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    I think I made a good solid new regular last night. Gave him my email. He sent me one late last night and at the end he asked if I had any requests.

    He did a couple of dances with me, but was entranced. Didn't do a VIP or champagne room, but told me that he is DEFINITELY coming back to see me again, and is seriously thinking about doing a champagne room. He's never done anything other than regular table or lap dances with a dancer.

    So what should I request? I was thinking that he should wear a really REEAALLY soft shirt for me next time. Or what should I ask for? Don't want to be too demanding...
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    Id request that we go into the champagne room...

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    Default Re: Help! What do I tell him?

    Pushing him is probably not the best way to go... I'd rather ask for something smaller for the request. He mentioned the room on his own, hours after he told me he didn't want to do those, "too expensive." I didn't mention it again, HE did.

    Edit: Maybe having him bring me a candy bar or something? Something simple..... this is hard.. lol
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    tell him you have no special requests other than to see him again - then work on the room once hes there... lil bit o reverse psychology. i do this with customers - actually - doing it right now. but this guy will spend the money - i just dont want to seem like the greedy bitch that i am!

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    ^^^Yeah ditto that! That's what I would do.

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    That's so sweet of him.
    I agree with the 'I just want to see you again' put as nicely as possible. Maybe a cup of your fave coffee or some of your fave lotion? Something small. Even a flower; tell him to pick out something he thinks you would like.
    Then whatever he brings in, fawn over.
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    Yeah I agree act like seeing him ITC as a given, and ask for something that makes him think of you as the request. He wants a job and wants to make you happy, so choosing a lil something for you will be really special for him.
    "All I really want is to see you privately in the VIP room just you and me" and tell him a gift isnt necessary but if he gets you one act like its amazing.

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    I liked your idea of a soft shirt then when he gets to the club, you can just go on about how nice it would feel against your skin all cuddled up in the dance area.

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    Not saying that this is him....(and not to sound like a debbie downer)

    But, a lot of guys will use that excuse of 'oh yeah, ill get a room next time' so you talk to him more, give him personal emails, etc.

    This next visit he has with you will make or break whether or not he is a good regular or just full of shit like most men in these places.

    Don't put him on a pedastal cause he promised you something but hasn't delivered yet.

    Request the soft shirt if you want, next time you see him praise him for wearing it and be extra giddy. If he doesn't bring up the champagne room, YOU SHOULD. Tell him you have been so excited and you are so worth it, bla bla bla. Like you said HE was the one who brought it up to you. A lot of these guys play stupid fucking games and waste your time. If he tries telling you this time that definately NEXT time hes going to get a room, he prob. never will.

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    this my sound naive...and it prolly is but i figure as long as he gettin dances even if they're not champagne why not spend a little time with him still. I have a lot of regulars who come in and only give me a little but i hang out and talk to them but they understand when another customer requests my time and know that ill come back to them to chat when im less busy as for the gift i too am a fan of the soft shirt idea. I always tell them hersheys creme pie from burger king though and an extra fork so we can share it
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    During my dancing days,my regulars used to enjoy bringing me a cologne or item of clothing they'd enjoy on me. You could say "If you like you could bring me a scent that would make you want to bury your face in my neck and hair or a lotion that would smell and feel amazing when I touch you(rub your shoulders,depending on how friendly or suggestive you want to be)! That way it's a gift we'll both enjoy!" I also like the "soft shirt" idea or saying you want nothing but to enjoy his company in the private lounge/champagne room/whatever it's called...you might want to come up with your own name or expression for it. I liked to use humor and say something like "I just want to have you alone in my...LAIR!" I'm sure you'll say the right thing. I'm curious what kind of "request" he had in mind. He may be testing the water to see 1)how greedy you'll be or 2)on a more positive note-how confident you are,so don't sell yourself short. Once again,I'm sure you'll say something enticing. Here's hoping,he'll become a pleasant,generous regular. Cheers, Harlowe

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    Quote Originally Posted by charliegurll View Post
    this my sound naive...and it prolly is but i figure as long as he gettin dances even if they're not champagne why not spend a little time with him still. I have a lot of regulars who come in and only give me a little but i hang out and talk to them but they understand when another customer requests my time and know that ill come back to them to chat when im less busy as for the gift i too am a fan of the soft shirt idea. I always tell them hersheys creme pie from burger king though and an extra fork so we can share it
    This is different. Why establish a relationship outside of work to make less than $100? Makes no sense. The only customers I establish a phone/email/whatever relationship with are ones who spend the bucks. I can make $100 easily without them. I have better things to do with my time OTC.

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