Seriously. It's mentioned a lot on here how useless security at strip clubs are.
So do any of you "bring your own?"
Do u have someone who will deal out some swift justice to customers when security will not??





Seriously. It's mentioned a lot on here how useless security at strip clubs are.
So do any of you "bring your own?"
Do u have someone who will deal out some swift justice to customers when security will not??
There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.
Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.




Excellent question.
At my most regular club I saw the dj throw out more assholes than bouncers, so in this case the dj!!





Bouncers and managers at my club are really awesome. Even if a guy is rude to me, they are more than happy to go deal with him.
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same here. However I was disturbed to read VS's thread about her being assaulted. Guys get kicked out of my club for being rude, touching etc and the word of the dancer is always taken over the customers.
However for outright sexual assaults I am not satisfied with this. Actually I'm not satisfied with the fact that if a guy grabs my breasts he will get escorted out quite politely and gently.
I have to admit it would give me great satisfaction to see the guys head be used to open the door and be tossed out onto the street on his ass, embarrassed in front of all.
There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.
Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.
i used to be my own security. A few girls at the old club figured out I am tough, so they would scream for me. I have rescued a few girls from grabby guys.
/threadjack.....never work at Danny's Downtown in Jackson, MS.....end threadjack
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"I'm gonna have a drink and walk around, I got a lot to think about, oh yeah"---Concrete Blonde
Me. I've broken bones and fought off attackers three times my size.Thankfully I'm a lot stronger then I look and I used to take martial arts...so I can take care of myself.I've stepped in for other girls from time to time as well. I'm a bitch with a capital B and when lines get crossed....the Bitch in me has no qualms about taking over.
I recommend everyone take at LEAST a self defense course....dont ever count on anyone else to have your back. Have your own.





There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.
Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.





I want to take a self-defense course as well. I've wanted to for a long time.
A manager once told me that if any guy touched me where he shouldn't, to tell him and he would grab the guy by the neck and throw him out the back door. I know he was serious.
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I do very well for myself but usually my itty-bitty skinny little husband does great for me. In a totally non-violent way he just walks up to the guy and whispers to him only that I will leave if they try that again. Simple but it usually works.
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Yeah...that wussy "Scream NO and knee him in the groin" crap they try to pass off as womens self defense wont do you any good.
You need to know how to flip a guy off you when he comes up behind you and snakes an arm around your neck. You need to know exactly how and where to hit that will make a guy 3 times your size and drunk or drugged up back the fuck off.
Knowing what to say helps a lot too....BELIEVE me ...a bitch-dont-fuck-with-me attitude will get you A LOT further then you would think. I've had guys back off without touching them because they believed I would kill them as soon as look at them if they didnt.
Then again...I've worked long and hard to get my temper under control. After an incident in college when I almost killed someone with my bare hands....I HAD to...I scared MYSELF that day (thank GOD the person didnt press any charges). When I'm pushed over the edge(and nowadays it takes a LOT to get me there)I literally see red and it's like I become superwoman. It took 4 200+ pound guys to pull me off the last time...and it took ALL their strength to get me off. SO I might be an exception to the rule. I had to train myself NOT to fight.





Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"




I made a point to get chummy with the bouncer at my club. They all love me and treat me like a little sister, so they have my back twice over.![]()





The staff at my club is awesome! If something happens the guys come out of everywhere, the LD room, the kitchen, I've never worried about security there.
And I know a few of the girls I work with will kick ass if need be!
I have a good reputation for being super nice- I've even had girls be a bitch to my face and defend me behind my back- super confusing but ok.
I got millitary and martial arts friends to teach me a few moves to disable or hold someone from hurting me, and they have come in handy- especially knowing moves approved by the legal system. The only person that can be there to help you 24/7 is yourself.





I have been through enough shit in my life to know the answer to this one full well.
Nobody
not even the people you think do.
Look like a woman
Think like a man
Act like a lady
Work like a dog
- My Great Grandmother Bessie's Recipe for Success




^Yep. Too fucking true.
I take care of things myself.
That being said, I think about the legal implications of what I do before I do it. Because at the end of the day, the important thing is that I'm left standing.*
The bouncers at my club are awesome i've seen a guy thrown into a wall for being a dick.
plus the owner of the club once beat the fuck out of one of his own friends for treating the girls badly. the bouncers showed me the blood stains that are still there
my club allows out bookings (no private residences including hotel rooms and no private transport) so my housemate constantly knows where i am at any given time, and i know as soon as i call he'll drop everything to help me out.![]()
~Rule No#1: Never say anything to make you seem less attractive then you are!
~Rule No#2: Never fuck with the people that make your food
~Rule No#3 Never drop your weapon
~Rule No#4 Win if you can. Lose if you must. but always, always cheat.





There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.
Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.





i actually really trust our security. that's the first time that's been true for me (in the 5 clubs i've worked at).
I work at a pretty small club, so everyone is pretty much watching out for each other i think.
Since I work from out-of-town I am not too sure exactly, but I know the waitress will have a fit if no one is tipping!![]()
The Lord is my shepherd...





The Lord is my Bouncer would be an awesome t-shirt.
And photoshop like Jesus' head on Mr. Clean's body.
Look like a woman
Think like a man
Act like a lady
Work like a dog
- My Great Grandmother Bessie's Recipe for Success
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