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    This is a wierd topic for me to discuss, but I was watching Tyra the other night (hell must have frozen over) and the topic was polyamourous relationships. Now i never thought much about it beyond Arabian harems and the FLDS sect that gtot raided in San Angelo TX. But It turns out alot of people are into it. Its different than swinging, which, ironically is a form of monogmay. My dillema is this: I got back together with an ex boyfriend that I was with for 3 years. Things are great. I had another ex that I am still friends with, who is also good friends with my bf. I love em both, and for a month I have been losing sleep over who do I love, who do I want to be with, etc, when it occurred to me that I don't have to follow the traditions that society has imposed on me. I'm not going to be running around fucking every Tom, Dick, and Harry. I have been testing the waters about the 3 of us moving in together and it seems our menage a trois may work. (literal tanslation : household of three) what I'd like to know is has anyone out there ever had my dilemma and it been resolved with something other than traditional monogamy?

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    HOLD ON, IS THIS THE SAME EX WHO THREATENDED TO HURT YOU THIS THREAD... http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...d.php?t=126867
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    Yes, I tried it, and it didn't work. Just imagine yourself trying to be fair about who gets how much sex and how often, and you can figure out why. I have heard of arrangements like this that did work, but it didn't for me.

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    No, no sorry I should have been more specific. Chris and Mark are pretty much the two loves of my life. In between them there was an army guy named Daniel, and he went awol and stalked me to albuquerque. Sorry for not being more specific. even I'm not THAT crazy.

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    I'm sure that threesome relationships can work but it's damn hard and unlikely in your situation IMO.

    You loving two guys is unlikely to = them being willing to share. Often threesomes are people who are mutually attracted, even if not all as strongly as one another. But you could talk to them about it?

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    I've tried.. they oth say "its up to you" or the usual fluff... nice name btw, we had a lanky black cat named fenris that used to give kisses and walked on a leash!

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    Let me tell you second hand about one that worked. My brother-in-law's wife, N, was once the head of a Planned Parenthood office in Arizona, and she got to know this girl when she came in for birth control pills. She was living with two guys. What they were doing is that two of the three would work while the other went to college. Eventually they all had advanced professional degrees, but they stayed together all that time and after. N said that the only reason the girl did not marry one of the guys was that she could not marry both of them.

    In the threesome I was in, I was married to the girl. The other guy was our friend, and we had a great threesome together when we went on a trip together, got drunk, and started playing strip poker. But it turned out that everyone was not in the mood for a threesome every night (well, I was), and if my wife bonked the other guy without bonking me, I was irritated, and vice versa. Also, everybody wanted to be free to have sex outside the threesome as well, and then there was more jealousy if one member got laid outside the threesome and the other two didn't.

    Some of the hottest sex in my life happened during this time, but the marriage did not survive it. Neither did the friendship.

    So, you three have to decide together--which of the above are you more like?
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    I've tried.. they oth say "its up to you" or the usual fluff... nice name btw, we had a lanky black cat named fenris that used to give kisses and walked on a leash!
    Heh, you have impeccable taste

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