Hi girls.
I had an offer that's hard to refuse. So i really need some sound advice.
Met this guy, older and attractive. I fancy him as it is. But on the date my first question was if his married. He straight out said so that he was. No really wanting to loose a good day out i vestured around central London with him. As expected he's a gentleman all the times he's not on his phone. which by all means Is pretty fine with me. Through this i met two of his work colleagues-and what i got from it wasn't much to be concerned about (nothing i never herd before)- they are very ruthless business men, and own a handful of Buildings (or something like it) all around central London.
Point is-all in all. He's a cool guy, whose eager to make his money. When i mentioned i want to move-up on the stripping wold, and start a sort of business. He jumped to the chance. He seemed serious, and at times he could not stop talking about it. I told him i already had someone else in mind whom i trusted. He suggested we all meet and discus it. Hence he's not bullshitting-which i asked several times.
Things is. In a general i like him. He showed me a really good time ( mean met my every beck and call- a made a dancer's night-she was good) and this is a offer that's hard to refuse. But then i don't really want to relly on a man for this- then he makes it 'clear' that this is a partnership. Given things are hard as it is when you want to start something on your own, and you have no idea how or have the money-this sounds apealing. But, I know i need to stablish trust and what not. He seems willing to under-go the tests for that.
Then. The catch is-He is interested in me romantically-given he lives london for the most part of his life. (it seems)-this means I'm the other woman. But i told him this is not something i do-ever. But it has never been something i was always completely against. in the past I simply decided against it cause often there is kids involved, and in that sense I don't want little ones to get hurt. His kids, however, are older than me.
I got a level head on me. I know for a fact i know how to use my sexuality to my benefit, and i don't see any reason why not in this situation. I know not to sleep with him on the get-go. Made sure of that, and I told him that if i do agree to this-he's going to have to try like all the others guys do. Don't mean i say 'yes' and thats me on his bed.
I said i'll give him an answer today. Regarding the seeing where we go sort of thing. Although-the business side of it seems like it's going to go on ahead anyways-i'll have to see with him today. Either way, am i in over my head? or is this a chance i should take? So, if anything, i don't regret it. But then i know in the end-possibly i might even regret going for it.
Help. Advice as soon as possible.



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