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    I am done telling you guys about my life, because some of you aren't old enough....
    Last edited by Gingerlina; 11-05-2008 at 03:05 AM.
    Needless to say, putting up with that type of stuff can take its toll psychologically

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    Talk to your husband and see how he feels about it. if he doesn't have a problem it should be fine. I work in a high contact club and i've learnt to ignore it although i feel like i'm ripping people off when i work in a non contact club.
    In any club you can make your own rules and so you can tell them to not touch you or keep it to a minimum. some crafty girls can manuvre themselves so that guys can't touch them at all and they don't even think of it.
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    I think that if you are not used to a contact club, you shouldn't do it. My club is no contact also, but every now and then you have the touchy-touchy ass****, makes me totally uncomfortable (I am married too). In your situation, at least it will be really really hard to get used to. Sometimes the money is not worth the guilt trip and it could mess up your self esteem. Just my opinion!

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    I'd say go for it. I've worked in both kinds. You get used to the touching very quickly, and it becomes non-sexual, in the same way that waving your pussy around in someone's face becomes non-sexual. In the partial-contact clubs I worked at, I made triple (no joke) what I am making now in no-contact clubs. The simple act of caressing the back of a man's neck gets him twice as turned on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ediblecrayonz View Post
    I'd say go for it. I've worked in both kinds. You get used to the touching very quickly, and it becomes non-sexual, in the same way that waving your pussy around in someone's face becomes non-sexual. In the partial-contact clubs I worked at, I made triple (no joke) what I am making now in no-contact clubs. The simple act of caressing the back of a man's neck gets him twice as turned on.
    Me too, and I think you are absolutely right. It becomes way more "forbidden", I think. I also think that no contact and low contact clubs give you an opportunity to become a sensational conversationalist, which makes you entertaining on a whole other level.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    I also think that no contact and low contact clubs give you an opportunity to become a sensational conversationalist, which makes you entertaining on a whole other level.
    There is something to that. I worked the majority of my dancing career at a zero contact club, then one way contact for a year and now high contact for the last two years.

    My point, I used to be an excellent conversationalist and now I find myself sometimes at a total loss for words

    Back to the OP, you'll never till you try. What can it hurt?


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    i think you should have a one on one with yourself to think about that one. if you think it's gonna affect your marriage i wouldnt do it i've always been in contact clubs and my husband knows that and im used to it so i don't feel "guilty " about it , on the other hand if you're going to feel guilty about someone touching your arm then why not feel guilty about being naked period ??? you don't obviously . and besides if it's just your arm ??? your likely to cause more friction walking into someone at wallyworld . just tell yourself you know you are doing nothing wrong and yes a simple caress can make a world of difference money wise...good luck

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