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    Well this is how I pretty much look........um I have bangs now.......But I look alot heavier naked So I want to loose about 30 lbs...at least....I want feed back as far as my over all "look".........And I am sooooo not flexible...Will that affect my money makin skillzzzz?????? You guys seem very nice and supportive so I can't wait to get your feed back..... I hope I posted this in the right place if not then sorry in advance .........thanks....
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    you look great! i love the shape of your eyes lol i dont know if thats a wierd thing to say but they're cool! i think if you go ahed and loose a litle weight you'd be a smokin' dancer! welcome to SW!!

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    Nobody can really tell what your body looks like from the arms length self portraits. You have a pretty face and flexibility has nothing to do with your success as a dancer. All you need is hustle skills.

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    Facewise very pretty but bod pics would help too... you also have a "different" look, at least where I work which is an advantage.

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    thanx...........yeah I don't think you guys are ready to see the muffin top just yet......that would throw all my confidence down the drain.........So let me drop at least 10 lbs........and how big is the biggest girl that works at your clubs???? weight wise..........

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    You look great in your pics. I have never danced in New Mexico, if that's where you're at. But I know people who do, and usually the girls there are not perfect tens. I don't think you have anything to worry about. Also, work can help you lose weight, it's a lot of exercise!

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    I can't tell your body from your picture. Your face is very pretty and if you're sociable, then you've won half the battle already.

    I'm the biggest girl at my club--and probably 'big' by most people's standards here. I weigh 140-145 and am 5'6.

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    The biggest dancer at the club I'm at now is like 5'10 160 I'd guess, I've worked at clubs where the biggest dancer was easily a size 10 though. Size doesn't matter- tone and body fat does... if you're a size 8 but you're solid muscle and no flab anywhere.. it won't matter.. but if you're mostly bodyfat and no muscle tone that's not really good..

    Flexibility doesn't matter when it comes to money making skills... I can't do a split.. never could. Having SOME flexibility will help make you a better dancer, you'll look more fluid on stage and have more variation in your private dances. Just stretch 20 minutes a day, every day while listening to some music or watching TV or something and you'll improve no problem.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Helle View Post
    I'm the biggest girl at my club--and probably 'big' by most people's standards here. I weigh 140-145 and am 5'6.
    5'6" and 140-ish here. I get told to eat sandwiches when I'm not at work, but when I am at work, I'm usually one of the larger girls.

    That said, the top moneymaker at my first club was 5'2" or so, and probably about 150-160 pounds. Girl could hustle, and was a sweetheart to boot.

    OP: If you can find a club that will take you (doesn't seem to be out of the question), hustle that pretty face, and the rest will tone up from all the dances you'll get.

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    I've often been one of the bigger girls at work..I'm 5'7" and 140. I've also worked in clubs where I was nowhere near the biggest.

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    Let me just say, your face is gorgeous! I love your bangs too!
    I'm somewhat of a noobie myself, but I've worked with thicker girls also that some men just FLOCK to! I think she was about 150-160 lbs. But she had just a beautiful figure and really knew how to talk and hustle with her pretty face. But I guess there's a type of girl for every guy, whether you be a twig or have womanly curves.

    BUT, if your weight is something that you want to work on and if you think it will make YOU feel good and sexy, then totally go for it! Personal goals are always good to have. Just make sure if you start to work on your bod, STICK to it! Nothing feels better than accomplishing something you did on your own. And if you're self-conscious about your body, wear outfits that can camouflage it! Wear a form-fitting corset or something of the sort. A girl at my old club had a baby but still danced; she just wore a corset and STILL banked it.

    Anyway, I'm gonna stop rambling, but I wish you the best of luck with whatever direction you go.


    OH, and if you want a good stretch to do everyday...find an empty wall, lay on your back in front of it with your butt touching the wall (so that you are making an L shape and are looking at your ceiling). Raise your legs straight up so they rest against the wall and let them fall to the sides. Gravity will do the stretching for you. Hope that helps!

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    You have a nice face. I can't tell about your body either but from my experience, it had more to do with proportions. If you are on the thicker side, your waist should be substantially smaller than your hips. If you're skinny, you can get away with more - even if you're not as proportionate (0.6 - 0.8 hip:waist ratio).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Helle View Post
    I can't tell your body from your picture. Your face is very pretty and if you're sociable, then you've won half the battle already.

