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    Okay....

    I live in a duplex. My boyfriend and I share a driveway / garage, backyard and a common entrance in the back of the house with our neighbors.

    We each are supposed to have two parking spots. One each in the garage, one each on the lawn. In the garage, my neighbors have two mortorcycles and a boat on their side of the garage...whatever....they also have THREE other cars. One is a POS that won't start, permanantly stuck on the lawn. One is a large truck, and the other a sedan.

    The neighbors are CONSTANTLY parking me in. Constantly. Literally, about one out of every three times I go to get in my car (which is parked in the garage) I have to knock on their door and ask them to move their car. It doesn't sound like a big deal but when it happens damn near everyday, its fucking awful. It's made me late to work before. Now, again, I know maybe I should allow myself more time to get there, but I don't think I should have to factor in hunting down my neighbors and getting them to move their car.

    Last night at about 1 am I wanted to go out to meet up with a girlfriend. Well, guess what, the Sedan is parked in front of my fucking car!! I can't get out and they aren't home for me to get them to move the thing! I got really fucking furious because what if it was an emergency? What if my dogs were sick and I had to go to the vet? Hell what if I was sick or there was some reason I had to leave???

    So just now I look out into the backyard and the fucking Sedan is STILL THERE. I called my neighbor and asked her to move it and then was like, "Honestly, not to be a bitch but it was there last night too and I couldn't get out of the house. I have asked you guys a million fucking times to move your car!! This is rediculous!"

    I felt bad for snapping, but I really couldn't help it, it just came out. So, am I a bitch or what? I feel like I'm going to feel dumb next time I see the nieghbors.
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    Don't feel bad. I've had issues with 2 neighbors lately and have been putting on the smackdown.

    If they block you in again....see if you can have it towed....they will learn quick.

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    You are not being a bitch and you shouldn't say, "Sorry if I'm being a bitch...". You should just say, "Do not park your car here." If they continue to do it, they're fuckers and should expect it to be towed. Or, if you don't want the confrontation, get some of those orange cones and put them in the area. You could even put a stake in the top of one with a sign that says, "Do not park here". Or, "Which part of 'private parking' did you not understand?"
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    can you talk to your landlord about this?

    You're right about the need to leave in the event of an emergency.

    However you were nicer than me, I would have that car towed at their exspense to get out. but that's just me.
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    Are you kidding me, that is total bs, i wouldn't put up with that for one day and sounds like they are messing with you. If it is a rental i'd call your landlord and make them deal with it, threaten to hold back rent or something?

    I dunno good luck, that sucks....

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    ^^^

    Thanks guys I feel better! As far as talking to me landlord, he is actually a friend of mine but he is REALLY paranoid so if I tell him I've having problems with these kids downstairs he is going to go on a worry mission and confront them and it's all going to be a big mess. We each have two dogs and share the backyard so we see each other a lot and I don't want to turn it into a total cluster fuck....that said I think the cones are a GREAT idea !

    These kids aren't much younger than me, I think they're 23, but they're just those type of people that are disrespectful and don't give a fuck. They actually also did something disturbing I probably should report to my landlord that I forgot about a while ago. I have like a porcelain doll lamp I've had since childhood up in the attic. I went up there and the thing's cord was wrapped around its neck and was hanging from the ceiling.....not funny, and totally disrespectful to my shit.
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    Your not being a bitch I would have it towed also.

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    You arent being a bitch...THEY are the ones doing something wrong and they damn well know it. Would your friend evict them if they dont stop or do something retaliatory?

    And WTF with the doll thing?? Thats fucking creepy and just wrong.

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    Fuck that shit I would have been pissed if I had to ask the 2nd or 3rd time. Next time call someone to tow it. That will teach them to quit parking their shit in your parking space.

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    CK:

    He's the kind of person who just gets overly worked up about things. Case in point he called screaming at me because I came home stumbling drunk at 8 in the afternoon one time and his parents (who actually own the house) were at it and saw me. Well, I was coming home from my aunt's funeral which was two days after my grandmas funeral. I had every right to get fucked up out of my mind after that in my opinion, and in the privacy of my home with one polite quite friend over baby sitting me, but he didn't see it that way. I just don't want to start trouble, esp cause we live in such close quarters. Is that dumb? God I'm a pushover.



    Also, the doll thing was fucked up.
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    He called screaming at you for being drunk (and not causing trouble) and you refer to something like that as a "worry mission"? You need to stop walking on eggshells and put your foot down. If he calls and screams at you, tell him to call back when he has his head on straight and hang up (regardless if he's too busy screaming to hear it). If these kids are causing you problems, you can first try to deal with it yourself (which you did, quite fairly even), and then contact your over-reacting landlord and tell him that it's very important that he not lose his mind over this because it would make your life harder and you would be uncomfortable living there.

    You don't have to let people walk all over you just because they've got issues. But please, try not to ever use the term "not to be a bitch, but...". It makes you sound insecure about how you feel and people will take advantage of that. Try something like, "I'd really appreciate...", "I have discussed this issue with you before and...", "I need...", "I want...", "It is important that..."
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    I think you handled it fine. I'd be pissed too.

