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    Last night was shitty as phuck for me & the rest of the girls at my club.
    I got to the club around 4PM and left a little after 1AM.

    I got 2 FUCKING DANCES the whole time!

    It was too slow last night causing that to happen also. The management didn't even bother to have me tipout but I did tip the dj. Even a girl that has been dancing for 2 years was also doing bad so decided to get wasted on the job and the manager had to talk with her.

    I know I've only been dancing for 2 days but DAMN, was I mad.
    I kept looking at the lapdance chart at (S) was getting dances out of nowhere (she had about almost 10 dances when the rest of us had less than 5)!
    I feel really discouraged but was wondering should I give it a try again tonight or would I be pushing my luck? Or maybe audition at another club tonight but sort of want to start feeling comfortable at this club!

    I HATE when a guy will come in the club, sit down, and I'd just introduce myself to him and he'd be like,

    "I'm trying to settle down right now"

    so I'll say,

    "That's fine! I'll come back later to check up on you "


    He agrees so I come back about 20 minutes later and ask how he is and about a dance and he rejects it.
    Next thing you know he's going to the booth with another girl or he says that he's waiting to have a dance with another girl other than me!

    I try not to let it get to me but it does.
    I don't have a hustle down exactly which is KILLING me!
    I'm good on stage but I FUCKING SUCK when having more confidence when asking for dances.
    What the HELL am I doing wrong??
    Should I stick with this club for starters or would you try somewhere else out?

    Help.

    "Strippers are like pet tigers. They are nice to look at but they are not for everyone."

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    Default Re: Bummed but willing to try again

    How long are you introducing yourself for? What are you talking about? While you're talking to him, does he have a genuine interest in you, or is he looking everywhere else besides at you?

    As far as him telling you to come back and not getting a dance, maybe you just aren't closing the deal. Remember ABC: Always Be Closing!!!

    I told you before that all men have a preference, so sometimes even having the best sales pitch is not enough. Check out Hustle Hut and read up.







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    Default Re: Bummed but willing to try again

    If you've only been dancing for 2 days I wouldn't start switching clubs just yet. That's a bit premature in my opinion. I understand that you're discouraged but it's only been 2 days. Don't compare your earnings to anyone elses. Take the advice that CK has given you.
    "I Can Sell Raid To A Bug. i'm A Hustler I Can Sell Salt To A Slug" -Cassidy

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    Default Re: Bummed but willing to try again

    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    How long are you introducing yourself for? What are you talking about? While you're talking to him, does he have a genuine interest in you, or is he looking everywhere else besides at you?

    As far as him telling you to come back and not getting a dance, maybe you just aren't closing the deal. Remember ABC: Always Be Closing!!!

    I told you before that all men have a preference, so sometimes even having the best sales pitch is not enough. Check out Hustle Hut and read up.
    What do you mean by closing the deal? I'm a newbie too, so I don't know a lot

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    Default Re: Bummed but willing to try again

    ^^^Go to hustle hut and click on the thread "helpful things"
    "I Can Sell Raid To A Bug. i'm A Hustler I Can Sell Salt To A Slug" -Cassidy

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    Default Re: Bummed but willing to try again

    Ok well you know its not everyday that u are gonna make alot of money there will be days that u make 0$..and that is part of the game my dear..and as for the guy well your gonna get that ALOT ..so u gonna have to get used to it ...sorry if that sounds rude but thats the way it is ..
    dont worry it will pick up ! good luck !
    xoxo

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kyleigh1984 View Post
    What do you mean by closing the deal? I'm a newbie too, so I don't know a lot
    closing the deal all apart of the sales game regardless of the industry. Remember, that is the ENTIRE point of you going to sit with every guy you decide to talk to...getting a dance. To get a dance, you have to ABC = Always Be Closing

    Actually, here is a thread called "Always Be Closing" http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...highlight=ABC*

    Quote Originally Posted by sparkleeyz View Post
    ^^^Go to hustle hut and click on the thread "helpful things"
    Thanks!







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