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    Default What Categories of Guys Will You Not Dance For?

    Like,
    - friends
    - friends-of-friends
    - anyone you know IRL
    - regulars you have had friction with
    - gross/smelly/whatever


    And related, how do you handle it when someone you don't want to dance for, "insists"? Walk away? Call a bouncer? Go to the dressing room?

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    Close friends, grabby/disrespectful guys, guys who look like possible pimps, guys who try negotiating the dance price, etc. Also, I do not talk to guys if they happen to be Greek. Greek guys are guaranteed assholes.

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    Sweatpant boner man!!!

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    Default Re: What Categories of Guys Will You Not Dance For?

    anyone who works at the club.
    regulars that i have friction with or who regularly piss me off.
    that's about it. i'm a little more tolerate of smelly/gross people than most girls are, i guess.

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    People I know IRL, unless I'm not particularly interested in maintaining a friendship with the guy or interacting in non-awkward ways in the future. And it's never come up, but friends of friends might be too awkward as well.

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    Broke men!

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    Guys who start to get super-clingy and delusional.
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    all of the above mentioned categories
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    most of the above and guys that don't speak English very well.... they tend to be VERY grabby and aggressive
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    friends boyfriends :o
    And face lickers!!!

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    Sweatpant boner man!!!
    Waaah I showed up for a private earlier this week way the hell out of town and lo and behold the pervert was wearing those dreaded basketball shorts with nothing underneath! He kept trying to push me down on his lap. I wanted to kick him in his nuts. Blech.

    I won't dance for people I know IRL for the most part, unless it was just a casual acquaintance from the past. I also won't dance for anyone who repeatedly asks/demands extras when I've made it crystal clear they've got the wrong girl for that.
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    People who have pissed me off...usually by being rude,grabby,or disrespectful

    Guys who smell REALLY bad...I do NOT want to spend the rest of the night stinking to high heaven of his B.O.....so not worth $20!

    Guys friends have warned me about for any reason.(and I mean friends...people I actually trust,not just random dancers or custies..though I will take their warning into consideration and be on my guard)

    I actually dont mind dancing for friends most of the time. Though I dont like taking their money.

    If I dont want to, I just dont and walk away. If the guy gives me trouble I put him in his place,or if I dont feel like dealing with him, call a bouncer.

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    my husbands friends
    anyone i know personally from outside the club

    I just ignore them
    before you point the finger make sure your hands are clean

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    Quote Originally Posted by AznExtasy View Post
    Close friends, grabby/disrespectful guys, guys who look like possible pimps, guys who try negotiating the dance price, etc. Also, I do not talk to guys if they happen to be Greek. Greek guys are guaranteed assholes.
    my customer is greek. he comes in seriously almost every time i work. i dont particularly like him.. he's annoying. but he isn't an asshole. he is obsessed with being greek, though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by indianprincess View Post
    Persian men from Iran are also the shittiest stripclub customers. Seriously. Just a crappy bunch of men.
    This is what I've always heard, but oddly my tiny sample of Persian customers has been pretty nice for the most part. I always get a bit wary when they tell me where they're from, and prepare myself for a hard time, and then they turn out to be decent guys. A couple did mention that they left Iran because they don't agree with the policies of the current government, so maybe that extends to having a more humane view of women.

    Certain other nationalities, though... argh. I try not to stereotype, but it's just too easy sometimes.

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    I actually have a good way about me to put up with the assholes, guy constantly pushing for more, making rude comments, etc. And I'll torture myself with the guys that stink, but make sure to clean myself up VERY well afterwards . . . and hold my breath more of the time.

    It's the guys that I have personal conflicts that I won't dance for. I.G, a billionare custie who came into our shitthole club to play keno and drop 1000+ on one or two girls 3 times a week--always pressuring us to see him outside the club, playing favorites with the ones that would, eventually fucking one girl in the lapdance room. Or a guy that would be the only guy sitting at the stage so we would HAVE to go up and dance, even if he wasn't tipping, and he didn't tip anyone but one girl. (If no one was at the stage we didn't have to go up.)

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    i'll dance for anyone unless they:

    have severe bad breath
    smell bad in general
    are rude and/or handsy
    try to lick or kiss me

    i also (i'm sorry but it's true) have an aversion to people who can't speak english. especially if they are indian or mexican. it's not a racist thing, it's a cultural thing. i'd say 50% of my realllllly bad grabbers couldn't speak english.

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    guys who presume to know what you make, who you are and what background or social class you come from determines why you are a dancer. major turnoff!

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    I don't dance for assholes, broke customers, and those disrespectful of my rules.

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    - grabby customers
    - rude customers
    - cheap customers. I just will not negotiate my dance price and if they insist I just walk away
    - very drunk customers (sometimes I do but it depends, if they are really drunk I prefer not too)
    - I dont approach really old guys but I would not refuse to dance for one if he asked

    I dont have a problem with these customers insisting on getting a dance because I just walk away. If they followed me and harassed me about it I would just call security.
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    the only latino i danced for was a double dance, and he was supposedly from the mexican government. Me and the other girl knew something could happen, but we didn't know to what extent. As soon as we got back to VIP, he had his tongue all over the place. before I knew it, he had her pinned down. She kicked and screamed and wailed on his ass. I was flabbergasted and froze. He was promptly kicked out though. So yeah, no more latinos. Not unless they show me something other than a leer and a whistle and a grabby hand. Douchewaffles...

    I also do not dance for dudes who wave a dollar at me and demand that I show them "what I got." Guys who tell me they are only there to get a beer and chill out (um... go to the fucking bar down the street and quit being a cheap bastard). Guys who say "i'm a male dancer" and think they have an "in" with you because you're cut from the same cloth, supposedly. I don't care if you strip. You have no right putting your hands up on my hips and scanning me up and down like you have the authority or purpose to judge me. I don't dance for anyone i know IRL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by moll_flanders View Post
    This is what I've always heard, but oddly my tiny sample of Persian customers has been pretty nice for the most part.
    Molly, you identified yourself as being in Los Angeles. It is my understanding, that Iranians that one would meet in LA tend to be the ones who came to the US after the fall Shah in late 1970's. They tend to be of upper or upper middle class. For whatever reason they concentrated in LA. Moreover, after 30 years they pretty much assimilated into the US culture.

    I think the Iranians that Indianprincess, those that do not really differentiate between a strip club and a whorehouse, and that shower infrequently, are the more recent arrivals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Like,
    - friends
    - friends-of-friends
    - anyone you know IRL
    - regulars you have had friction with
    - gross/smelly/whatever
    I think that after reading the follow-up posts to this query, the list is getting longer and longer.

    Let's cut to the chase: very roughly, what percentage of customers do you, as a dancer, turn down? Every other one? One in ten? One in a hundred?

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