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    "you're so hot. you must make so much money."
    "lol. sure/not really (more often, i'm honest). wanna dance?"
    "no thanks"

    i have real conversations with guys, though. i'm not a wannadancer, but that's the gist of conversations i have with custies lately.

    tonight, i did one single dance. the guy then got a room with another girl. then he asked me out. wtf? really?

    i didn't break even.

    i feel so fucking hideous.

    if i had a camera, i'd post some pictures and hope for honest responses, but i don't even make enough money stripping to have extra for a 100$ camera. that's pretty fucking bad. i guess that should answer that.

    and it hasn't been that bad. there are plenty of girls who make good money at my club, and plenty more who make enough that i'd be happy to make it. yet, i make shit. when i go onstage, guys don't even look. they sit at the stage and watch commercials.

    help! it only takes one guy to make a girls night...but halfway through the night, i just want to punch every customer i talk to. seriously, just tear em up. i don't, of course. but i'm sure i'm turning off a lot of guys who might actually want me.

    i just want to be able to make a couple hundred dollars a night. that's all. i'd be happy with that. i'm sick of going in wondering whether i'll even make house. more and more it's been no.

    somebody please say something to help. i really need to make some money.

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    Have you always been like this? Are you experiencing burn-out? Need a hustle revision?
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    i've never felt all that great. i've never been all that confident. i dunno. that's my life in general though.

    i've made decent money before, i know how to hustle. and it isn't burn out. if i got a room early one night, i know it would get me on a roll.

    i guess i just need to learn how to handle me. not the job so much, just me.

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    Even if you aren't the most attractive girl at the club make sure you smile on stage and act like you like being there.

    Maybe your regular talk with guys makes you seem too down to earth and that is why they think they have a chance with you. When I act like my real self guys really like me and "respect me" so they don't spend much.

    When I act slightly dumb and horny it makes me much more money. Be a fantasy and don't spend too long chatting. Only a song or 2 and keep it flirty as hell. Twirl your hair, give "fuck me looks" and draw attention to your sexiest features by gently grazing your hand over then.

    When I sit down (even to rest my feet for a sec) while I hustle it doesn't help much either because it's a more relaxed posture. I say the same stuff but my body isn't rubbing up against them and it lets their mind focus on me the person instead of me the sexual object.

    Hope this helps!

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    You sound exactly like I have felt for about 2 years now. I finally found out I had anxiety and depression problems, that it wasn't my looks or my hustle. I saw my doc, and with the right meds, I started making money and being able to enjoy myself again. Go see your doctor, and be honest! He/She will probably be able to help you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Luna Louise View Post
    Even if you aren't the most attractive girl at the club make sure you smile on stage and act like you like being there.

    Maybe your regular talk with guys makes you seem too down to earth and that is why they think they have a chance with you. When I act like my real self guys really like me and "respect me" so they don't spend much.

    When I act slightly dumb and horny it makes me much more money. Be a fantasy and don't spend too long chatting. Only a song or 2 and keep it flirty as hell. Twirl your hair, give "fuck me looks" and draw attention to your sexiest features by gently grazing your hand over then.

    When I sit down (even to rest my feet for a sec) while I hustle it doesn't help much either because it's a more relaxed posture. I say the same stuff but my body isn't rubbing up against them and it lets their mind focus on me the person instead of me the sexual object.

    Hope this helps!
    Honestly this is some of what I do and it really does work.
    I agree when I am too "regular girl" it doesnt seem to work for me and yet for some girls it works and they bank.

    I wish you a better tommorow though girl

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    Quote Originally Posted by Luna Louise View Post
    Even if you aren't the most attractive girl at the club make sure you smile on stage and act like you like being there.

    Maybe your regular talk with guys makes you seem too down to earth and that is why they think they have a chance with you. When I act like my real self guys really like me and "respect me" so they don't spend much.

