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    I dated this dude for like 5 months. Now a guy he thinks is his friend and new about us being together, and we even hung out with him while we were together, is trying to get with me. Do I tell my x? I dont wanna hurt him, yet I want him to know this dudes not his friend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JsEvangelyna View Post
    I dated this dude for like 5 months. Now a guy he thinks is his friend and new about us being together, and we even hung out with him while we were together, is trying to get with me. Do I tell my x? I dont wanna hurt him, yet I want him to know this dudes not his friend.
    If I was the ex, I'd really want to know.
    Being told the truth about this kind of thing is more important than being saved hurt feelings.
    Also, men dont get hurt, we get mad at the "supposed friend".
    Another thing to think of:
    It's possible the friend asked the ex if it was ok, and the ex just didnt say anything to you.

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    Interesting. Men, this is more common than you think. The power of pussy can corrode male friendships.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bianca O'Blivion View Post
    Interesting. Men, this is more common than you think. The power of pussy can corrode male friendships.
    Maybe.
    I think it's more of an issue that we know it happens alot, but make ourselves believe it doesnt.
    Sometimes we want to get back with our ex, and if she's moved on, then we know it's not happening.
    So no real difference.
    Just a different kind of stupid on our part.

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    This thread is relevant to my interests as well.....

    My ex's "best buddy" was hitting on me but I didn't want to go there for various reasons, mostly selfish. I told my current squeeze and he said it was sad. But look, men are animals at the core and they just need to be REALLY macho when it comes to this thing.

    Why can't you dudes high-five over something like this?

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    Where's the problem exactly? You broke up with a guy and now his friend wants to date you, so what? I mean I get it if you're not interested in the friend, but I don't see how this would be a problem between the guys. It's not like you're still dating his friend, you're free and single, right?

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    ^^ I see it the same way. Where's the problem, it's not like your ex has some claim on you b/c he used to date you. I disagree with the whole idea that you can't date someone that your friend used to date, it's immature.

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    I dont think the issue is to date or not.
    I'm thinking the problem is that she doesnt want the ex's feelings to be hurt.
    She seems to not be sure if it will bother the ex more, or less, if he knew about the friend doing this.

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    Default Re: please help me... I'm trying to do the right thing

    I know I just dont get why it would hurt his feelings if they are exes, but oh well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bianca O'Blivion View Post
    Interesting. Men, this is more common than you think. The power of pussy can corrode male friendships.
    "And when it all boils down
    You gonna find in the end:
    A bitch is a bitch,
    But a dawg is a man's best friend ..."


    "Housewife" - Dr. Dre

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    Default Re: please help me... I'm trying to do the right thing

    If the dating is at an END, there is essentially no problem.

    This is a guy-to-guy thing; it is not a gal-to-gal thing. It is DIFFERENT. When it's over, it's over. New game.

    Guys don't understand the gal-to-gal thing and gals don't understand the guy-to-guy thing.
    I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.

    Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.

    NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

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