i finally did it, i applied to a club and a couple days later i went to work.

i finally did it, i applied to a club and a couple days later i went to work.
Last edited by lexxx; 10-12-2008 at 09:38 PM.
The only way to stop being shy is to keep at it. Try what someone esle said (i forget who) and make yourself approach only 3 people, but you HAVE to talk to 3 people.
I just started back after quitting for a year. I promise it gets easier. Just make yourself do it. Remember, they are there for YOU! If they reject you don't take it personally. Just think that they aren't into your type. You are a product at work, a character, not a person (harsh, I know) but guys have different ideas of what they want. If it's not you, move on to the next one. Always go back to the ones who say "maybe later" because sometimes they mean it.
Above all, don't ever give up. Eventually, the shyness WILL wear off. Approach them all like they are the hottest men you have seen all night.
Hope this helps. Sorry if it's everywhere, but I've been cuddling with my friend Skyy Vodka instead of working.![]()
just force yourself to hustle at least 1 person... and with each customer it gets easier...
I don't recommend getting trashed on the job... but maybe one drink will be good to get rid of the nerves?
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