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    so im 18 and the only respectable clubs around here are 21 and over. From reading posts i see that the best way to learn would be to visit, but how am i supposed to get in to see if they are 21 and over? do i have to tell them im thinking about working there? also, i know that its probably been on here a lot but, i really dont know if im cut for it. im pretty and in shape, but i lack confidence, i don't enjoy being naked or having people look at me, and dancing skill. the only dancing ive ever done is tahitian and hula. im currently in college and my family is near a financial crisis. is there anyone who is like this but gotten past it and could give me some advice?thanks sorry this is so long...

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    Quote Originally Posted by iva717 View Post
    so im 18 and the only respectable clubs around here are 21 and over. From reading posts i see that the best way to learn would be to visit, but how am i supposed to get in to see if they are 21 and over? do i have to tell them im thinking about working there? also, i know that its probably been on here a lot but, i really dont know if im cut for it. im pretty and in shape, but i lack confidence, i don't enjoy being naked or having people look at me, and dancing skill. the only dancing ive ever done is tahitian and hula. im currently in college and my family is near a financial crisis. is there anyone who is like this but gotten past it and could give me some advice?thanks sorry this is so long...
    Wow thats a a lot to cover. Let me try and address the major points.

    What do you mean the under 21 clubs are not respectable? Do they offer lower earnings? Are they known for prostitution? I don't quite understand.

    Next, if you want to check out a club that only permits 21+ customers you may want to call them and ask about the minimum age at which you can work. Some 21+ clubs only hire 21+ dancers. Then again, I do not know where you want to work, so that may not even be an issue.

    Dance skill is not a requirement for most strip clubs. If you can manage to take your clothing off while wearing high heels (without falling) you are set to strip. All you need to do is watch the other girls and interpret that for your own capabilities and limitations. Hula is sexy. Probably unique... so utilize some of that.

    Finally and most importantly....

    Confidence is a major component for a successful hustle. A girl can be plenty hot, but if she projects low self esteem she won't do well.


    So start by getting in touch with clubs you'd like to work at and asking about their minimum age to work. Maybe get a fake ID . Then go from there.....
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    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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    thanks for the help. there are only 2 under 18 clubs on the island. ive been to both and both are known for illegal activity. i also do know that most of the 21 and over clubs here dont require 21 and over dancers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by iva717 View Post
    so im 18 and the only respectable clubs around here are 21 and over. From reading posts i see that the best way to learn would be to visit, but how am i supposed to get in to see if they are 21 and over? do i have to tell them im thinking about working there? also, i know that its probably been on here a lot but, i really dont know if im cut for it. im pretty and in shape, but i lack confidence, i don't enjoy being naked or having people look at me, and dancing skill. the only dancing ive ever done is tahitian and hula. im currently in college and my family is near a financial crisis. is there anyone who is like this but gotten past it and could give me some advice?thanks sorry this is so long...
    there are only a few clubs down here that are 18 and over... most of em are horrible and I wouldn't work there... so I understand where you're coming from. the clubs I've worked in are 21 to get in. Because I'm only 19, when I find a club I might want to work in.. I go in and ask to speak to a manager... and I explain to him that I am interested in auditioning and if it would be possible to take a look around beforehand. so far every single manager has been cool w. the idea and give me a tour of the place.


    if you don't enjoy being naked or having people look at you... then you might want to reconsider being a dancer... I think it's important for a dancer to look comfortable and fun... if you look uneasy then the customers might sense that and will be reluctant to buy dances from you.

    I attend college full time too... and dance on the weekends... I love having such a flexible schedule and the money is good. Ever since I started dancing, I have been very comfortable with my financial state... I feel like I'm doing even better(financially) than I did when I lived w. my mom.

    You don't have to be this AMAZING dancer to get the job. My first audition I just went up... danced a little while holding onto the pole, took my clothes off and got the job.

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    I thought every college student had a fake ID :-)

    That being "21" thing shouldn't be a problem.

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    You have to tell them that youre there for a job. Usually they will show you around and let you sit and watch to get a feel for it. I couldnt imagine them just throwing you in when you have no clue.

    Are you by change in Oahu? I saw you said island....

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    thanks everyone...and yes im on oahu

    anyone ever lie to their bf and dance behind his back?

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    ^^^ Nope, never done that. Never lied.

    Are you looking at working at Rock-Za or Femme Nu? I worked at Rock-Za years ago... I thought you had to be 21 to work there? Then again I was over 21 so I cannot be sure...

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    Quote Originally Posted by iva717 View Post
    thanks everyone...and yes im on oahu

    anyone ever lie to their bf and dance behind his back?
    I have. and it sucked.
    it's really not doable.. and I strongly suggest against it. either be honest w. him or choose between the two.

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