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    imagining stuff? Talking to a friend about beauty and about a poem I wrote, very loved poem anyway we got to talking on chat and this is what she said...

    Person

    you are my idol
    9:40pmLola

    well I have good days and bad days
    perhaps my ex did a lot of damage

    oh God no
    9:41pmperson

    u r
    9:41pmLola

    well I am flattered
    but I am not someone to be idolized lol
    9:43pmperson

    stop it yes u r
    9:43pmLola

    lol
    ok if you say so
    9:44pm person


    Lola if I was a man I would kill someone for you
    9:44pmLola

    oh my lol
    9:44pmperson

    man miss you
    9:44pmLola

    aww
    miss you too
    9:45pmperson

    I miss you rather
    9:45pmLola

    lol
    hey brb
    9:45pmperson

    it's been friggin 10 years since we have seen each other
    ok




    Now I didn't know how to respond but yeah umm what?


    This is a friend from jr high and I dunno that seemed odd to me, am I weird?


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    Holy Hyperbole! Yeah, maybe a little overboard HHL considering the circumstances.

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    what does that word mean HB? is it me? I have horrid grammar, and a small vocabulary!

    and it felt odd reading this from her.


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    Someone has to be the Grinch and see the worst (or best? depending on how you want to look at it). Maybe a gay plead for a mercy loving from someone who use to have the hots for you?

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    I dunno, she's married got 5 kids, never showed any signs of having any desire towards me, we were best friends but we were kids.


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    Quote Originally Posted by High-Heel-Lover View Post
    what does that word mean HB? is it me? I have horrid grammar, and a small vocabulary!

    and it felt odd reading this from her.
    Hyperbole:

    1.obvious and intentional exaggeration. 2.an extravagant statement or figure of speech not intended to be taken literally, as “to wait an eternity.”

    You were best friends at one time....that makes it slightly less weird.

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    ohhhhhhhhh I see.

    Yeah see ok here is the thing, I kinda have best friends, this was 6th grade and we were close but we were kids and see I have not spoken to her in years! last time I saw her was 10 yrs ago cause I came from PR and this was after 7 yrs of not seeing each other, so basically we were together as friends for 2 yrs, then I moved, came back when I was 18 and now we found each other online.


    She keeps calling me her best friend in the world and I, I'm sorry but I don't feel that way towards her, but I don't want to hurt her feelings, I like her, but every time we talk the world is a pile of shit! she need prof help, she seems so depressed, and I mean it every time we speak, almost every other day online it's just horrible, never good news and it's draining me!

    So this comment made me feel well, weird!


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    you think I am a horrid person don't you?


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    Nope. It sounds like your friend(?) is a bit depressed raising 5 kids and most likely doesn't have anybody she can talk to besides you. Lots of times these people are anchors that will just drag down any kind of relationship. Dealing with this kind of a person can be draining, especially if she isn't really a "close friend".

    The fact that you are even thinking that you might be a horrid person shows you are not. The horrid person wouldn't give a damn.

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    Quote Originally Posted by High-Heel-Lover View Post
    you think I am a horrid person don't you?
    No, of course not HHL. You are not horrid for wondering/asking about that, nor otherwise feeling a bit uneasy about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by High-Heel-Lover View Post
    She keeps calling me her best friend in the world and I, I'm sorry but I don't feel that way towards her, but I don't want to hurt her feelings, I like her, but every time we talk the world is a pile of shit! she need prof help, she seems so depressed, and I mean it every time we speak, almost every other day online it's just horrible, never good news and it's draining me!

    So this comment made me feel well, weird!
    Well, my SO has a woman friend who calls here, and I mean a lot. Maybe 2-3x a day at times. Maybe more when I am not here.

    I only get to hear my SOs side of the discussions and the messages on the machines, but basically everyone is a variation of "there is a new crisis in my life today, and so on and so on". I now have a nick name for her, and occasionally I write my SO notes, mock messages, parodying the messages, which would probably make good stuff for Country Western lyrics.

    So then perhaps she is of the same type. A truly miserable and depressed person who has, for the moment, latched on to you as her savior. And yea, it is ABNORMAL. And yea it is draining... it is okay to feel compassion, but some people are so sick they will drain anyone.

    p.s. This woman actually sounds somewhat like my mother who did that too her whole life. Idealized people, and quite literally drained them if they allowed it, then she'd become angry at them when they could not longer bear it, and she just moved from person to person like that in life. Sad, but it happens.

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    I see, well thanks. I was just well it freaked me out!


    I'll just give it time and space, every other day respond cause I just can't! Thanks my blue side


    On a side not, I had never sewn before and I decided to do so and to keep away from the comp for a while I made cat pillows, not pillows made out of cats but pillows for cats! 15 of them, for $15!!! them damn things are freaking so pricey at the stores I was like oh screw that! I yelled at the machine and had to take many breaks but I did it! I DID!

    Oh and for an extra kick I put some cat nip inside, my cat and my foster cat came out and they were going nuts!!! so I think the cats at the shelter will like them


    I am such a weirdo but I love it!


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    !

    Oh and for an extra kick I put some cat nip inside, my cat and my foster cat came out and they were going nuts!!! so I think the cats at the shelter will like them


    I am such a weirdo but I love it![/quote]


    This is sooo cool. YOU ARE MY IDOL!!!! Seriously I might not kill for you but I would for sure fuck somebody up!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by 99baloons View Post
    !

    Oh and for an extra kick I put some cat nip inside, my cat and my foster cat came out and they were going nuts!!! so I think the cats at the shelter will like them


    I am such a weirdo but I love it!

    This is sooo cool. YOU ARE MY IDOL!!!! Seriously I might not kill for you but I would for sure fuck somebody up!!![/quote]
    hahahaa


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