Recently, a friend of mine (and regular customer) told me that he brought a friend of his to the club and, since it was this friend's (who we will call Aaron) first time, they bought him a lap dance from the girl he found the prettiest.
My friend said Aaron is a very shy type, a push over. Five seconds into the dance, the dancer starts unbuttoning his shorts and pulls out his dick and puts it in her mouth. He was so overwhelmed. He didn't want to offend her. He pushed her shoulders gently forward and told her he didn't want that. She tried again. He said no and got up and left. The girl was offended and yelled at him in front of everyone. The friends paid for the dance and Aaron made them all leave. In the car, he was shaking and he teared up. He has a girlfriend at home and he just felt so terrible about it all. He felt violated.
I couldn't believe it. I wasn't surprised about the girl. This is the kind of club where things like this happen and management looks the other way usually. But I know these guys and they are good guys. I guess I just never imagined that a customer might feel violated by such behavior- but why wouldn't they? Customers, like dancers, have every right to having their boundaries protected. What should I do? These guys are good spenders and they feel strange coming back now.
Also, goes to show you that stereotypes just do not work. Not all customers want you to give extras.


Reply With Quote
Bookmarks