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    Hi guys, sorry if this has already been posted before i tried to see possibilities on boards.

    So last wedsnday, I went to hang out at a SC in my area before going to meetup with some friends later on. This was my second visit there, seeing as how some of my friends decided to take me out for my 21'st birthday a few days earlier. So I walk in and just sit near the back and am just watching a basketball game when one of the girls comes up to me to ask how im doing and whats up. I responded fine, just kinda hanging out for a bit before I meet up with some friends here later.

    She asks me if I want a dance, I say sure so she leads me back to the couch area and says I want to wait for a new song before we start, by the way its 2 for 1 for $50. while we wait for a new song she and I start talking, she finds out that I go to a big university and major in political science, and minor in several different languages. I ask about her and find out she goes to cosmotology school and is almost finished.

    About this time a new song starts playing, so while she is dancing she asks if ive ever been to a particular racetrack. I say no ive never been there before. She then responds OMG I'll have to give you my number so we can go out there and have a good time, would u like that? I say sure sounds good. She continues dancing for the next song while we make idle chit chat. However during the second song she starts telling me about the champagne room and how Id have to enjoy that with her. About this time the song finishes and she has to go up on stage.

    I then head back to my seat, and while im sitting just relaxing, the VIP guy comes up and starts chatting me up asking about me, how old I am, if ive ever been there and seen the private rooms and such etc.. during this time the girl comes over sits down with me. The VIP manager hands me his card and says whenever you come back just see me I'll get you taken care of. so the girl and I start talking, she gives me her real name and number, and we just chat for a bit more until I have to leave. She tells me to text her later so she would have my number and I say sure.

    I waited to text her until about 3pm the next day just saying hey how are you? my name is so and so here is my number can call me anytime. I didn't really expect to get an answer back that day seeing as how she works full time and probably isn't awake just yet. I waited to call her until saturday because I didn't want to seem impulsive or anything. I callled her yesterday about 4:30pm and didn't get an answer and her voicemail wasn't setup.

    I guess my question is 3 parts really. If I don't hear anything back by monday night would you call her again or possibly go over there to hang out and see if I can talk to her and see whats up then go from there or ?


    any suggestions or ideas at all are greatly appreciated. thanks for taking the time out to read this you all.

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    <<I waited to text her until about 3pm the next day just saying hey how are you? my name is so and so here is my number can call me anytime. I didn't really expect to get an answer back that day seeing as how she works full time and probably isn't awake just yet. I waited to call her until saturday because I didn't want to seem impulsive or anything. I callled her yesterday about 4:30pm and didn't get an answer and her voicemail wasn't setup.>>

    did u text and call? your confusing.
    ~jenna~

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    It was a sales pitch to get you into VIP. Nothing more, nothing less. If you like getting dances from this girl and want to spend time with her in VIP then sure, head on over there. Don't expect anything other than you enjoying her company and paying for the priviledge.

    If she was serious about going anywhere with you she would have called you back already.
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    Yeah, she's just cultivating some repeat business. If you text her asking her when is the next time she is working, because you'd like to come see her....you might get a more prompt response.

    Real or Played? It's real, though maybe not the real you hoped.

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    yea jenna i texted thursday with my number, then i called saturday(yesterday).

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    ...do you have an impressive dental plan?
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    yes i do :p

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    ehh it might just be a ploy to get you to come in
    ~jenna~

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    Quote Originally Posted by sparky12457 View Post
    I guess my question is 3 parts really. If I don't hear anything back by monday night would you call her again or possibly go over there to hang out and see if I can talk to her and see whats up then go from there or ?

    any suggestions or ideas at all are greatly appreciated. thanks for taking the time out to read this you all.
    Dude, sorry to break this to you, but you need to understand what strip clubs are all about. Guys go to SCs to get entertained, and dancers go there to work to entertain guys. Dancers do not go to SC to make friends or to pick up guys. Dancers go to SC to work. To make money.

    The character that the dancer portrays pretends to like you, pretends to be interested in you, pretends that you make her horny, pretends that she wants to hang out with you, etc. That’s her role. That’s what she is paid to do. When you were a kid and went to Disneyworld, did you think that people working the Pirates of the Caribbean ride, who were dressed in pirate attire, were real pirates? When you saw James Gandolfini’s character Tony Soprano ordered a hit, did you think that Mr. Gandolfini was really trying to have someone killed?

    It’s just entertainment! Enjoy it.

