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    I think what's most important is really thinking hard about what you want more; a life where you're happy but living beneath your means or a life that you feel terrible about but is eased by financial abundance. Neither is a "wrong" choice by virtue, but one is right for you. and the other isn't. It's all about what you need and want. No one can tell you what's best or right for you.

    I have more to add to this but I am too sleepy to put my thoughts into a cohesive arrangement . . .

    Will add more later . . .
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    What does your boyfriend think you are doing when you are gone from 8am to 11pm??????

    Are you stressed out because you are working for an escort agency? or because you are lieing to your boyfriend?

    BTW You don't need to know how to dance or have dance experience to be a stripper. I'm living proof. You need to look good and have decent sales skills.

    You can make $1500 a week with dancing but you'll be dealing with a whole new set of challenges like competing among other girls in a smokey bar.

    Good luck. Do what's right for you. If you don't like stripping you can always go back to working for the agency.

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    Sounds like its time for a change then. You know what you need to do. Sounds like you love to talk. Talking and socializing is a huge part of being a stripper.
    You're going to do just fine.

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    Your agency sounds more like a pimp...and why would you give all your money to your boyfriend???

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    Your agency sounds more like a pimp...and why would you give all your money to your boyfriend???
    Yes, I was actually wondering the same thing.

    You will feel better and more empowered if you handle your own money.

    Do you give all your money to your boyfriend because you feel guilty about lieing?

    As soon as you take more control over your own life you are going to feel a million times better no matter what line of work you decide to get into.

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    Yes. $1500 a week MIGHT be possible as a stripper...it all depends on where you are and your hustling skills(nothing to do with dancing talent or breast size)

    If you are depressed...stop doing this. Stop lieing to your bf and STOP giving him all your money.

    Be strong. Be independent. You'll be better off...if that means you get a new job and/or boyfriend..so be it. Trust me...independent is better.

    My husband would never DREAM of telling me what to do or taking all my money. In fact..it's a running joke with us. Any time we meet a guy who is like that....he'll be the first to tell him "dont act like that with C...she wont hesitate to kick your ass for it". Our marriage is an equal partnership. That doesnt mean that sometimes I dont do more, or sometimes(like now when I"m recovering from surgery and cant work) he does more. But we support each other and never hide anything from each other.

    IMO...thats how a relationship SHOULD be. I'd never have it any other way.

    I didnt let my parents tell me what to do, I've made bosses and managers LITERALLY get down on their knees and apologize for treating me poorly....I'm certainly not going to let me PARTNER treat me like I am less then he is.

    If you want respect....you have to TAKE it. MAKE people respect you or they never will.

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    Your boyfriend sounds like a real piece of shit. He doesn't want you to quit what you're doing and you give him all your money? That's a pimp. What are you even getting out of working all these hours? You're not even getting paid your boyfriend is!
    Sexy Jasmine after getting fucked over at work:

    God loves strippers and when guys do things like that its an automatic ticket to HELL!


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    This is terrible. For that money and the hours you work, it doesn't sound worth it to me. I think you should go independent that way you keep ALL your money, you screen the guys yourself, make your own hours, and can tell guys exactly what they're getting so you don't have to put up with so much crap.

    Either that or be a stripper. But STOP GIVING YOUR BOYFRIEND YOUR MONEY!!! ?? That's messed up!

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    Congratulations on getting hired! It definitely sounded like you were in the wrong line of work, and not to mention what a shitty agency.
    From what you've written, I really don't think you'd be happy escorting, although I know the money is hard to leave behind. But good luck with stripping + I hope it goes well!

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    Honey...you need to start handling you OWN money and bills. And he bought HIMSELF a truck with YOUR money? Without asking you? Thats NOT ok.

    You need to handle your own financial affairs,start saving money and take care of yourself. He may not always be there to do it for you. Be independent...I cant stress this enough.

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    What are you going to tell your gf now that you got a job dancing?

    Where did you get a job at? I worked all up in the boston/RI area. Just curious and jealous bc I miss dancing sooooo bad. I wasn't a really good dancer when I worked up there. I started doing private parties...I was only a really good lap dancer. Then, after moving around and learning more and seeing different varieties I got better. AGhhhh..just rambling. sorry.

    STOP GIVING YOUR BOY FRIEND YOUR MONEY!!!

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    This thread makes me want to cry.

    Leave him. You owe him nothing, even for taking care of you when you were in need. You don't need to 'wait in hotel rooms' for strange men to jack them off. Gawd, that's fucking awful. You're putting your whole future on the line and giving away WAAAAAAAy too much to a pimp, and your boyfriend.

    You're getting used by every man in the equation.

    Leave the 'agency,' leave the boy, and be a clean dancer for a bit. You'll need less to get by being alone, you'll feel better, and you'll have to answer to no one. It'll be lonely and hard and hurt for a bit, but you will be SO MUCH BETTER OFF in the long run, and it may very well save your future and keep you out of jail. Please, please please take this advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ColetteCalahan View Post
    This thread makes me want to cry.

    Leave him. You owe him nothing, even for taking care of you when you were in need. You don't need to 'wait in hotel rooms' for strange men to jack them off. Gawd, that's fucking awful. You're putting your whole future on the line and giving away WAAAAAAAy too much to a pimp, and your boyfriend.

    You're getting used by every man in the equation.

    Leave the 'agency,' leave the boy, and be a clean dancer for a bit. You'll need less to get by being alone, you'll feel better, and you'll have to answer to no one. It'll be lonely and hard and hurt for a bit, but you will be SO MUCH BETTER OFF in the long run, and it may very well save your future and keep you out of jail. Please, please please take this advice.
    THIS IS AWESOME ADVICE
    I URGE YOU TO LISTEN AND APPLY IT



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