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    I would like to know a little curiosity thing because I get kinda of tired of reading people who have really odd ideas about strippers and one is that strippers can't get married because no men will marry them just because they are strippers so I would like to know are you in a relationship?


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    I'm newly engaged, and man, those people make me fightn' angry! One of finance's cousins freaked out so hard we might have to get a restraining order if she doesn't calm down.

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    I am so sorry Perry I hope the cousin calms down, wth does she care anyway? ugh!


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    I had relationships while dancing--only I never cared to date men or for marriage--why is it assumed all dancers want the same things out of a realtionship??

    I worked with many women who were married BTW some for many years with children and everything.

    Since I was a dancer and I'm gay I have had issues w/my g/fs not liking my job and I didn't blame them, but it wasn't the deal breaker and I have dated other dancers soo I wouldn't consider it a reason to or not to be with a girl or to get married or not.

    PS I had many men ask to marry me that wouldn't have given a rats ass about the fact they knew me as a dancer and completely gay on top of that soo goes to show that marriage means alot of things to different people and not every man is against marrying a stripper I mean if some1 whole goal in dating is getting married lots of men just want a trophy wife and would pick a sexy stripper just to show off to thier friends believe it or not
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    Married with 2 kids. I'm retired now, but I was married for several years while dancing. We lived together for 2 or 3 years before getting married. We couldn't be more boring if we tried, he's a finance executive and I'm a stereotypical soccer mom, living in the suburbs.

    ETA - We have the most stable marriage I know and still people judge us because I was a dancer. We just lost a couple of friends after confiding in them. They have tons of drama and do drugs occassionally and talk about sex constantly, but we are too trashy for them...

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    married.
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    I am also in a longterm relationship, we have been living together for about a year and a half, together for 2 years now.


    Quote Originally Posted by UV69 View Post
    and not every man is against marrying a stripper I mean if some1 whole goal in dating is getting married lots of men just want a trophy wife and would pick a sexy stripper just to show off to thier friends believe it or not
    Yes I agree with this post. I can't tell you how many pathetic men came to my old club searching for some really hot stripper to date/marry/whatever, they just view it as a trophy. I bet for every man who thinks its trashy there is at least one who thinks of it as cool

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    I met someone incredible and his "coolness" with my job has to do with the fact his life has been more unique and crazy than mine.

    It's true that there is someone out there for everyone. "Dreams really do come true."

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    I met my bf when I was a stripper, we had a 6 year relationship, only recently breaking up over things totally unrelated to dancing

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    i have a terrible sense my relationship is quickly deteriorating. this blows.

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    I love my boyfriend and we have lived together for a year. He doesn't think I am a ho.
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    God loves strippers and when guys do things like that its an automatic ticket to HELL!


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    Perhaps you stopped spending money on her. Strippers need money to operate. They are like coin operated juke-boxes of love.

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    Isabella and Colette (hugs)


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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    I love my boyfriend and we have lived together for a year. He no thinks I a ho.
    lol


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    The guy I was with when I started dancing had a slight issue with it (we'd been together for about 3 years then), but accepted it and we broke up a year later from unrelated issues.

    The next guy I was with knew that I was a dancer before he even got my phone #, and my job eventually became a huge issue - and 1.5 yrs of hell followed.

    The guy I'm dating now: I actually met him at the club (ashamed to say so). We're not 100% serious, and at the moment, he has no issue with my job. His theory is that we met there, so he has no right to be bothered by it. I don't know if he'd marry me while I dance though, I've never asked and truthfully, I'd probably quit prior to getting married.

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    I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we've been living together for the past month and a half. I'm officially moving out because I need a place much closer to school, but I will probably still spend about half my week at his place.

    He has never judged me for what I do. As for marriage - well, I'm only 22. I'm ok with guys not wanting to commit with a stripper themselves, but I think it's silly to assume that everyone shares your boundaries and to make your own comfort level into some kind of moral code.

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    Mose dancers I know are married, commited, or have someone they see on a regular basis. The ones that don't usually have some pimp they call their boyfriend.

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    I don't have the time or the patience to be in a relationship right now, LOL.



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    living with my bf of 5+ years

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    married over 8 years...together over 10

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    CK you know where I'm talking about.


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    Married for two years, been with him for six.
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    I met my husband in my club
    we are married now and i am a stay at home mom
    Once i get my body back and my big fake boobies i may dance 1 night a week



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    SO and I have been together over 3 years living together for over 2 years and have talked about marriage and have been proposed to by men that knew I was a dancer so.....fuck everyone with a stereotype, like someone else said outside of work I am one of the most boring and uptight ppl you will ever meet lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by High-Heel-Lover View Post
    CK you know where I'm talking about.
    Yeah...I havent been back since it seemed a bit judgmental.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CKXXX View Post
    Yeah...I havent been back since it seemed a bit judgmental.

    Sorry about that. I did however get an explanation, it isn't about the dancers it is about the men who are a certain way and yet wouldn't bring a dancer home to the family or marry them. I thought they were saying something else. But good to know cause if anyone says dancers and marriage or relationships don't mix well then! shut up!


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