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Last edited by lexxx; 10-25-2008 at 09:16 PM.
It's lonely at the top...




Consider yourself lucky. These aren't your real friends. Now you know.I feel like my friends are avoiding me more and look down upon me now that I dance.
Seek to attract people that aren't judgmental. There are plenty of awesome, open minded, cool people out there who would never in a million years look down on a dancer.
Friendships change. People change. People drift apart. I can't tell you what to do, just that *if it were me* I would try and meet some new people rather than cling to the old ones. If they come around, awesome, but you shouldn't have to feel guilty about dancing to make that happen.
*hug*
Awe, they don't sound like they are good friends![]()
My friends were fine with it, nobody made a big deal out of it. We started to hang out less because I was working nights but other than that it had no effect on the quality of our friendship. Maybe it's time to make new friends, who will not judge you. Make friends with girls at the club, invite them to grab a bite after work or go shopping together.
Sometimes I lie awake at night, and I ask, 'Where have I gone wrong?' Then a voice says to me, "This is going to take more than one night."


i actually started dancing b/c another friends was doing well in the biz, and our friends accepted us i was a lil weery on telling my friends from college since i only knew them about 1 year or two but surprisingly they were fine with it shocked and didnt believe but never put me down or anything they just wanted me to be safe and still have to for them.
So yes it might not be easy finding new friends but their are other people similar to you who, who im sure you will bond with and accept you dancing not isolate you
I've lost friends that took issue with me dancing and I don't miss them. I hate to be interrogated about dancing and judged harshly by people that have never step foot inside a strip club.
It boggles me, but there are people out there that don't care, don't judge, and will like you for you. Unfortunately, there's always going to be someone who thinks the worst.
When people see my life and truly know me or, at least, get a glimpse of who I am, they understand and commend me on being independent, productive, positive, and successful.
Dancing doesn't define you, YOU define you. I challenge the naysayers to look beyond the surface, the cover of a book is just that.



no. good friends dont ditch you because of a job. good friends care how you treat them, not how you make your money.
"We are the coolest mothafuckas on the planet....The sky is fallin ain't no need to panic"... -Outkast
I agree with the others who said these aren't real friends. Consider it a blessing they showed their true colors now rather than later.
A job doesn't not make a person good or bad, their actions towards others do.
You just keep being true to yourself and kind to others and more worthy friends will come your way.
This post made me feel better. I'm scared to tell some of my friends that I'm dancing because I know they won't approve, but I guess they aren't true friends if they won't support me through this.
Thanks girls.![]()
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