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    *Rant*

    On Sunday I had the the dumbest arguement with my younger sister to clean something up, and she refused...& I caught a little white lie off of her. It pissed me the hell off to the point where I grabbed a jar & threw it at her. I missed so I smacked her with a towel. I was screaming and shaking. IDK wtf possesed me to act like that, animal like. I'm upset that I acted like that, it's SO unlike me too. She is a good kid too.

    Now there is this awkwardness where she doesnt want to see me or talk. Don't blame her.

    Maybe stress made me act like that. I'm so embarrassed and ashamed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Samba View Post
    Beating yourself up isn't going to help you at all. I don't blame your sister for avoiding you right now. You did something that probably scared the crap out of her and made her feel unsafe. Give her some time to come around. And of course you going to have to apologize and give her space to trust you again.

    Have you ever had something like this happen before?
    No, never....to anyone. This is why i'm like eh..

    Yes, i'm def. going to appologize and I don't ever want to blow up like that ever again. I think it is stress. I lost my patience, it's scary.

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    Default Re: I'm so mad/disgusted at myself.

    i'd give her some room and then sincerely apologize and maybe even buy her something, like flowers or take her out to dinner.

    but whatever you do, you should apologize sooner or later specifically about this incident. imo, that shows sincerity and maturity.

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    Default Re: I'm so mad/disgusted at myself.

    Yeah, I'm sure you feel bad but don't beat yourself up for it, as long as you apologize & like Samba said give her time, she'll come around. Stress will fuck with you.
    You're lucky, you said she's a good kid. My youngest sister is an ungrateful little brat.
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    Default Re: I'm so mad/disgusted at myself.

    Just apologize and explain that you are under a tremendous amount of stress. She knows that you dont do things like this all the time.

    Honestly, I've lost my temper before like this too and then felt really bad later.

    A sincere apology, and maybe a little gift or taking her out or getting her something she likes but doesnt get a lot. She'll get over it.
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    Default Re: I'm so mad/disgusted at myself.

    I totally relate. The other night I threw cold water on my poor boyfriend because I was really pissed at him, but I seriously regretted it immediately. I hate "snapping." Just tell her you're really sorry....theres not much else to do

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    Default Re: I'm so mad/disgusted at myself.

    I totally relate. The other night I threw cold water on my poor boyfriend because I was really pissed at him, but I seriously regretted it immediately. I hate "snapping." Just tell her you're really sorry....theres not much else to do

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    Default Re: I'm so mad/disgusted at myself.

    Since you've never done anything like this, just apologize. Tell her what you said here: that you are embarrassed and ashamed and aren't sure what the crap happened. I'm sure she will understand.
    I'm generally really, really, super nice and a few years ago, I did something similar to my bf (now my hubby). I just groveled and he forgave me immediately.... Teased me for a while and acted a little nervous for a week or two, but that was ok.

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    Weve all done it and I know it feels the worst when it is your siblings, at least for me it does. Just help her vent out her rant towards you and then ask for her forgivness and she will probably end up forgetting about it. Stress happens.
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    Thx all.

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    I am sorry


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