First off: sorry if this thread has been done a million times before but I'm desperate for advice and this seems to be the best place to ask.
Basically, I'm a 20 year old University student from London and I'm dating a 22 year old Stripper. We met about 10 weeks or so ago and have been properly dating exclusively for about 2 months. We get along great; are really attracted to each other; have a lot in common; share interests etc. etc. but I can't help but feel like my girlfriend doesn't really dig me as much as I like her and it's getting in the way of me enjoying our relationship and I don't know what to do anymore.
She just doesn't seem to want to open up and when she does she seems to chastise herself for it and go cold on me for a period of time before being trusting again at some random time in the future when she decides to contact me...
I'm not trying to buy her affection because I'm at University and don't even have the money to and I'm not dating her for the kudos from my friends but because I really like this girl and I think I can see a future with her despite her being older and this being my first real relationship... but I don't know if a relationship should be this hard given that it's my first- is it because she's a Stripper? Do Strippers find it tough to trust men given the nature of their work? Am I asking too much?
What should I do? Will she ever really trust me or should I just forget about ever having a real relationship with her and move on?
This is driving me nuts!!!!!
Please help![]()






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