This is a wierd topic for me to discuss, but I was watching Tyra the other night (hell must have frozen over) and the topic was polyamourous relationships. Now i never thought much about it beyond Arabian harems and the FLDS sect that gtot raided in San Angelo TX. But It turns out alot of people are into it. Its different than swinging, which, ironically is a form of monogmay. My dillema is this: I got back together with an ex boyfriend that I was with for 3 years. Things are great. I had another ex that I am still friends with, who is also good friends with my bf. I love em both, and for a month I have been losing sleep over who do I love, who do I want to be with, etc, when it occurred to me that I don't have to follow the traditions that society has imposed on me. I'm not going to be running around fucking every Tom, Dick, and Harry. I have been testing the waters about the 3 of us moving in together and it seems our menage a trois may work. (literal tanslation : household of three) what I'd like to know is has anyone out there ever had my dilemma and it been resolved with something other than traditional monogamy?



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