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    Sorry I couldn't think of a good title.

    I go to a small club that doesn't have a lot of girls or customers b/c it is the closest to my house, they have a 3 for $30 special, and high mileage girls.

    I get with a new girl there who is high mileage and not disgusting.

    I see her two weeks later, she half remembered me.

    Then I see her for the third time a week later.

    The second time I saw her she started asking questions about where I live and such. I mentioned seeing her outside the club. She was open to it.

    The third time I brought my number on a napkin.

    She said she had to drive another stripper to a club after work 40min away(she works during the day) so I figured that would take to long. She said she would blow her off but I didn't want her to do that. So I brought up seeing her 2morrow b/f work. She said ok. I gave her the napkin.

    She never called.

    So I went in a week later which was yesterday and she was there. She ignored me, I happened to walk right by her at the bar when I came in(she was with another stripper and a guy), it's a small club. She walked by me a few times. She didn't even bother with an excuse, not that I would have accepted it.

    But what confuses me is since I saw her 3 times in 4 weeks why would she lie to me and lose getting any more money from me? It makes no sense to me and it's not the first time. It's like a business cheating a good customer.

    Again this is a small club that is not busy during the day when she works. If it were a busy club I could more understand.

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    Well, I think you have a good screen name.

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    You are at a trashy 3/$30 high mileage club and you expect quality?


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Default Re: Why lead customer on when it will hurt you

    Nothing about this makes sense...unless we are not hearing the whole story...
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    You probably weren't spending enough for her to give a shit. Especially if you go to high mileage clubs looking for "deals".

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    Well, I think you have a good screen name.


    agreed,

    dude at 3 for 30 she isn't getting rich, she knows either you will be back around or you won't, she really doesn't care either way, she might have met you outside the club because she had nothing else to do, but something better came up,or nothing came up at all and she just felt like smoking weed all afternoon, a dancer working that type of situation simply doesn't give a shit, it is that simple.

    next time, when she suggests something, whatever it is, just go for it, if she says she is going to blow off her friend, just nod your head and agree with her, she is more likely to follow thru when it is her idea, her vibe, but it is hardly a 'given'. btw, you are thinking about it all wrong when you talk about her business sense, dancers in this type of situation are flaky about everything, if they were astute business woman they would either have a different job or work at a higher paying club.

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    shit, my bad, i just realized i wasn't supposed to post in this section...

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    Quote Originally Posted by whitelight97402 View Post
    shit, my bad, i just realized i wasn't supposed to post in this section...
    You can post in this section. Its Customer Conversation. Just try and stay away from other sections that are obviously industry related particularly Stripping General.

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    $3/30 means that you're not a big spender and that she's putting in a minimal effort to humor you. Since you're not going to make or break her night there's no reason to keep talking to you if she deeems that her efforts aren't worth what you're giving her. For example: there's this guy that comes in to my club, and yeah, i know he'll give me $100, but I know that I have to spend like 45 min talking to him. That to me is not worth it so I decided to just ignore him and let the slower hustlers have him.
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    Here's your problem: describing her as 'not disgusting.' That's just shitty.

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    ^^ ^^ Word

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    Even though she may have said she was "open" to the idea of going to your house and boinking you for your hard earned pennies.... she probably wasn't.

    Sometimes lying and nodding sweetly is less of a hassle than calling you gross and cheap. Which you come across as being, IMO.

    She's ignoring you because you are cheap. And because she's in the club to strip, not entertain losers who think the SC is a dating/escort service.

    Had you written your number on a stack of $100 dollar bills, and not on some grimey bar napkin, you might have had better luck.
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    ^yeah, at work i'll agree with almost anything cause i'm too lazy to argue
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    3 for $30? High mileage? Are you in South FL? Because if you are...high mileage = hooker. Hooker=money and you werent spending enough for her to bother anymore. Not to mention that most of the hookers here are also druggies so I wouldnt count on her memory...

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    You can post in this section. Its Customer Conversation. Just try and stay away from other sections that are obviously industry related particularly Stripping General.

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    Well, you came back right? So she was halfway successful. Chances were either you'd spend more... or you'd turn out to be the cheapass you are. This time she lost out but she's probably not missing out on much.

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    a strip club is not match.com....quit trying to date the girls. and oh my you gave her 30$ a couple of times for some high mileage dances, wow now i want to date you!

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    PL69, I think the dancer wasn't leading you on. YOU were leading yourself on. Perhaps on a given date she might be willing to see you OTC, but clearly this wasn't something that matters a lot to her. I would recommend getting over your hurt feelings and enjoy her ITC as you would have if nothing had happened. Go back to your 3/30 high-mileage dances with the "not disgusting" dancer of your dreams. In time, another OTC opportunity may present itself.

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    So, according to this conversation, if you want more than just high mileage ITC, I guess it just takes money. Who knew??
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

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    Gee, we go to our job to earn money for a living, and the more money we can earn in the least amount of time for the least amount of work always prevails.

    This surprises some people!?

    That's like one guy at the stage last night at the new club I am trying. It was VERY QUIET last night. He was the only one at stage for a time. The dancer on stage with me commented that he'd put up one dollar, one of us would dance for him, and then we'd get up and walk away. He almost seemed to expect more out of his dollar. After our set, I sat down next to him hoping for a dance or two. In the meantime, two other customers had sat down on the other side of the stage. He seemed surprised that there guys -who were tipping better- were getting more attention from a particular dancer on stage. I suggested maybe he put out more than just a dollar, because the dancer is more likely to come to you if she feel she will earn more than just *A* dollar when someone else is putting out dollar after dollar as the dancer is in front of him.

    (Was that a run-on? Oops.)

    I still don't think he got it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    Had you written your number on a stack of $100 dollar bills, and not on some grimey bar napkin, you might have had better luck.
    Thanks for the cool tip! I'll try it next time I visit my local SC.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CFMNH44 View Post
    Thanks for the cool tip! I'll try it next time I visit my local SC.
    Or just quit trying to date dancers. If it's meant to be, it will happen without forcing.

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    If there is a 3/$30 HOUSE SPECIAL how much could one dance be

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    Quote Originally Posted by grindonme View Post
    If there is a 3/$30 HOUSE SPECIAL how much could one dance be
    Usually its $20 a song and they do 3/$30 or 3/$40 every hour or so.

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