Sure the majority of customers probably can be cateorgorized as gross. But some are attractive/hot
I like to give hot guys lapdances..... That's fun
I don't like to give dances to guys that are old and gross.
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Sure the majority of customers probably can be cateorgorized as gross. But some are attractive/hot
I like to give hot guys lapdances..... That's fun
I don't like to give dances to guys that are old and gross.
I don't treat anyone differently unless 1) They have some kind of hygiene problem or 2) They're spending good money (in which case I'll spend time talking to them/put extra effort into my dances).
Ok, it goes both ways for me, but it's mostly a "yes".
If a guy is obese to the point that it's difficult for me to dance for him, like I have to dance around him, then I definitely give a just standing there dancing kind of dance. If someone is average size, you can lean on their shoulders, breathe in their ear, etc which amounts to a better dance. If someone is smelly or physically repugnant, I will actually just excuse myself. I would rather lose the money for that dance than lose my sanity and my long term patience for the job.
Now, if I a guy is hot, I dance the normal way, but it's certainly easier to flirt and put on the stripper airs. But if I see two guys at a table together, a hot one and a dork, I always chat up the dork because IRL the hot one gets attention.





Yes I treat hot guys differently. I largely avoid them because they don't have money. LOL.




I enjoy giving dances to the guys that pay me the most, unless smelly and perverted.
Hot good looking guys are usually cheap, try to date you and waste your time. I still approach them but the second I detect the first loser signal I'm out.
Oh honey, please don't take this wrong but with that attitude you aren't going to make it as a dancer. Sorry. Time to re-think why you're in this business, Isit to party naked or to make $$$$ ? If it's the first one, stripping is not for you. Maybe go join a swingers club and have a blast instead.
But to answer your question yes I treat them different. I avoid them for the most part. I will dance for them if they ask and work them while on stage but I don’t seek them out otherwise and tend to give them as little attention as possible unless they are flat out offering me a VIP or mad cash to hang out with them.
I am not interested in endless arguments or debate. I visit message boards to interact and share with likeminded people.
QFT.
The only time I will treat a customer differently during a dance is if they have a hygiene problem or are grabby... otherwise... they all get the same dance- no special dances just because they're hot... unless they're johnny depp hot.. but that's extremely rare.
I usually treat ugly older guys better than hot guys during the hustle because they are more likely to spend than hot young guys.
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^^ Yeah...I definitely spend more time/effort on my older guy hustle.
^ In her (SharlaB) defense, I've found the demographic I can make the most from is middle aged guys, who are still reasonably attractive if not very handsome. I honestly, also, avoid guys who look like the could be my grandfather or are just obviously old farts unless I'm making really easy money off them. It's just like, wow, there's no illusion, I REALLY am only talking to you for the money. Maybe it's because I used to date middle aged guys, and now I still find they can fall under the category of hot and it's easy to relate to them. I can deal with really ugly guys if they have a good personality, or are at least obviously actively enjoying my company... as long as they don't smell.
Little difference. I hustle them in the same way and give them the same type of dance. I do not feel happier about dancing for a hot guy than for an ugly guy, because I never get turned on during lapdances anyway. If you gave me a choice between a hot guy and an ugly guy, and both were equally respectful and willing to spend, I honestly wouldn't care which one I picked. Hell, I might pick the ugly guy because I feel bad for him. Smelly guys are a different story, of course.
I actually approach the "old and gross" guys before the hot ones, because I feel less intimidated by them and figure that they are more likely to spend. If I do walk up to anyone, though, it's strictly about business for me no matter what they look like.
I didnt vote because it really depends...
All things being equal (spending,attitude,etc..) no I dont treat them differently.
But honestly..I usually avoid young or hot guys because they have a "I can get whatever I want outside of here" attitude and spend more time trying to get your number and convince you how great they are then spend money.
Give me an ugly fat guy who is nice,respectful and fun and spending money over the hot stud who thinks his shit smells like roses ANY DAY.
I'm not going to vote. as long as the guy doesnt smell, his money spends exactly the same as some good looking douche bags money.
If comparing strictly on looks, then I of course enjoy the dance more with the hot guy, but I won't treat him differently.
However I'm more concerned about how the guy treats me and how much money he's spending than what he looks like. Obviously a stinky guy or gropy perv gets less attention than one who is clean and polite.
It's usually the young inexperienced girls who still view lapdances as anything but a business and actually want to avoid dancing for "old gross" guys. When you get a bit more experience you realize this is just a business and you make a whole lot more money by treating it as such.
You can be picky about who you talk to and flirt with on your off time. At work it's best to just go after the money.
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^^ + 3! I'm sorry if I'm wrong, but these threads look like they're being made by a curiouse customer.





yeah, most of "her"? posts scream troll.
and given the very slight chance you might NOT be, i want to inform you (though you've been told once)..... USE THE SEARCH FUNCTION. this question, as well as the others you've asked, have all been asked and answered before a billion times.
and i say "her"? because all the questions have been super male...
"do you give discounts?"
"do the dances differ if the guy is hot?"
"do you let guys touch you?"
for the record these topics have already been discussed too (before you make a poll about them):
-do we get off on giving dances?
-do we ever date customers?
-have we ever fucked a customer?
-does dancing change our sex life?
-what does our significant other think about us dancing?




[quote=Pretty_Penny;1713959]yeah, most of "her"? posts scream troll.
and given the very slight chance you might NOT be, i want to inform you (though you've been told once)..... USE THE SEARCH FUNCTION. this question, as well as the others you've asked, have all been asked and answered before a billion times.[quote]
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+ 1
They all seem to know they are good looking and "hot". Or that has been my experience on the Gold Coast at the very least.
Elsewhere, where the strip club is one of the few decent places to actually go and where there is actually any decent 'hot' looking girls... it's a different story. I like dancing for them.
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