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    Has anyone just hit it off with a dancer to the point of getting a lump in your throat everytime you see her? It is like love at first sight and she may feel the same way. It is like You want to buy her a nice coach handbag and diamond and sapphire ring and she doesn't mind. She also loves nice silver earrings from Department stores like Bloomingdales and Macys. She makes one feel like a teenager again. anybody have a similar experience?

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    Long ago....I got over it. If you are having fun its all good. Just know when to quit.

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    I have had many a gal over the years whom I looked forward to seeing, even so much as driving to another state to see them, but that was for my own selfish interests. I certainly never have had the urge to pamper them with expensive gifts or jewelry. Why piss away perfectly good lap dance money?

    Just the same, I'm sure they looked forward to seeing me too, but only because they saw dollar signs going off in their heads.

    And of course, every time that I've made extensive efforts to see a gal and they weren't available for some reason, well.....it wasn't long before another gal came by and gave me the good time I came in to have, and attended to me every bit as well as the first gal, in some cases better.

    Enjoy the high of your infatuation. Its more fleeting than you think, and soon will pass.
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    Has anyone just hit it off with a dancer to the point of getting a lump in your throat everytime you see her? It is like love at first sight and she may feel the same way. It is like You want to buy her a nice coach handbag and diamond and sapphire ring and she doesn't mind. She also loves nice silver earrings from Department stores like Bloomingdales and Macys. She makes one feel like a teenager again. anybody have a similar experience?
    Did she give you her wishlist unprompted, or did you ask for it?

    I've had lots of dancers make me feel like a teenager for a song or two. Sadly, but predictably, all my grown-up issues return as soon as I step outside the club.

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    I asked.

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    My Indy ATF caused that reaction. We hung out for about a year or so before things exploded. Which sent me into a hiatus lasting 9 months. My current fav brings out more reasonable reactions in me. I mean, I'm all over the RR lotion fun with her but she doesn't make me feel like she expects me to leave my wife. The emotional highs with my Indy girl were more intense but my current situation makes a lot more sense and is more of a mellow buzz relationship-wise.

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    Sure, all the time. It's part of the fun. Don't kid yourself though. Dancer/customer romances do happen sometimes but it's rare. Dancers are very good at making you feel like you are the only guy that matters to them. And you are! Until you leave the club and the next regular shows up...
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    Well, I hope it all works out well for you. But I must say that these infatuations tend to exist in the minds of the customers only.

    Good luck.

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    No.

    I had plenty of dancers make me feel good, but I've never fallen in love, or lust with any of them. I have no desire to.

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    I have fallen in lust with a few dancers, but never in love. Remember a SC is all about fantasy. SC's can be a lot of fun if you can seperate fantasy from reality.

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    I'll likely never fall in love with a dancer.
    They are nothing more than a person who helps bring me out of my episodes with depression.
    Now, otc they are more than that, but I never see/meet any dancer otc.
    Hell, I never see anyone I dont work with anyway, so it's pointless for me.

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    Yes to feelings of instant infatuation, but no to feelings of gift giving. I tend to associate gift giving as something done between people who are close, and I have never known a dancer more then a night or two.

    But hey, it's your money. The only thing is some dancers say they'd rather just have the money, so buy dances with it. Then they can buy what they want/need and also it doesn't cross a boundary (taking the whole thing far too personally as if it was a real relationship).

    That said it is a big world and if she is happy with the gifts and you are then hey, whatever works between you two is all good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by liberator View Post
    Has anyone just hit it off with a dancer to the point of getting a lump in your throat everytime you see her? It is like love at first sight and she may feel the same way. It is like You want to buy her a nice coach handbag and diamond and sapphire ring and she doesn't mind. She also loves nice silver earrings from Department stores like Bloomingdales and Macys. She makes one feel like a teenager again. anybody have a similar experience?
    I've had that "hit it off" thing only once but never the lump in the throat or the feeling of wanting to buy her expensive gifts. Dancers are women too so sometimes you're gonna meet someone where there is an instant attraction between you two but if that gift thing came into play then i think your infatuation is just one sided

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    It took more time to get over the flu. Less painful too. But I learned.

    Looking back on it now, remarkably how similar they were.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by liberator View Post
    Has anyone just hit it off with a dancer to the point of getting a lump in your throat everytime you see her? It is like love at first sight and she may feel the same way. It is like You want to buy her a nice coach handbag and diamond and sapphire ring and she doesn't mind. She also loves nice silver earrings from Department stores like Bloomingdales and Macys. She makes one feel like a teenager again. anybody have a similar experience?
    ok, i have to respond on this. Honestly, you need to be slapped upside the head with the common sense bat. You are getting ITC and interest confused. SCs are fantasy land. Fantasies cost money. Understand the Number 1 rule of SCs, the girls work for the money. They don't work because they enjoy the work or anything like that. They work for the money. The girls aren't mean and evil, merely working for money. The chances of a girl actually liking you and interested in dating you are fairly small. its not to say that the probability is zero, merely small. Personally, I have known 5 different couples where the girl is a dance and they met in a club. My point is that 5 couples over 20 years is fairly small number.

    The simple fact you know about her earrings would make me nervous. I'm wondering if she brought it up or you asked. I'd be nervous either way.

    I'd suggest moving on and looking for someone else.
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    Quote Originally Posted by liberator View Post
    Has anyone just hit it off with a dancer to the point of getting a lump in your throat everytime you see her? It is like love at first sight and she may feel the same way. It is like You want to buy her a nice coach handbag and diamond and sapphire ring and she doesn't mind. She also loves nice silver earrings from Department stores like Bloomingdales and Macys. She makes one feel like a teenager again. anybody have a similar experience?
    Yes we all did/do but now know the truth. She loves earrings and you love BJs work something out.

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