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    Seems like a lot of girls are pissed off with the new touching rule in Cairns..

    I don't blame them.

    http://www.cairns.com.au/article/200...ocal-news.html

    A BEHAVIOURAL expert has backed a stripper's call to ban touching in the city's men's clubs to protect the dancers' safety.
    Cherry, 27, said she was disgusted and appalled on her return to Cairns to find both the city’s clubs allowed punters to grope the dancers above the waist.
    She said there was enough stigma attached to being a dancer without the public thinking she allowed men to touch her breasts.
    Addiction Help Agency director Margaret Renfrey, who is a behavioural and mental health professional, said the touching rules allowed punters to get too close, taking the performance to a whole different level.
    "Touching a person’s body breaks down a psychological and physical boundary.
    "Once you touch someone, that barrier is broken,’’ Ms Renfrey said.
    She suggested the rules also allowed men to get too aroused.
    "It’s about the safety of the strippers.
    "If someone is so highly aroused, where do they take it when they leave?"
    While Queensland legislation allows touching of the body, but not the genitals, in strip clubs, Cherry said the clubs should show more respect for professionals.
    "I’ve been doing this for 10 years. But this takes the power away from the girls.’’
    Covergirls and Toybox both feature touching and non-touching dancers.
    Cherry walked off the job after one night at Toybox and wants dancers to know they can perform in cities like Townsville or Mackay without the threat of being touched.

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    fucking oath.
    i dont think it's necessary or appropriate to allow touching in clubs.
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    I really don't find touching that big a deal.. I must be a skank.
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    To be honest, it is all to do with "how you are raised" as a stripper. I was raised on the Gold Coast strip club scene for the first three years of my stripper life. Thus my barrier in re touching isn't as 'high' as say Jai.

    The touching is a good and bad thing at the same time. It's good in that I've had some really great moments in actual lap dances where the guy (or client) has touched me in a way that it is actually enjoyable... plus I can't COUNT how many times I've been in a half hour or long or whatever lap dance.. and instead.. I'm sitting there getting massages by the guy!

    In no touching clubs, the guy wouldn't even be allowed to hug me let alone touch me in any other way.

    The bad are those times when I've been mauled. When I've felt like a piece of meat. Not human. Due to the touching.

    Ultimately, I would prefer light touching. Touching of "safe" areas such as arms, back, shoulders, lower legs. I would love to give away any touching of my breasts. Not a fan of that type of touching. Yet I know now how to minimise it.


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    I can't say I've ever had anyone touch me in a way that was enjoyable.. but I just find sitting there letting some guy touch my boobs is less taxing then putting on some big song an dance in front of them because they can't touch or heaven forbid.. talking to them.

    Yes. I'm THAT lazy
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    i dont have anything against the girls working in these clubs, i just dont think the clubs should have that rule to begin with. customers get enough as it is - having a hot woman dance on them naked. whoever took that further to touching took it too far imo.
    its not fair for girls in that area who dont want to be touched but would like to dance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post

    In no touching clubs, the guy wouldn't even be allowed to hug me let alone touch me in any other way.
    that's not really true. in my club and most of the king street clubs while they cannot touch your boobs or ass or pussy they do massage the dancers and touch legs, arms, stomach - if the dancer allows it. it's over looked at most clubs - except prob mens gal which allows only guided touching on the hips.
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    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Yuck to even hugs from a customer; I work in Vegas and yea over here the no touching thing is a big huge LAUGH; honestly there is so much touching that I have seen more girls than ever having to drink to start their night...Oh yeah and ABSO freaking lutely to the part in the article that states that touching breaks down the girls physical and psychological boundaries---good luck to "compartementalizing" when some dude is making a grab for your butt (which is allowed) and accidently sticks his digit up your butt instead-arghhhhh

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post

    In no touching clubs, the guy wouldn't even be allowed to hug me let alone touch me in any other way.

    Really? I work at a "no touching" club, and we can hug customers on the floor as long as we have a top and a bottom on. Dances are no touching but full nude. It's not as if you can't shake hands, touch someone on the shoulder, etc.

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    I'm sorry but you are letting a total STRANGER grope your breasts to me that takes it way beyond exotic dancing, its just way too much interaction for me. I am glad I left the industry before more of that shit would happen all over.

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    Right now I work at a no contact club-there are hugs allowed once dressed-and I can't tell you how amazing it is. I tried working at a place where they allow touching and I have to tell you, Had someone placed any drug in front of me, I would have taken it. I have natural breasts and they are highly sensitive. I worked at a contact club for about a month and for two months, my boyfriend could not touch me without me slapping his hands away from my breasts. I don't mind giving lap dances-because I'm in control, and I am not being touched. But allowing men to just grope you like you're a blow up doll and not a human being disgusts me. It's only enjoyable if you're dancing for a hot guy/girl-but you all know, that hardly ever happens

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    Quote Originally Posted by krystalpink View Post
    I'm sorry but you are letting a total STRANGER grope your breasts to me that takes it way beyond exotic dancing, its just way too much interaction for me. I am glad I left the industry before more of that shit would happen all over.
    I dont see it as much different as grinding on his cock....unless if you left before THAT type of contact started happening too, then I get you.
    I wish I lived somewhere where the guys couldn't touch you. Some guys are just rough in general, even if theyre not going for the private parts.

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    sinthia, where do you work?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    that's not really true. in my club and most of the king street clubs while they cannot touch your boobs or ass or pussy they do massage the dancers and touch legs, arms, stomach - if the dancer allows it. it's over looked at most clubs - except prob mens gal which allows only guided touching on the hips.
    I second this. A customer is allowed to massage my shoulders/hands/feet if I am clothed and not dancing. Once my top is off, however, there is absolutely no touching allowed. Like the article says, it takes a lot of control away from the dancer, or at least increases the chance of unpleasant touching. At least if they're not touching you, their hands have farther to travel, thus allowing you to smack them away.

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    Also, can we please try to avoid wording that implies some sort of judgment towards dancers who ARE comfortable with touching? They're not doing anything wrong unless they're breaking rules in a no-contact club, so let's try to stay respectful.

    As for the line about breaking emotional and psychological boundaries, I agree. I have the utmost respect for prostitutes who can do their job and walk away happy and unscathed. They are, of course, rare.

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    I work at the kit kat club in sunnyvale.

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    I worked in Brisbane, Sydney and Melbourne... Brisbane is too full on! I can't deal with the touching. Sydney is way too prudish! You're not even supposed to shake the customers hand... Melbourne IMO is perfect. Casual touching and flirting is ok but I don't let them touch me at all once my clothes are coming off.

    I know there's a club in Cairns called toybox and i was told they have touching and non touching dancers. I wonder who does better...

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    is cairns non-touching place? or touching. any one work there recently? i thought the whole north queensland is non-touch

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    Cairns is now touching. The toybox is a touching club and is a little out of the main centre of town. The other club (can't think of the name sorry) was a non-touching club but has now changed to touching to keep up with the Toybox.

    The toybox is managed by the same girl who use to manage the Toybox on the Gold Coast

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    I loved working in non-touching clubs





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    Quote Originally Posted by ellebelle View Post
    I can't say I've ever had anyone touch me in a way that was enjoyable.. but I just find sitting there letting some guy touch my boobs is less taxing then putting on some big song an dance in front of them because they can't touch or heaven forbid.. talking to them.

    Yes. I'm THAT lazy
    totally agree its sooo much easier in touching clubs.as long as men are respectfull and dont bite or grab too hard!!!

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    bite?!

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