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    Default With Regulars: How to ask for what you want without being greedy???

    I was just wondering what your opinions are on this:

    I have a regular who buys me gifts on a regular basis. Normally gifts in leu of cash aren't the best, but he does give me cash if I ask, and his gifts are pretty primmo (like we're talking in the five hundred plus dollar range)

    Now...I basically have to ask or mention I like something before he gets it for me. How often can I mention something I want? ( we talk via email and cell phone...but we dont meet OTC)

    Every two weeks? Is that fair? What do you guys think? He DOES buy the things I say I want (IE new lap top, expensive clothing items, ETC) and I do spend about 10 hours a week chatting with him in various sorts. He doesn't always compensate me with cash, but he is consistent about giving me large sums of money at once (say the 200 dollar plus range) every tthree or so times we interact, and he also gives me presents (again in the five hundred dollar to one thousand dollar range) at least once a month.

    All of these things have been of his own accord...but how do I keep them rolling, or asking for them, without seeming greedy?

    Anybodys help would be much appreciated and thank you in advance!
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    Default Re: With Regulars: How to ask for what you want without being greedy???

    well, chances are he knows the game as well as you do; that he is providing you with these gifts in exchange for your companionship.

    so If I were you, I'd just mention things you like or want, " Of, I was shopping today and I saw this beautiful____that I really wanted but couldnt buy"

    he should pick up on the cue and offer to get it for you...if he's dense and you actually have to ask..." I saw this lovely___thing I wanted but I can't afford it, maybe next time your out if you see if you could pick it up for me?"

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    I dunno, for me when I had a regular like that, I wanted to "spoil" him on occasion as well. It made him feel like I cared..dont' get me wrong, I did but I still wanted him to shell out more $$$. I wouldn't buy him expensive things, but maybe like a hoodie from my college, or shot glasses. Something small that lets him know I was thinking about him. That keeps his gift giving for you open imo.

    I would say something like, "you're always spoiling me with nice things, what could I get for you" or "x-mas/halloween is coming up, what can I get you" That'll remind him to get you something, eventhough he probably won't want anything.

    It's quite probable that he won't want anything from you..he will keep that in the back of his mind that you asked though, and he'll 'pay you' for your generosity.







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    Default Re: With Regulars: How to ask for what you want without being greedy???

    ^^
    I think that would work really well actually.

    My reg told me his pant size the other night, so I guess he has been hinting at me getting him something.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    I dunno, for me when I had a regular like that, I wanted to "spoil" him on occasion as well. It made him feel like I cared..dont' get me wrong, I did but I still wanted him to shell out more $$$. I wouldn't buy him expensive things, but maybe like a hoodie from my college, or shot glasses. Something small that lets him know I was thinking about him. That keeps his gift giving for you open imo.

    I would say something like, "you're always spoiling me with nice things, what could I get for you" or "x-mas/halloween is coming up, what can I get you" That'll remind him to get you something, eventhough he probably won't want anything.

    It's quite probable that he won't want anything from you..he will keep that in the back of his mind that you asked though, and he'll 'pay you' for your generosity.
    Thats a very good idea!
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    I don't know about getting him a gift. As much as it would be a wonderful gesture with great karma points, I can see it backfiring. As in he might take that as, he's been generous enough already, he doesn't owe her anything anymore, now it's her turn to be generous. End cash flow. Or, he might think that she doesn't see him as a custie anymore, but as a friend, and he doesn't have to pay her anymore. End cash flow.

    Do it if the customer-dancer relationship is strong enough, which it might be considering what he's been willing to give you. But be careful. Once his view of the relationship changes, it's near impossible to set it back on track without losing him completely.

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    I know it may seem like this..but this gift gesture I did kept my regular all mine for almost 3 years..







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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    I dunno, for me when I had a regular like that, I wanted to "spoil" him on occasion as well. It made him feel like I cared..dont' get me wrong, I did but I still wanted him to shell out more $$$. I wouldn't buy him expensive things, but maybe like a hoodie from my college, or shot glasses. Something small that lets him know I was thinking about him. That keeps his gift giving for you open imo.

    I would say something like, "you're always spoiling me with nice things, what could I get for you" or "x-mas/halloween is coming up, what can I get you" That'll remind him to get you something, eventhough he probably won't want anything.

    It's quite probable that he won't want anything from you..he will keep that in the back of his mind that you asked though, and he'll 'pay you' for your generosity.

    That is brilliant! And then write it off on your taxes (as a deduction) under gifts and entertainment (for clients). Brilliant!!!!

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    Default Re: With Regulars: How to ask for what you want without being greedy???

    CK, what is something small and nice you got for your SD? I wanna get mine something (I've been a bit bratty lately and he's taking me to Vegas lol).

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