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    Steve mate,
    I do understand that is what SC's are all about. Im aware of the possibility that she was just playing a role to possibly get more money out of me. Though I also am trying to gauge whether or not it is genuine, because she seems like a very interesting person and I'd love to get to know her a lot better and see where we would possibly go from there.

    To be honest in reference to DisneyWorld yea when I was a little kid, I had thought most of the stuff was cool but I knew it wasn't real. this might also be a bit sacreligeous but ive never watched Soprano's lol.

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    Oh no! I think we've lost another one!

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    It was a sales pitch to get you into VIP. Nothing more, nothing less. If you like getting dances from this girl and want to spend time with her in VIP then sure, head on over there. Don't expect anything other than you enjoying her company and paying for the priviledge.

    If she was serious about going anywhere with you she would have called you back already.
    Best answer. She was trying to groom a regular, methinks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bob_Loblaw View Post
    Oh no! I think we've lost another one!

    Lmaoooo

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    It sounds like she is only after your money. If you want to be sure then go to the club and do not spend any money on her and see if she still hangs around with you.
    Do not make another response in this thread until you do the above

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    R u an aussie? im asking coz u used the term "mate".
    My first instinct is that the girl is cultivating you as a regular. Don't expect anything more out of it. She seemed very eager to give u this number after only one dance, to me she sounds inexperienced or extremely desperate.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sparky12457 View Post
    she seems like a very interesting person and I'd love to get to know her a lot better and see where we would possibly go from there.
    Well of course you would. It's her job to make you want to do that. Show up with no money to spend on her and try to make plans for the weekend. Let us know how it works out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sparky12457 View Post

    If I don't hear anything back by monday night would you call her again or possibly go over there to hang out and see if I can talk to her and see whats up then go from there or ?
    Hey man, that feeling that you want to go back to the club and find out exactly what happened is exactly what she wants you to feel. while you are there you will spend money on her, she will also have a good story for you about her phone and why she didn't call.

    my advice, find a nice girl at that college of yours, but hey you already know you are going to go back to the club, so what the point.

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    Yeah, you're being played and being played very badly.

    1. Her just meeting you and telling you outrageous lies, not following up on text messages, and not returning calls is a surefire way for her to loose customers. You certainly don't cultivate customers by saying and doing what she did. Unreliabilty kills business. Maybe she's a noob.

    2. It could also be that she sized you up as NOT being a regular strip club goer (you being 21 and probably a broke student) and didn't want to cultivate you as a regular and wanted to nail you for as much money as possible in the shortest amount of time. She might have figured that because you're 21-years-old, you'll fall for anything.

    3. It could also be that she justed wanted to fuck with your head (passive aggressive).

    4. Even if she's not playing you, she's already proven how unreliable she is. NEXT!

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    "Does she like me...is it real?" How many times have we heard that question here?

    One of my favorite threads on the subject. And I'm sure there are numerous others.

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=73221

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    I'm going with played. If she ever actually calls you back, the convo will eventually lead to you coming back to the club.

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    Sometimes it's real, most often it's not.

    There, words of wisdom.

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    Can we just sticky a response to these kinds of threads?

    No, it wasn't real. Yes she's just trying to make some money.
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    If she really wanted to have any kind of relationship, she would have responded, or contacted you on her own. If you want to see her again, fill up your wallet, and go back to the club.

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    There are hundreds of threads on here just like this one. We all know what happens. We tell curiouse guest things he doesn't want to hear. He denies it, hoping against hope that he's special. Then Thumper drops him, or we make fun of him, he gets all butt hurt. Then he flames all strippers and or women in general and finally leaves or gets banned.

    Could we PLEASE have a sticky at the top of this board answering this question??

    ATTENTION Customers!!
    You are not a beautiful and unique snowflake. Even if stripper gave you her phone number or extras or promised to meet you OTC. She isn't interested in being your girlfriend. She wants your money, not your hot body, not your companionship, not your undying love.

    This still applies to guys who play guitar, take steroids, got a free dance or devoted a website to finding the damn girl. This is Stripper Web, not match dot com, and strip clubs are a buisness not a dating service.



    ETA even if a dude is the 1 in a million winner of the stripper lotto, how are we supposed to help? Contrary to popular beleif, there is no bat signal we all flock to, find out who the specific stripper among us happens to be and ask her how she really feels about the customer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Perry View Post
    You are not a beautiful and unique snowflake.
    Pfffttt... I KNOW I am a beautiful and unique snowflake. I'm good enough... smart enough... and gosh darnit, people like me.

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    well, turned out not to be real afterall lol. oh well such things happen. thanks for all the advice and suggestions everyone

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