
Originally Posted by
cinammonkisses
I dunno, for me when I had a regular like that, I wanted to "spoil" him on occasion as well. It made him feel like I cared..dont' get me wrong, I did but I still wanted him to shell out more $$$. I wouldn't buy him expensive things, but maybe like a hoodie from my college, or shot glasses. Something small that lets him know I was thinking about him. That keeps his gift giving for you open imo.
I would say something like, "you're always spoiling me with nice things, what could I get for you" or "x-mas/halloween is coming up, what can I get you" That'll remind him to get you something, eventhough he probably won't want anything.
It's quite probable that he won't want anything from you..he will keep that in the back of his mind that you asked though, and he'll 'pay you' for your generosity.
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