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    How to work the rule of reciprocity

    I've got a fairly good hustle, but I'm wondering how to work reciprocity. How do I do a favor, or a perceived favor, for a customer in order to make them pay me back via VIP or dances? Or should I simply try a rejection-then-retreat in order to cement a sale? Demanding a lesser sale after asking for a big one. Like, saying after they've rejected VIP: "well, if you don't want to spend some time in VIP, come enjoy a few dances with me." This technique also employs contrast, as the cost of a few dances is less than VIP, possibly making it more attractive. Rejection-then-retreat also seems to spur greater overall satisfaction for the customer, and may increase their loyalty to me.

    If anyone has tried this, please let me know ways to tweak it. I'm going to attempt it next shift.

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    If the time spent sitting is worth it to you, as in you have profiled him/know him as a big spender, I usually go to the waitress and give her ten bucks, then when we're seated carrying on and having a good time, she comes around and gives him a drink on me.

    I don't pay for it at the table because I don't want him to see how much cash I have, and also because then I slide it in like oh, we're having a good time, I have this round, cause I am having such a blast with you I don't even care.

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    i still ask for the dance after we tour the Cr and he says no. I just say "Ok lets go do a dance then- i'll break you down " "wink"
    i'm always trying to squeeze the most out of a situation, and sometimes I break them down indeed and we go to the cR afterwards
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    My worry about offering the CR, getting rejected, then offering dances is that the guy will be ruffled thinking I'm just trying to get his money. Do any of you feel you get this reaction? How might I minimize it?
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    Default Re: How to work the rule of reciprocity

    Quote Originally Posted by rozz View Post
    How do I do a favor, or a perceived favor, for a customer in order to make them pay me back via VIP or dances?
    Something that works for me is like lets say the guy isn't ready for a dance right now, but we order drinks. So, we're sipping and talking and then I say something like, "let's race and see who finishes first" OR If he doesn't want to race (which is rare lol) I'll say something like, "ok, I'm gonna slurp this down in 5 seconds and then we're gonna go do some dances! TIME ME!!"

    Now, don't ask me why, but guys love to race

    I've also done a suggestion that I believe Chrissy told me about. If you're already giving a lapdance you tell them that if you two go do a vip this lapdance you're doing is free, and you won't charge him for it.

    Very rarely, but this has worked for me as well...If the guy is unsure about if he wants to spend as much on the VIP, I'll say something like, "how about we do this, let's just get out of here and do the private dance (vip) and I'LL BUY THE DRINKS" <--i've done this about 3x and was never turned down and actually got multiple hours.







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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSexKitten View Post

    In addition, if they refuse VIP, a dance, or seem on the fence about getting one, I offer to have them take me for a "test drive." Just one dance! If you get the itch, we can head over to VIP with this one on me, and if not we can just play it by ear and have fun where we are! *smilesmilegiggle*
    have you ever got a guy to agree to vip, then when he's just about to pay for it all of a sudden change his mind?

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    Default Re: How to work the rule of reciprocity

    Quote Originally Posted by rozz View Post
    I've got a fairly good hustle, but I'm wondering how to work reciprocity. How do I do a favor, or a perceived favor, for a customer in order to make them pay me back via VIP or dances?
    I have a friend who does pretty well playing kind of a "geisha" role. Doing small things, like handing their drinks to them, handing them a napkin, lighting their ciggarette ect. almost kind of like waiting on them hand and foot lol
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    Yeah doing small favors like that seem to increase your odds also if u work when theres no waitress offer to get him a fresh beer or whatever. I always get tipped like $5 for that and 9 times outta 10 I get the dance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tRoUbLeMaKeR View Post
    My worry about offering the CR, getting rejected, then offering dances is that the guy will be ruffled thinking I'm just trying to get his money. Do any of you feel you get this reaction? How might I minimize it?
    Just tell him that you still want to play with him with your most convincing face and lead him by the arm to the couch dance area assuming the sale.
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    Quote Originally Posted by tRoUbLeMaKeR View Post
    My worry about offering the CR, getting rejected, then offering dances is that the guy will be ruffled thinking I'm just trying to get his money. Do any of you feel you get this reaction? How might I minimize it?
    You know he wants to spend time with you,you want to spend time with him too, it's just unfortunate that the CR isn't in his price range, but luckily, there are other, more affordable options that he can still spend time with you in.( such as a lapdance)

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