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    My best friend works a different club than I do. They're full nude, no alcohol - but girls can still run next door to the pub or sneak in booze. Well, she didn't answer my phone call on Sunday. I wasn't too worried, but I should have been. She was in jail for 30 hours. For assaulting a customer...

    She's still pretty shaken up, so I didn't get all the details. But here's what I know
    - He didn't grab her, he was just being a jerk. He had a bunch of friends with him, and they were being ass holes, too.

    - She took off her shoe and hit him in the face with it. It scratched his cornea and blood went everywhere!

    - Then his friend tried to choke her, while the bouncers restrained the bloody dude, and pulled off the choker. 3 other dancers had to pull her away.

    - The customer didn't press charges, but other patrons called the cops. She got arrested and has a court hearing comming up. Now the state is sueing her.

    I'm assuming she was drunk when this happened. She said it's going to be a misdeamor, but it was almost a felony. And I'm sure it will be in the local papers soon. Have any of you seen or been through this before? What can she expect? What should she do?

    I told her to start going to AA before the trial to get that repentant look for the judge.

    She really shouldn't have done it. I mean, we've all wanted to - but she really shouldn't have done it.

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    I've had reason to act like that many times but didn't in order to keep my job. However, knowing how guys can be, I'm pretty sure they did something to deserve it. Good luck to your friend. If she gets around the system somehow, maybe she should join SW!

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    Obviously I don't know her but is it possible she could be bipolar? I'm just talking based on family and court experience. If someone is bipolar and drinks they can do something like this and not realize the consequences. A lawyer told me that most of his clients have depression issues that get magnified by alcohol. I know I am likely totally wrong but if she does have that condition it might actually help her get out of this and get help.

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    That sucks,but if the guy didnt touch her first...not good. I've assaulted customers before..even broken a cpl bones...but they were always self defense and the guys were warned first. I've never gotten in trouble for it. I'd never risk it over something someone said ...no matter how much I may want to.

    Does she have a lawyer? She needs to get one..NOW. And yes,AA wouldnt be a bad idea...ESPECIALLY if shes had ANY incidents in the past that involved alcohol (or NA if they involved drugs)

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    first off your friend is LUCKY she didnt take that guys eye out! She'd be in a WORLD of shit if she had

    Does she by chance have any anger/emotional/drinking issues? This doesnt seem like normal behavior to me. The guy was a jerk, it sucks. He didn't get physical with her....so why would she respond in that manner?

    I've danced for eight years and I've NEVER beaten up a customer, even when they have gotten physical. I would only do that if I felt like I was physically in danger...then of course, all bets are off.

    She should really look into what caused her to act that way...NOT normal!
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    That's terrible. A guy once grabbed my breast hard.MY anger took over and in turn I grabbed his neck slamming his head against, dug my real nails in( he started bleeding) and told him I would kill him. Luckily he bitched at the manager but no charges. Yep psycho stripper(me) on the loose but he deserved it and so does that guy, maybe he'll think 2x before he's cruel to another dancer, unfortunately the dancer has to pay the price. That sucks, if she can say she was under duress (not sure if I spelled that correctly) which she was

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    You know what's ironic? The "end violence against women" at the end of that post. LOL

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    there's been so many times I've come *this* close to throwing a shoe or punching a guy... but then i go tell my favorite waitress to walk by the asshole and "accidentally" spill the contents of her tray onto him, or bump him in the back of the head with her tray... it's too much fun to watch.
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    She's got a lawyer, and I'm going to go to some AA and Anger Management counseling with her to help her in court - and hopefully in life as well. She has been depressed, and drinking way too much, and just acting like, well, just not like herself. I think she needed

    The manager gave her shoes and survailance tape to the cops. He might testify, the eye-dude might too. The fewer people who show up, and the more counselfing and repantance she has, the better it's going to be. I think she should start volunteering somewhere too, since that will probably be part of her sentance.

    My friend really needed a break from dancing, too - she was pretty burnt out. Just got out of a long term relationship, had some bad dates and she's been drinking. A lot.

    I am pissed at the club, though. They let these guys boo the girls all night, make fun of them, and spend NO money.

    Whenever something happens there the dancer has to just deal with it, or in some cases even defend herself. They've never thrown a customer out for anything short of hitting a dancer. Taking pics, jerking off under the table, throwing change at the stage... it sucked. I'm shocked something like this hasn't happened sooner.

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    She was wrong, but that doesn't make him right and I feel bad about the whole situation. I also think the AA meetings are a good idea, and when she goes to court she should dress like winona ryder did when she got busted for shoplifing.. (In other words, look like a nun.)

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    ^^ Lol!!

    We're just scared that since she's a dancer, and it's a freaking election year, some judges might feel the need to make an example of her. And since the guy didn't press charges - but the state did, seems like a really grim sign.

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    I say try to blame it on the alcohol as much as possible and she's now "seeking treatment." To me its a good the customer is not pressing charges. He's not going to court to crucify this horrible evil stripper, like the innocent victim that he is. (Not.)
    It's a first time offense, she's seeking treatment- I think she'll be ok. At least I hope so. Its nice that you're so concerned about your friend.

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