that, but she would have gotten our daughter taken away from both of us if we didn't prove those things untrue.

    she even got jealous that friends of ours had our daughter over with their neice and nephew to play so she filed a report out on the guy saying that our daughter said he hurt her she even got graphic in the report with her BS, how she supposedly got a stuffed animal and made it look like it was giving the other stuffed animal a bj, my daughter doesn't even know what that is! I had to get her examed, she got pictures of her privates taken, they had to do a physical exam, thank God she's only 4 years old, because if she were older she would probably be pretty messed up about this. His mother admitted that she shouldn't have done that.

    All this BS happened after I was nice enough to let him take her over to his mothers for her bday, he was supposed to stay there with her, and not spend the night but he left my daughter alone with her and when I found out I got mad, so he stayed there like a little pussy and they control him like no other, so he wouldn't give me my daughter so I could take her home with me, his mom and sister told me on the phone that he can live there with them, and aaliyah, and pay them rent. His sister and mom would be the ones taking care of her because he is so trusting of idiots, why would I want someone that has had 5 abortions to take care of my child when she obviously doesn't even want her own children, or his mother who has 4 children that are fucked up in the head; a murderer, one in jail for drugs (has been in & our for 6 years) seriously the longest he's ever been out was 9 months!!, a super slut star fuck daughter who is materialistic & self absorbed to the extreme!, and a 28 year old baby, who doesn't even know how to do a money order!!

    I don't want her to be around those people because they are manipulating, and they know how to "talk" and make you impressed, especially since his mother claims she's a minister! hah! and his sister thinks she can intimidate you, because she's "worked for an attorney"... You believe there BS when you don't really know them, and if you believe their BS when you know them your either a child, or a fucking idiot. I was 17-20 when I believed there BS, younger and dumber... He thinks i'm just holding a grudge, and I think I'm being smart what do you think.

    Do you think that his Mother doesn't deserve to see my daughter, because she has crossed the line? She's pulled stupid stunts before and I forgave her and continued to let her see my daughter, and I pretended to like her for my SO's sake, and she eventually pulled the stunts again! I feel somewhat heartless, but when it comes to my daughter's safety and wellbeing that is going to come first... Sorry that was sooo long!
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    In my opinion, there are no normal strippers though... it's like a bag of jelly beans, they're all made of sugar but come in all different colors and flavors. (I think I'd be the root beer kind... mmmmm.)

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    Default Re: What do you think: Am I doing the right thing? (LONG RANT)

    Would you mind editing your post and breaking it into paragraphs? i want to read what you typed.

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    Default Re: What do you think: Am I doing the right thing? (LONG RANT)

    Ok no problem, sorry lol it was an angry rant
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    Quote Originally Posted by MichelleJade View Post
    In my opinion, there are no normal strippers though... it's like a bag of jelly beans, they're all made of sugar but come in all different colors and flavors. (I think I'd be the root beer kind... mmmmm.)

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    Default Re: What do you think: Am I doing the right thing? (LONG RANT)

    Thanks it's good to know that I'm not the only one that thinks that, because the SO, just thinks I need to grow up, because his mother told him she's not mad at me. Shes playing mind games with him, she has him thinking that I'm the bad person now, and that she is acknowledging a mistake and wanting forgiveness.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MichelleJade View Post
    In my opinion, there are no normal strippers though... it's like a bag of jelly beans, they're all made of sugar but come in all different colors and flavors. (I think I'd be the root beer kind... mmmmm.)

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    Default Re: What do you think: Am I doing the right thing? (LONG RANT)

    You need to do whats best for your daughters safety and it sounds like your trying to do the right thing, I don't let my daughter see SO's parents and they havent done anything fucked up (his mom is crazy and those are the types of things I could see her doing and both her kids are beyond fucked up). Stick with what you feel is best for your daughter and fuck what anyone else has to say cuz if you don't protect your kid who will?
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    Default Re: What do you think: Am I doing the right thing? (LONG RANT)

    Redhot, I think you hit it on the head when you say that your daughter is the most important in all of this--you must keep her clear of all of the crazy emotions swirling in this family and do your best to let her have some kind of normal childhood. My instinct would be that it would be worthwhile perhaps to reach out for some help--perhaps through a Women's Crisis Center, so that you can be aided in your efforts and, also, so that you have some documentation by professionals in case the family really does try to get your daughter to live with them. Take this one step at a time and if you feel it is justified, reach out for that help. The calm, steady approach is the winning one in this situation: don't allow yourself to get sucked into the frantic emotions this family seems to be displaying. Fight a calm, steady, disciplined war for your daughter, and listen to the good instinct you have that her interests are always first, and all will be well. I wish you much luck with this.
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    Default Re: What do you think: Am I doing the right thing? (LONG RANT)

    ^^ great advice.

    Redhot, wow, I feel for you.

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    Default Re: What do you think: Am I doing the right thing? (LONG RANT)

    The grandparents have no legal rights to see her, and they have lost all moral rights after pulling that stunt with child services. thats fucking wrong.

    If your SO cannot see how out of control that is then he doesnt have the necessary perspective to be involved in making this decision. Maybe consider some kind of family counseling to help him understand.

    The problem I can see is how are you going to stop him taking her there? Does he respect you enough to not take her there if you say you dont want him to? Can you make some kind of deal where they can come sometimes to visit her if they wont to at your home?

    Your instincts are definitely spot on here, best of luck.
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