    I'm the biggest girl at my club--and probably 'big' by most people's standards here. I weigh 140-145 and am 5'6.


    Ya I am about 5'7 and uhhhhhhh I weigh waaaaaaaaaaaay more than that, and if your the biggest then I gotta lot of work to do.........But I really appreciate all of your guys comments thank you soooo much........

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    Grab a measuring tape. Measure your waist. Measure the widest part of your hips. Divide hips/waist. What decimal number do you get? Is it between .6 and .8? If so, you might be good! Height and weight don't always mean anything. I'm a lot heavier than I look.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ahmeerah View Post
    Grab a measuring tape. Measure your waist. Measure the widest part of your hips. Divide hips/waist. What decimal number do you get? Is it between .6 and .8? If so, you might be good! Height and weight don't always mean anything. I'm a lot heavier than I look.
    Thank G-d someone said it before I got on my classic rant.

    I'm 5'1" and somewhere currently in the 135 range. All muscle, I'm thin and have a 6 pack... weight and height mean bubkes!


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    I think it really depends as everybody is saying. I have worked in clubs where I was on the bigger side (I'm 5'2" and 120 but I think at the time I was more like 125) and at my current height and weight I would say I'm in the middle, there are girls bigger than me and girls smaller than me. You can't really say just based on weights though, everybody's different....My grandma weighed 140 at my height and could barely wear a size 2. She had a huge bone structure.
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    I agree with what ahmeerah said. If you're curvy, you can do just fine, especially because you have a kind of "domme" look going on. Tits + Ass + Those Lovely Severe Eyebrows You've Got = buck$ for you.

    On the other hand, if you're plump (like I am now... awwwww yeah) and/or if your confidence depends upon losing weight, then by all means drop a few pounds.

    On the third hand, if you're not making much money now, you might as well try dancing sooner rather than later. You might be surprised by the number of curvy ladies who bank, and maybe you'll be one of them.
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    I think you're to die for.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaden_GD View Post
    Wear a form-fitting corset or something of the sort.
    Yeah! And someone else mentioned the domminatrix thing. I can totally see that. I think you'd be hot! Grab a corset and rock it out as a domme (if you're comfortable with that). I think you'd do really well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by teeth_of_the_hydra View Post
    I agree with what ahmeerah said. If you're curvy, you can do just fine, especially because you have a kind of "domme" look going on. Tits + Ass + Those Lovely Severe Eyebrows You've Got = buck$ for you.

    On the other hand, if you're plump (like I am now... awwwww yeah) and/or if your confidence depends upon losing weight, then by all means drop a few pounds.

    On the third hand, if you're not making much money now, you might as well try dancing sooner rather than later. You might be surprised by the number of curvy ladies who bank, and maybe you'll be one of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ahmeerah View Post
    Yeah! And someone else mentioned the domminatrix thing. I can totally see that. I think you'd be hot! Grab a corset and rock it out as a domme (if you're comfortable with that). I think you'd do really well.

    THAT'S A GOOD IDEA THE CORSET I LOVE IT............AND WHAT DO I WEAR ON THE BOTTOM????????

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    Im 5'8, about 155, and a size 11. That could look really big on some girls, I just look pretty curvy. Ive got a bit more tummy than I would like, but not so much that I get many comment on it. The top earner in my club is bigger than I am. Its all about confidence.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxanna View Post
    Im 5'8, about 155, and a size 11. That could look really big on some girls, I just look pretty curvy. Ive got a bit more tummy than I would like, but not so much that I get many comment on it. The top earner in my club is bigger than I am. Its all about confidence.


    AND HOW EXACTLY DO YOU APPEAR CONFIDENT............AS IN??????? THEY WAY YOU WALK,TALK??? APPROACH....... ACT LIKE ALL EYES ON YOU???

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    The way to appear confident is to stand and walk like you have a brand new pair of ginormous tits.

    Srsly.


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    pretty face
    As for biggest girl in my club. About 250lbs!! we have everything from super skinny straight up and down to obese.
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