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    Default Who has your back??

    Seriously. It's mentioned a lot on here how useless security at strip clubs are.
    So do any of you "bring your own?"
    Do u have someone who will deal out some swift justice to customers when security will not??
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    Default Re: Who has your back??

    Excellent question.

    At my most regular club I saw the dj throw out more assholes than bouncers, so in this case the dj!!

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    Bouncers and managers at my club are really awesome. Even if a guy is rude to me, they are more than happy to go deal with him.
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    Default Re: Who has your back??

    ^^
    same here. However I was disturbed to read VS's thread about her being assaulted. Guys get kicked out of my club for being rude, touching etc and the word of the dancer is always taken over the customers.

    However for outright sexual assaults I am not satisfied with this. Actually I'm not satisfied with the fact that if a guy grabs my breasts he will get escorted out quite politely and gently.

    I have to admit it would give me great satisfaction to see the guys head be used to open the door and be tossed out onto the street on his ass, embarrassed in front of all.
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    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    i used to be my own security. A few girls at the old club figured out I am tough, so they would scream for me. I have rescued a few girls from grabby guys.


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    Me. I've broken bones and fought off attackers three times my size.Thankfully I'm a lot stronger then I look and I used to take martial arts...so I can take care of myself.I've stepped in for other girls from time to time as well. I'm a bitch with a capital B and when lines get crossed....the Bitch in me has no qualms about taking over.

    I recommend everyone take at LEAST a self defense course....dont ever count on anyone else to have your back. Have your own.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CKXXX View Post
    I recommend everyone take at LEAST a self defense course....dont ever count on anyone else to have your back. Have your own.
    Actually this is a really good point.

    I want to take self defence class but not some cheesy self defence for women, I want to actually learn a martial art as well. I did the cheesy one in high school and it was fucking useless.
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    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Default Re: Who has your back??

    I want to take a self-defense course as well. I've wanted to for a long time.

    A manager once told me that if any guy touched me where he shouldn't, to tell him and he would grab the guy by the neck and throw him out the back door. I know he was serious.
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    I do very well for myself but usually my itty-bitty skinny little husband does great for me. In a totally non-violent way he just walks up to the guy and whispers to him only that I will leave if they try that again. Simple but it usually works.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Actually this is a really good point.

    I want to take self defence class but not some cheesy self defence for women, I want to actually learn a martial art as well. I did the cheesy one in high school and it was fucking useless.
    Yeah...that wussy "Scream NO and knee him in the groin" crap they try to pass off as womens self defense wont do you any good.
    You need to know how to flip a guy off you when he comes up behind you and snakes an arm around your neck. You need to know exactly how and where to hit that will make a guy 3 times your size and drunk or drugged up back the fuck off.
    Knowing what to say helps a lot too....BELIEVE me ...a bitch-dont-fuck-with-me attitude will get you A LOT further then you would think. I've had guys back off without touching them because they believed I would kill them as soon as look at them if they didnt.

    Then again...I've worked long and hard to get my temper under control. After an incident in college when I almost killed someone with my bare hands....I HAD to...I scared MYSELF that day (thank GOD the person didnt press any charges). When I'm pushed over the edge(and nowadays it takes a LOT to get me there)I literally see red and it's like I become superwoman. It took 4 200+ pound guys to pull me off the last time...and it took ALL their strength to get me off. SO I might be an exception to the rule. I had to train myself NOT to fight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CKXXX View Post

    I recommend everyone take at LEAST a self defense course....dont ever count on anyone else to have your back. Have your own.
    I hear that! I want to look into one too, just not one of those cheesy ones they advertise (someone already mentioned that). I don't feel that anyone at my club has my back. They are to busy watching TV and giving dancers massages







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    I made a point to get chummy with the bouncer at my club. They all love me and treat me like a little sister, so they have my back twice over.

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    The staff at my club is awesome! If something happens the guys come out of everywhere, the LD room, the kitchen, I've never worried about security there.


    And I know a few of the girls I work with will kick ass if need be!

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    I have a good reputation for being super nice- I've even had girls be a bitch to my face and defend me behind my back- super confusing but ok.

    I got millitary and martial arts friends to teach me a few moves to disable or hold someone from hurting me, and they have come in handy- especially knowing moves approved by the legal system. The only person that can be there to help you 24/7 is yourself.
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    I have been through enough shit in my life to know the answer to this one full well.

    Nobody

    not even the people you think do.


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    ^Yep. Too fucking true.

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    I take care of things myself.

    That being said, I think about the legal implications of what I do before I do it. Because at the end of the day, the important thing is that I'm left standing.*

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    The bouncers at my club are awesome i've seen a guy thrown into a wall for being a dick.

    plus the owner of the club once beat the fuck out of one of his own friends for treating the girls badly. the bouncers showed me the blood stains that are still there

    my club allows out bookings (no private residences including hotel rooms and no private transport) so my housemate constantly knows where i am at any given time, and i know as soon as i call he'll drop everything to help me out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    Actually this is a really good point.

    I want to take self defence class but not some cheesy self defence for women, I want to actually learn a martial art as well. I did the cheesy one in high school and it was fucking useless.
    Krav Maga is a great one, as well as BJJ, or a MMA class; but then again I am biased, lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kitana View Post
    Krav Maga is a great one, as well as BJJ, or a MMA class; but then again I am biased, lol.
    What do those abbreviations stand for??
    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    i actually really trust our security. that's the first time that's been true for me (in the 5 clubs i've worked at).

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    I work at a pretty small club, so everyone is pretty much watching out for each other i think.
    Since I work from out-of-town I am not too sure exactly, but I know the waitress will have a fit if no one is tipping!

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    The Lord is my shepherd...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Honey71783 View Post
    The Lord is my shepherd...
    But will he bounce a guy for you?

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    The Lord is my Bouncer would be an awesome t-shirt.

    And photoshop like Jesus' head on Mr. Clean's body.


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