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    I hate having to admit my shortcomings because I am an arrogant egotistical little cunt and I know it. But I've conceded defeat. I can't make any $$$ at no contact clubs. I can't even touch the custie. I'm from albuquerque where we have just good old fashioned lap dances where they can't touch you, but you can touch them. So whats everyone's secret? I can't mke shit out here and I'm apprehnensive about my impending trip to fla cause most of the clubs there are minimal contact. Its not that I'm a ho, but I'm used to more contact, and thats what I'm comfortable with.

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    I work pretty high contact and went to a no contact place for a week. I personally found that guys spent less money so the key was to bounce from guy to guy all night.
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    Default Re: no contact means no $$ (at leat for me)

    that's a hard one. custies aren't allowed to touch us at my club but we can touch them - like their legs, arms, face, chest - can u not even touch these areas?

    I make lots of eye contact and breath in their ears. I suggest u really try the eye contact, it makes them feel special and like u r really into dancing for them.
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    No, in missouri you have to be 18 inches away. they do "private dances" which is a room with a chair and another small stage. you can't do anything but what you do onstage. at the other end of the spectrum, the full contact place makes me wanna barf. I don't like some skeezy motherfucker touching me. sorry bout my rant, I just wanna go home. And home is where I'm going after fla

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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    No, in missouri you have to be 18 inches away. they do "private dances" which is a room with a chair and another small stage. you can't do anything but what you do onstage. at the other end of the spectrum, the full contact place makes me wanna barf. I don't like some skeezy motherfucker touching me. sorry bout my rant, I just wanna go home. And home is where I'm going after fla
    I've never done 'contact' as such but do prefer to be close, ie.e so you can actually sit in a custies lap. I did once work a club where you had to be THAT far away and it is TOUGH! Do you have to go topless/ naked on stage? Because in that circumstance i found it beneficial to reaveal as little as possible during my stage show (ten second boob flash at the end of my set) to ensure there was plenty to see in a PD. Also, are PDs in a private room or shared space with other dancers? - If oyu have a shared space that is REALLY hard because it's hard to forge the intimacy at such a distance, but if you have private space then at least you can WORK that eye contact and use all of your actual DANCING skills (can you do splits? Handstands?!).

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    Customers at no-contact clubs KNOW that there's no contact when they walk through the door.

    Hence they are walking through the door for company. Stop being (in your own words) "an arrogant egotistical little cunt" and sell them the fantasy that they want.

    It's a mindset change that you are going to have to endure to be successful in an environment that is different from the one you have grown accustomed to.
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    I dance in a no contact club. Well thats what it used to be. Some girls started coming in and grinding, grinding turned into leg touching, that turned into guys being grabby horny mother fuckers. I dislike contact, its not fair that i have to lower my standards become bitch was greedy. This business bites sometimes I tell ya!
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    Well I have worked in both. And in both circumstances I did well. Like BritneyIreland said I think you just need to change your mindset. If you can make $200-300/day without getting touched, I don't think it is all that bad. No, the money may not be as good, but you are there so why not make the best of it and try to make as much as you can.

    The places I worked where there wasn't much contact was usually more of a stage based club and we made a nice chunk of our money on stage. Dances were like an extra bonus.

    Do the girls make most of their money on stage here??? Because if so, try selling your dances while you're on stage.

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    Its a tough sell for me but I'm trying. thanks for the encouragement

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    omg, girl, lol no contact IS EASY!

    take the advice of the eye contact--that's essential! you will have to chat with the guys--engage them in a conversation and act like you ARE interested in what they're saying. chat with them before you ask for a dance--so you may have to spend 10 minutes of chatting--so what--they may even get a dance with you later even if they said no initially. they'll remember that you spent the time to chat with them.

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    last night was my first night in a no contact club after coming from a proper bump n grind lapdancing club in america...

    i was absolutely terrified of how i would do there because of this....

    actually i found it super super super easy....
    like someone said above... the guys coming in there know they are coming into a no contact club... they want the fantasy and the company more than anything....

    if you're a bit shameless and comfortable with playing the 'mad sex kitten' personna use the fact you used to work in a contact club as a talking point in the private dance booth....

    get all sultry and say that you preferred it....that you got off on being able to grind yourself on the customers... that you wish you could do the same with him... *insert further dirty talk here*

    worked very very well for me last night... i know my 'dance' prolly wasn't as good as the other girls who are more experienced and more creative with giving 'air dances' but i got many "consecutive dances" and even recommendations because the customers didn't want me to stop talking...

    best of luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by britneyireland View Post
    Customers at no-contact clubs KNOW that there's no contact when they walk through the door.

    Hence they are walking through the door for company. Stop being (in your own words) "an arrogant egotistical little cunt" and sell them the fantasy that they want.

    It's a mindset change that you are going to have to endure to be successful in an environment that is different from the one you have grown accustomed to.
    Exactly.

    Work on being a good conversationalist. I make money from men who just want company, and will pay for someone who doesn't giggle every two seconds.

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    Default Re: no contact means no $$ (at leat for me)

    I've done both no contact and high mileage clubs before. In no contact the trick is to not let your mind wander meaning your full attention is on the customer. No scoping out the room looking for your next victim, looking at your watch or what other people are doing, or stages.

    Make the guy feel like you are the only two people in the room. It's hard at first but total eye contact, messing with the ties on your costume, being creative with obscure poses. If it's nude or topless keep looking at him but direct his attention to what your hands are doing on your body whether its just your thigh or if it means grabbing your boobs if the law allows. That is like sensory overload without the contact for a guy. They don't know what to look at and it totally fries their brain.

    Yes and if you're a good conversationalist and customers know it's no contact they will most likely just tip you for being hot, smart, nice, sweet, flirty, a girl, smelling good, wearing the right costume, sitting properly, having manners and so on and you don't even have to dance.

    I also like what xxRavenxx mentioned that deep down your this nasty dirty girly but the club just doesn't allow it. Pity.

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