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    My dad just dumped me. Because I'm not BEST FRIENDS FOREVER with his new wife. Fuck this shit. She's lying - saying I threatend her, and said crap I didn't during my parents divorce. I'm done. Screw being nice. It won't get you anywhere. This is what I said when he told me we couldn't talk anymore because of her -

    "Love is not a victory march. It's a cold and it's a broken hallelujah." - Leonard Cohen.

    Dad, you know the truth. You've always known. I respect you, and want you to be happy. If I'm not part of that, then I'll let you go.

    So I'll back off. I love you, so I'll be here when and if you ever need me.

    But don't worry about me. I'll make you proud


    But FUCK!!!! It hurts!!!

    I sooooo wanted to say some mean shit!!!

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    That's awful... *hug*

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    You said what was right. You should regret nothing. He will come across. I'd be there when he needed me. The truth always comes out , right? Thats ur father. Your blood. Dont dissappear. Just be an ear to him. He will always come to you in times of trouble.

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    (((HUGS)))

    I have similar issues with my family. So does my good friend S. (bad luck, two remarried parents.) I can't say much more than the Universe often sends a replacement in the place of someone who has either willingly or not exited your life. I have a new group of people I treat as family & they're a vast improvement over the originals. There is hope!

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    OMG, now I'm about to puke. I went through this same thing with my dad years ago, plus Hallelujah is my favorite song (except the Buckley version, not Cohan).

    I dont even want to get into details, my dad and I are "reasonably cool" now.

    Ugh. If you need somebody to talk to PM me. I still have the tee shirt from this experience hanging in my closet.
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    sorry you're going thru this. i've had similar situations too. unfortunately, my father is a gullible borderline senile doofus.

    give your dad time and space. eventually the lies from the stepmom will catch up to her. if you're not an available target, she has to jump to someone else. and so on. eventually, your dad will realize that not everyone in the world can be anti-stepmom unless there really is something bad about her.

    it's crap like this that makes me terrified of even trying to date again. NOTHING is going to come between me and my children.

    good luck, it'll be difficult staying away but if that's how he wants it, so be it.

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    Thanks for all the replies. It does help

    He sent this today:

    "I know you will make me proud.



    I do not want you to think this is forever. I need to get some things straight and then I hope we can be in each others lives again. Then I want to give more of myself than I am able to now."

    His bitch of a wife claims that I said he loves me more than her, he'd leave her if I told him to, that he was just using her, blah blah blah.

    It's total bull shit!! I've never even been alone with her for longer than it took my dad to go to the bathroom!!

    WTF?? She's crazy. They're trying to get pregnant, so she's got that over his head now. Even though he's got MS.

    I've gone from angry, to depressed, to drunk and now I'm just numb.

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    My father chose his physically abusive, manipulating cunt of a new wife over me when I was 12. It fucked my life up and is the reason why we hardly talk today.

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    Wow... that's awful. I am so sorry you're going through this. I really hope he comes to his senses.

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    I hope my man never has to choose between his children and me. If it ever comes to that, I will gladly (yet very sadly) leave as I don't believe any woman should come between the relationship a child has with their parents (even if said parent/s are not physically near you).

    At least he says he is willing to work on it in the future. Just let sleeping dogs lie for now... then re-initiate contact with him via email or a sms ... then go from there ?


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    You where unbelievably mature and kudos for being the bigger person. I would not be able to be so kind or so forgiving. I think that what he has done is inexcusable and he should not be granted a chance at reconciliation with you. Of course, if reconciling with him would make you feel better, then I'm all for it.

    I think you should let him know how badly he fucked up though and that choosing his wife over his own child is simply despisable and unforgivable. If you do decide to forgive him this and have contact in the future he should understand how damn lucky and completely undeserving he is.

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