I was recently involved with a woman who was a former stripper. When I met her, she hadn't danced for about 2-3 months and had a office job. Prior to that, she had danced for about, collectively 5 years.
The relationship started off fast and exciting and wonderful. The sex was great! She was very adventurous and loving.
But, about 5 months into it, she lost her sexual drive. She insisted that it had nothing to do with me and I shouldn't take it personally. However, she did say she didn't want to sex with me and lost her sexual attraction to me. She also said, she doesn't even see any guys that she is attracted to.
She couldn't really explain it to me. She mentioned how she didn't feel sexy anymore. She stopped shaving downstairs and her body was not in "dancing shape." I loved her body but she felt the extra weight gain was something she wasn't used to.
One time she asked me, "do you know what's like to be dancing for as long as I have and stop know how it would affect me?"
I don't. I wonder, though. If she spent a significant time of her adult life working at a job where it's all about being sexy and flirtatious and then she gets a job where she works with women and sexuality plays no role in it at all, how might one change because of it.
I'm just hoping to hear from former strippers and maybe I can gain a better understanding of what it must be like to stop stripping. Thanks.



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