    When I act slightly dumb and horny it makes me much more money. Be a fantasy and don't spend too long chatting. Only a song or 2 and keep it flirty as hell. Twirl your hair, give "fuck me looks" and draw attention to your sexiest features by gently grazing your hand over then.

    When I sit down (even to rest my feet for a sec) while I hustle it doesn't help much either because it's a more relaxed posture. I say the same stuff but my body isn't rubbing up against them and it lets their mind focus on me the person instead of me the sexual object.

    Hope this helps!
    I've had the same prob before and when I started being more like this, I started doing much better. I talk less, I give less of 'me' away and I'm less tired at the end of the night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kittytheflamingo View Post
    You sound exactly like I have felt for about 2 years now. I finally found out I had anxiety and depression problems, that it wasn't my looks or my hustle. I saw my doc, and with the right meds, I started making money and being able to enjoy myself again. Go see your doctor, and be honest! He/She will probably be able to help you.
    i definitely have anxiety problems. i need to talk to a doctor, but i don't really have one. i'm afraid to try, because i'm afraid they'll think i'm just trying to get some xanax for recreation purposes or something.

    last night i actually made money...i don't know how i managed to just lighten up, but it worked. it's true...the bimbo thing really is better for money. especially now that my hair is lighter. i still haven't gotten used to the change i've had to make in my hustle. but i'm doing better.

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    I could have written the original post and basically did in LAMP. I think I'm being too real in my convo.

    When I go to work tonight I'm going to act like a dumb silly slut and hopefully bank.

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    okay so I just got back from work and I had a really good night (well actually average but GREAT comparatively!). I acted really dumb and silly and it totally worked! ARGH now I'm pissed that I ever let myself get "smart" or "worldly" is just kills my moolah!

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    this is my problem also.
    i really have a hrd time acting silly/slutty. can anyone give any specific pointers? the ones luna louise mentioned were awesome, but i'd like to have a bigger arsenal up my sleeve!

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    Does the wanna dance hustle work for other dancers in your club? If so, why not try it for awhile and skip the get to know him stuff? Maybe if you don't talk to them as much you won't want to punch as many of them out and will stay in a better mood, which we all know translates to more $. They also won't get your atttention for free and you won't feel as if your time has been wasted as much either. We all need a change of pace from time to time so it might be worth a shot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Luna Louise View Post
    Even if you aren't the most attractive girl at the club make sure you smile on stage and act like you like being there.

    Maybe your regular talk with guys makes you seem too down to earth and that is why they think they have a chance with you. When I act like my real self guys really like me and "respect me" so they don't spend much.

    When I act slightly dumb and horny it makes me much more money. Be a fantasy and don't spend too long chatting. Only a song or 2 and keep it flirty as hell. Twirl your hair, give "fuck me looks" and draw attention to your sexiest features by gently grazing your hand over then.

    When I sit down (even to rest my feet for a sec) while I hustle it doesn't help much either because it's a more relaxed posture. I say the same stuff but my body isn't rubbing up against them and it lets their mind focus on me the person instead of me the sexual object.

    Hope this helps!
    I am really going to try this tomorrow night. There is no reason I should leave my club with $150 after working 10 hrs. I'm always sitting with custies too long, give off the smart, down to earth "normal" girl vibe and I make nothing. I'm gonna write this down in my little notebook I bring to work so I can remind myself to sit with them 2 songs or less and try the slightly dumb/slutty hustle. I swear the top earner at my club absolutely makes money this way.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucy in the Sky View Post
    Does the wanna dance hustle work for other dancers in your club? If so, why not try it for awhile and skip the get to know him stuff? Maybe if you don't talk to them as much you won't want to punch as many of them out and will stay in a better mood, which we all know translates to more $. They also won't get your atttention for free and you won't feel as if your time has been wasted as much either. We all need a change of pace from time to time so it might be worth a shot.
    i wish my club was more of a wanna dance kind of place. but it's a slower hustle, and i often get too far into normal chit chat. I would like to hear some pointers on keeping it light and flirty.

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    ^^^Me too!

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