ok so basically im single, was in a ltr for 4.5 years and shit went sour. been single since FEB. so i was advised to join eharm. thinking to myself that its a shot at my manhood i didnt at first. then i said what the hell.
so i met a few chicks, one im actively perusing now. so we met 5 weeks ago, had coffee and chatted for about 2 hours then i took her home. she said that if she thought i was a creep she would not have let me know where she lives.
so date #2 (first real date) i take her out to a really nice restaurant, we eat and everything is going great. then i show her my house, she comes in and we watch tv for about 2 hours then i take her home. i ask for a little kiss, kiss her a few times and she says "o ur so cute". so overall very good night
date #3, i told her i would help her paint her apartment. so last saturday i get there at 10am, paint almost her entire apt. it was so damn muggy and hot i was sweating like u wouldnt believe. then her mother stops by and i met her mom and step father. so im thinking, well thats out of the way. then she wants to take me out for dinner for helping her. she gets ready then we head over to my place so i can get ready. well as soon as we arrive at our destination her gets a call from her step mother saying her father has been emitted to the ER. so i take her to the hospital and drop her off. so i had planned on getting a little physical with her after dinner at my house while watching a movie but unfortunately things happened. whatever, i helped her paint (basically did it all myself), met her mother and moved a heavy microwave cart up the stairs. so i think im doing good and have a good in so far.
so last night i text her saying,"lonely tonight?" and i got nothing back. im thinking she just didnt get it and when she did she decided not to text me back or something. im prob thinking too deep into this.
so what i need from u ladies is....
-was that too soon to ask to see her during the week?
-should i try to get physical with her this weekend?
-should i ask her how she feels about me and if she thinks we have a future?
so far i like her a lot and i dont want to mess anything up. she is smart sexy and has a huge heart.
im new to this dating stuff. when i was in HS and college girls flocked to me, but since then i have put on 90lbs (muscle) and seems a lot harder to get chicks. and im not looking for just any chick, i want marriage material.
PLEASE HALP!



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should i wait on the physical stuff?


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