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    I'm very interested in getting a BA but everyone suggests I wait until after I have kids. What is the reason for that? When I asked my friends, they only said "because that's what the surgeon says." I'm a 34A and would like to be a 36C. But I'm really worried about them hardening, even though I know about the massage technique and I want saline (teardrop? Can't remember if thats the technical name) trans-aux incision, completely under the muscle. I just gotta save the $4k for the procedure.
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    Default Re: Why wait to have kids first?

    probably because of breastfeeding and breast changes after the baby.

    that said, a friend of mine breastfed just fine with her implants.

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    Default Re: Why wait to have kids first?

    how far down the line do you want to have kids?

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    surgeons could also be covering their ass in case they [email protected]#$ your ability to breastfeed.

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    It can be because of the fact that your breast shape and size changes if you decide to breast feed. I went from a 34B to a 40DD to a 36 D.

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    Fuck that, I'd rather look good with big ol titties than be tied down with kids.

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    ahaha i feel the exact same way. ^

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    I didn't wait. I'm soooo hapy w my boobies, they doubled my money & all my clothes look better on now

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    Ooooohhhh! Well, does it matter if u pump the milk and feed it from a bottle. I'm still undecided on having kids. I'm 25 and know I want them but I don't see a decent guy in my near future. I'm hoping that I'm one of those women that is lucky and breast feeds fine with them because I'm desperate for them. LOL. Thanks for clearing that up!
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    no it doesn't matter whether you pump and bottle feed.

    your ideas on all this stuff will change when/if you come to it though.

    get your boobs and make sure you talk to your surgeon about that part of it.

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    If you do not get any type of nipple incision you should be able to breast feed with out a doubt. With a nipple incision your risking your chances of not being able to breast feed possibly. Especially if you require an incision that goes entirely around the nipple.
    I have pondered the same thing for a long time about waiting to have kids or not.
    If your not going to have kids for a few years then I'd say go for it!
    If you think your going to have your first baby in a year or two years your probably better off waiting.
    It seems like late twenties and early 30's are a good time to have your first.
    You have time to grow up, get settled with a good partner, be financially stable,etc.

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    I don't know a whole lot on the subject, but I'd bet that its because of how your boobs change after kids. If they get bigger, and then shrink, the skin stretches out, and you'll have a different sizing thing for the implants. Maybe ask?
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    It depends how long u plan to wait. If you are going to have kids int he next year or two then i'd say wait. If u dont know when u want kids then i wouldn't wait to get the boobs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sparkleeyz View Post
    I want saline (teardrop? Can't remember if thats the technical name) trans-aux incision, completely under the muscle. I just gotta save the $4k for the procedure.
    I have saline trans-ax implants placed completely under the muscle. As far as I know that means that none of my actual breast tissue is cut or messed around with in any way. Sure it stretches the boob a little (or in my case, a lot!) but nothing that has to do with breast feeding should be affected.
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    Default Re: Why wait to have kids first?

    I've known girls that have gotten pregnant within a year of getting implants. Some have had bad looking boobs after and some have head great looking boobs after. I think the important thing is to not get pregnant immediately after getting implants. A few years after shouldn't be a problem.

    I've know plenty of girls who have not had a problem breast feeding or pumping with implants.

    The one thing I've noticed about women who wait until after they have kids to get implants is the way they look afterward. I've never had kids or had any kind of dramatic weight loss so my breast were perky, small, but perky. Women who have stretched skin seem to get a more natural look sooner and more people think they are natural because they're not as perky, if that makes sense.

    When women get pregnant they run the risk of they're bodies changing, so if you want implants now, I say go for it. If you don't like the way your breasts look afterwards you can always have they redone.

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    Default Re: Why wait to have kids first?

    just a note on pumping the milk and feeding it through the bottle-
    i did this w/my daughter; i didn't have my boobs done yet, but in my opinion this is what ruined my boobs! (hence, why i got a boob job!)
    i had to pump so often and the pump puts such a suction on your entire boob and nipple area, i think mine were much more deflated then they would have been had a not done that. so, just a note that it really does change your boobs when you're pregnant/breastfeeding/pumping, whatnot.
    however, with that being said- if you want your boobs done go for it! if you don't know when your'e going to have kids, jsut get them done now, and if they look that bad after whenever you do have kids, you can always get them redone.
    good luck

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    ^^^Good to know! Thanks!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    I have saline trans-ax implants placed completely under the muscle. As far as I know that means that none of my actual breast tissue is cut or messed around with in any way. Sure it stretches the boob a little (or in my case, a lot!) but nothing that has to do with breast feeding should be affected.
    I believe there is the possibility of cutting nerves that connect to milk ducts with the trans-ax incision, even under the muscle, that's why I was more interested in the crease, when I was researching. I also read that all subsequent revision surgeries have to use the crease, so I figure you may as well do that to start so as to only have one scar.

    I have another consult this morning, so I'll ask.

    I decided against boobs, but I keep going in for more consults. Maybe I just want to be a plastic surgeon... OR maybe I have a thing for authority figures fondling my boobs...
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    so let's say you're a full A right now and you get your BA and they look "stiff" or yaknow, when girls get a pretty large size from small ones how they look swollen or tight? ---and then you have a baby and the sucking makes them sag, could it make them sit more naturally? or does breastfeeding make boobs look bad in general?

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    Why wait? Because having a baby equals a more than average weight gain and loss causing skin stretching which could have negative effect on the implants.

    Also many women’s breast do not look as good after giving birth and getting your BA then can make them look better or bring them back to their pre baby state.

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    For the record, breastfeeding isn't what ruins your breasts.
    Neither is pumping.
    It's a falacy.

    The hormonal changes of pregnancy coupled with simple genetics are what dictate how your breasts will change.



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