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    I've worked in clubs for ages, I spent 6 months in one club where they fired girls on the spot for being nasty, so it was probably the nicest place to work cos there was a real sisterhood amongst the girls there. I moved cities, went to a new club without rules, and still the girls were cool. And then I got a really good offer from a woman manager at another club, like unbelieble offer, so I went. I turned up and every single room is fingerprint entry, even the lap dance room, two other girls also started the same night as me. They were automatically given entry, I was told my entry wouldn't be granted until I'd passed my "1 month trial". Now these two were complete newbies, I was actually able to hand the managers references for my dancing! So for that I thought it a little unfair, but thought whatever.

    Then I went to the dressing room to get into my costume. Now the girls in the room were average at best (aside from about 2 hot girls). Both the management women walked in and started pointing out my flaws "you're thighs are a size too big, you have cellulite here etc etc" in front of everyone. "You need to be hot for men to want you". Ok then bitch.

    They then said get out on stage, I was about to walk out, but thought, no I'll make a truckload tonight then never come back. I got up and the DJ announced me then said "Be nice, it's her first night with us, you'll see the real standard later." And then I kidd you not "This was Penthouses Miss May, they should have come here to get there girl first." This pissed me, I'm one of the top men's magazine features world wide currently, and I could have ripped the mic out of the DJ's hand and rattled off 27centrefolds and 14 covers I've had in 2 years.

    While the DJ was saying this the dancers were whispering to customers, pointing at me and laughing. I overheard one girl say "Penthouse likes larger thighs". I'm a f***ing size 8, or in the US a 2!

    I stormed off and went right into management and went off at them. The ironic thing was they had specifically sent one of there workers into my old club to get me, and my old club new that I'd left for another club because they made a point of calling them to tell them there star earner was leaving, so I can't go back there. I can find a new club to work at easily and have regular patrons (or stalkers) follow me there, but my problem is this, obviously the case was an isolated attack on a rival club, but how do you deal with actual cases of girls being bitches, I've never had it happen. Do I just follow my natural tendency to beat them with a trolley pole or not?

    And also, has anyone else ever had an experience of clubs rivalling with each other like this?

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    Arrrrgghhhhh I have checked 12 countries with penthouse and a different size system to the us 2:8 and there isn't a single one that matches! I want photos!


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    Hmmm. That's really nasty. But as soon as girls find out u have been in a magazine or won miss nude or whatever they will judge u harshly coz they are a tad bit jealous.

    I've seen it happen at my club. Sometimes we get miss nudes or penthouse girls who come and feature and I always hear criticisms of them.

    I wouldnt even let them know that it bothers you. Act confident in yourself. Let them be pissed off and jealous. If someone is that insecure about themselves that they are worried about the size of your thighs, u have to kind of pitty them.
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    Size 2 or 8 or anywhere in between.... still a great size and no where near being fat or 'big thighed' . They suck.



    p.s Or any size over! Sorry, I wasn't saying big isn't beautiful or anything lol.
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    I follow the sweet as sugar approach. One girl is trying her hardest to run me out of my current club but i'm totally water off a ducks back about it and act oblivious. It riles her up to no end. (incidently she has't been seen ina few weeks so I think she has left because she isn't making money!).
    OFC its a different story when its a whole club of women against you, but I can almost guarantee theres nothing undesirable about your figure and they were just looking to pick you apart because of your credits.

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    This was simple jealousy. I know that doesn't make it feel any better but it's the truth. How to deal? Ignore it as best you can or find a new and better working environment. Seriously, you do centerfolds. You know you can do better than that place. You have nothing to prove to that club. Go bank somewhere that deserves you instead.

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    They just lost quite a woman didn't they? Screw them. You are better off somewhere where you are respected. Keep your smile on your face like it never happened.





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    Check the avatar Lysondra - That's from my recent Penthouse shoot.

    Australia has a 8:2 conversion to US sizing, because your 0 is our 6.

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    Um, I'm Australian too!! Anywy it's actually 0-4 in American. 2 is 6 and 4 is 8.

    BUT YAY!!! I know who you are now! I'm grabbing your mag!

    Don't listen to those bitches, they suck. You're really really beautiful. I even remember seeing that mag. Just ignore them... and plead to have your old job back.


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    wow, that was mean of the dj. I can see the girls talking shit but the dj..and over the mike? grrr...I wouldent make that club one more cent!
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    This is how you deal with bitches,

    DONT DEAL WITH THEM...


    This is a job were you have to deal with enough already i'm not dealing with some crabby broads. While they are back stage talking shit ill be on the floor racking up!!

    Same goes for the dj also, you mess up my shit and you think im gonna tip you.. hell no. I let the dj's know that we need to get an understanding. and that guy was a total ass.


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    Size 2? Well fuck at a size 5 they'd think I'm a whale.

    I'm sorry hun. Just another case of stupid people (that don't know what they are doing) doing stupid things. A bunch of "Mental Midgets" IMO.

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    Thanks Lysondra!

    Maybe my sizing idea was wrong, I'm not sure. I was just looking at a couple of pairs of Bonds knickers I have with their sizing conversion thing and that's what it said on the tag, but I googled it and Google says your sizing conversion was right. Battle between Bonds and Google, : ) 8 is still tiny anyway.

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    maybe you should change your perception and your expectations.

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    I don't think I would've taken it seriously. They are full of shit... LMAO. And I would've told them so.... I would've said I like my god damn cellulite and my big thighs! And probably flaunted my thighs around on stage to prove it!

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    WTF? what kind of DJ talks a girl down? I can see the catiness with the house mom and the other women, but the DJ disrespecting you like [email protected]?!

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    Yeah, well it was odd about the DJ, because I know girls do bitch, I have no illusions about that.

    From where I'm standing though it looked massively like they did it because I was my old clubs top earner and their big feature, so they came and "recruited" me to take me out of their and then use me as an example to the custy's of why the other club was bad or something, cos I know my old club and their club are massive rivals, I just thought when they offered me a position at their club they were doing to take girls away from there, not to use me that way.

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    It's just jealousy and that won't stop the custies from wanting you!

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    Oh, wow, that's horrible! Last club I worked at was full of bitches, but I just said "fuck it," and only worked my ren fair job while I was around.

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