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    ^^^ Bella....

    You're right! I don't have a hard time asserting myself out in public or with strangers but I have issues with people I see all the time....I don't want them to dislike me, etc same thing with Steve my landlord. The truth about the situation is (and this is probably paranoid) I don't have a lease here. I got the apartment when Steve and my ex and I were still friends... I moved here bc my ex Z. was refinishing a house in the ghetto (seriously, the crack ghetto) to sell it and flip the property and I wasn't comfortable living there. So, I moved here and he is best friends with Steve. Z. actually redid all the hardwood floors in here, pulled up the carpets and everything and painted the house for me...ANYWAY Steve has been shitty to me since Z. and I broke up and now I live here with my BF. I don't want to move I love it here but I feel like my landlord is looking for an excuse to evict me out of loyalty to Z, not that Z. would want that, we're friendly but the situation makes Steve uncomfortable....So I am uber paranoid. (Ps we pay rent on time the only thing I ever did here was crash my car into the garage door trying to park in the snow, but I payed for it to be fixed right away)
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    I know moving sucks, but home is home and it's really important to feel comfortable where you live. I would suggest that you either tell Steve that you want some sort of legal binding contract (because he can fuck you over on so many different levels) or find somewhere else to live.
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    ^^^

    You are in fact totally right. I need to grow a pair of balls. ASAP.
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    I would just start parking in the driveway so they can't park you into the garage anymore. Yeah, you have to walk but its a lot easier than starting a fight. You're not a bitch for feeling entitled to your full half of the driveway. Sounds like you have issues with your neighbors.

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    OH hell no...get a lease NOW. If he wont sign one or gives you trouble..start looking for a new place. You're putting up with way too much with no legal backing to deal with it. Dont put yourself in that situation.Or at least get out of it now that you are in it...maybe ask your ex to talk to your landlord if you two are still friendly?

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    I'd have their car towed and when they ask me what happened to their car, well....

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    I would write them a notice that the next time you need to go somewhere and the car is there, you will have it towed at their expense. Don't call them names or use any foul language, just firmly state what the consequences will be the next time they park you in. That way they were notified, in writing, ahead of time.

    Then do it. If they park you in after that, call a tow company.

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    Seriously I'd tow them. I'd write them a note saying that I will tow their car if it is parked on my side of the driveway ever again and give one to the land lord and one to the neighbors and obviously keep a copy for yourself. After that, I wouldn't even waste my time asking them to move it, if I looked out the window and saw it out there I'd call a tower.

    That is one of my biggest pet peeves, seriously.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    I would write them a notice that the next time you need to go somewhere and the car is there, you will have it towed at their expense. Don't call them names or use any foul language, just firmly state what the consequences will be the next time they park you in. That way they were notified, in writing, ahead of time.

    Then do it. If they park you in after that, call a tow company.
    I was going to say the same thing. They know they aren't supposed to park there in the first place, and if you keep letting it slide, they're going to keep it up.

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    WTF, the doll thing was terrible. Why are they sharing so much common space with you? They seem more like roommates than neighbors. If they can't get along with others in peace, they should get kicked out.

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    ^^^

    I thought so too about the doll!! It was actually a bit scary. We have a ton of common space because the house is so hugewe have a large basement with two washers and two dryers (so we each have our own) and then above my apartment is an attic that is probably 1000 sq feet that we use for storage....there's only one two car garage and a large backyard also where we park our cars....We see each other esp a lot because we each have two dogs so I'm like always outside with them....
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    This is affecting your quality of life. You pay for two parking spots, so you should have them.

    If you confront them in person again, say something like, "if you would like to pay some of my rent since you are taking what is rightfully mine, then by all means..." Most likely they will decline your offer. That's when you hand them your written threat to tow them if they ever block you in or use up any of your side of the driveway. Take pictures before you have it towed so that if they take legal action, you will have proof. Make sure it is stamped with the time. Even take a photo when the tow truck is there. I would even ask the tow truck driver if he would be willing to issue a written statement on why he is towing the car.

    As for your stuff in the attic, I would take photos off all of that too, with time stamps on the photos, just in case any of it turns up wrecked. If they are that disrespectful, I wouldn't put it past them to mess with any of your stuff they have access to. Put your most valuable (sentimental or otherwise) possessions in your closet if you have room.

    I hope this works out. I hate crappy neighbors. If they wanted to take up the whole damn driveway, they should be living in a single house or get a damn apartment with a bunch of parking spaces! Grrr...it boils my blood
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    Yeah, that's fucking terrible. I despise people who do fuck with other people's property in private, and leave it so that you can't do anything about it. This reminds me of my parent's neighbors and their brattyass kids. I drove over to their house one time to visit. When I went to my car again, someone had placed a bloody bird wing on my car. Yeah, a wing by itself. And it had all the feathers and quills plucked off. WTF is wrong with some people these days.. just wait till they take their shit somewhere else and fuck with people who aren't as understanding.

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