So, I am curious. Is there some sort of rule that dancers live by that says they can't say ANY truth to a customer? I understand that the club is a fantasy, but if I say, "I'm fine" with you wanting my money and I am happy to give that money to you (within reason). Why do you have to continue to lie about everything related to you?
My ATF is always telling me that she wants a number to call me (but she doesn't have a phone) and that we should do dinner OTC (but she's really busy). I recognize these as part of "the hustle" and to be clear, I don't want to know her real name or where she lives or her phone number (and I have never asked for any of these things).
When I call her on the BS, she won't admit to it. For instance, she offers up "I don't have a home phone". I say, "Nobody who has a home doesn't have a phone" . She talks about needing 3000/ month to pay her bills (another sales ploy), but in there is no phone wrapped up in that 3000? Give me a break. I would love her to admit that she has a phone, but doesn't give it out or doesn't feel comfortable giving it to me (seeing as she brought it up in the first place she could have just remained silent about the matter)
I don't think she owes me the truth about her life, but come on. Can't we be honest about the relationship in the club (relationship in the loosest terms. meaning two people who communicate). Or at least tell better lies.
I suppose it might be fear of a customer stalking them that creates this wall, but maybe it is hatred of customers. I have lied to people I didn't think were on my level (when I was younger) and maybe that is the case here. I would hate to think that cuz you want to think if you tip well dress and smell ok. that you won't be hated, but who knows.
I look at stripclubs as the same as getting a massage or a haircut or a good dentist. I have certain people who give me a great haircut or whatever. I want to go back to them, but if they started telling me outlandish lies all the time. I am not gonna go back. In this case, the conversation and dances are good enough that I come back, but I come back less often now than before she started this nonsense.
I guess I am just wondering what motivates that kind of behavior for other dancers? Just curious.
PS I accidentally posted this in another forum on this site. Newbie mistake. my bad.



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, if my hairstylist is a pathological liar.... but he can cut my hair better than anyone else and charges a fair price... I don't give a rat's ass which big tittied Astronaut Babe he is fucking or whether he has dinner with Elvis's ghost on a regular basis.
You have answered your own question. You care about the truth... just not enough to quit seeing her. In the end.... it doesn't really matter what sort of hoop-la she spews. You're just another horny, red-blooded, man and you want your Boobie fix!




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