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    Recently my wife and I went to Ft lauderdale and visited a club there. They said that women were welcome. This was a first for both of us. Reading some of the articles here it doesn't sound like this is really encouraged. Although we were both treated very nice. Matter of fact the women went out of there way to make her feel comfortable and kinda hit it off with her. She wants to go back but I am wondering if this is a common practice. Don't get me wrong I loved it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lance_d_1 View Post
    Recently my wife and I went to Ft lauderdale and visited a club there. They said that women were welcome. This was a first for both of us. Reading some of the articles here it doesn't sound like this is really encouraged. Although we were both treated very nice. Matter of fact the women went out of there way to make her feel comfortable and kinda hit it off with her. She wants to go back but I am wondering if this is a common practice. Don't get me wrong I loved it.

    I have gone a couple of times with my wife....she loved it, likes seeing me get lap dances..but doesnt really enjoy getting them(but has for my enjoyment) But also has fun talking to the dancers....

    We were tipping the stage and buying dances...but found it hard to get dancers to come over. Which I didnt understand until i read some threads on here....apparently couples(as a general rule) are not the dancers favorites. Do a search and read the threads, you will see why.

    If she likes it, and you like it, no reason not to go back.

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    I'm a girl and I've been to strip clubs hundreds of times. I've gone to the rail and tipped and bought dances. There are always lots of other girls in there when I've gone. *shrugs* Maybe it's a regional thing? I live in California.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lemmiwinks31 View Post
    We were tipping the stage and buying dances...but found it hard to get dancers to come over. Which I didnt understand until i read some threads on here....apparently couples(as a general rule) are not the dancers favorites. Do a search and read the threads, you will see why.

    If she likes it, and you like it, no reason not to go back.
    Yeah--search for threads on this topic.

    Personally, if I'm ever reluctant to go over to a couple (or a group that includes a woman), it's because...

    1) Women are more critical than men (generally)--I'd rather go over to the single guy (who, 9/10 times will be attracted to me) than a group where the woman might end up looking at me like I'm a slut/whore/intruder and treating me accordingly.
    2) Many women get dragged to strip clubs, and even if their SO's aren't aware of it, they don't like it. I've had men buy dances for their wives where the guy was absolutely loving it, and the entire time, the woman was giving me a death glare like "Get the fuck away from me, ho." (I'm not saying this is the case with your wife--but the stripper is making decisions based on appearances and generalizations, not personal interviews.)
    3) Women can be much, much more grabby and invasive than male customers.
    4) Oftentimes women who come to the club put off very jealous vibes. Even if they're there of their own free will, the whole time, they clearly want us to stay away from their husbands/boyfriends (i.e. we pick up on bad vibes from them).

    The list goes on.

    In conclusion, it's usually much easier for me to approach a single man than a couple because they (in general) are better tippers and are more open to our advances. I've had fantastic female customers before--don't get me wrong. But I try to avoid possibly-dramatic interactions. So I prefer to be approached by a couple than to have to take a chance and walk into a potentially tenuous situation.

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    I like when women come in for the most part.
    BUT sometimes women come in and get jealous and then they proceed to sit and talk sh*t about the dancers to make themselves feel better.

    And sometimes women will think they are OK with their guys getting LD's and then halfway thru they give a look like they wanna kill you.
    So i generally try to feel the women out first.
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    In this particular club the women seemed to be reluctant to approach us at first. One did and asked if we minded and we both said we didn't mind. It was after that that they seemed to approach us more. They were explaining to my wife what transpired in VIP rooms and about lap dances. They should have explained to me to because I was also unaware. I guess I am a little nieve. Bottom line she loved the experience and so did I. To the point where she wants to plan our next vacation around Ft Lauderdale. Is there anything that we shouldn't do. Seriously we are both new to this. Also I am reading alot about tipping in a VIP room. What is customary for a tip.

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    Thanks for asking in such a polite and respectful manner Lance.

    First of all, none of us mind women in the club provided they are polite and respectful. Unfortunately many women are intimidated by dancers, feel like we are trying to hit on / steal their men, think that we're "whores" and treat us accordingly.

    I love a polite happy woman in the club and am more than happy to dance for her or her husband.

    As for tipping the the VIP room anything is appreciated, but I would say generally tip the same as you would for any service 15-20 percent. Again, if you are really blowing your budget by spending say 600 dollars on a VIP room and can't afford to tip, dont let that stop you from getting the VIP room, but if you can afford it a 60 dollar tip would be extremely cool. Also, I reccommend tipping up front, bc that would personally make me give you the AWESOMEST VIP ever!

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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    Thanks for asking in such a polite and respectful manner Lance.

    First of all, none of us mind women in the club provided they are polite and respectful. Unfortunately many women are intimidated by dancers, feel like we are trying to hit on / steal their men, think that we're "whores" and treat us accordingly.

    I love a polite happy woman in the club and am more than happy to dance for her or her husband.

    As for tipping the the VIP room anything is appreciated, but I would say generally tip the same as you would for any service 15-20 percent. Again, if you are really blowing your budget by spending say 600 dollars on a VIP room and can't afford to tip, dont let that stop you from getting the VIP room, but if you can afford it a 60 dollar tip would be extremely cool. Also, I reccommend tipping up front, bc that would personally make me give you the AWESOMEST VIP ever!

    Welcome to the wonderful world of stripclubbing and enjoy your stay here
    I think you would of liked my wife then. She was very polite and inquisitive. She talked to this dancer for quite some time. She got to know a little about her background. Where she was from and such. It was like they were long lost friends getting reaquainted. We did end up going into the VIP room and from what you are saying 600 must be about the going rate. This was a first for both my wife and I and worth every penny. I definetly will have to go back. She told us to look her up again if we were ever in the area. I at least owe her the tip as you mentioned. Seeing I didn't know that I was suppose to tip. This dancer in the VIP pretty much lead us through this and told us who we should tip. For instance the women that brought us the champagne. And the other one that handled the bill. So when I read some of the things here on SW it puzzled me that some of the dancers didn't like couples going to the club. But I can now see both sides of it now. Thanks for your help

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    I used to specialize in couple's dances. Play with the wife's hair, get really close, compliment her... and then I sold a couple's dance. Or hubby bought wife a dance. Either way, they had fun and I made money! I really loved it when they went home right away after a dance all smiling to...yeah

    Bottom line, girls are way fun when they want to be at the club and respect the dancers. I will seriously bring my A game and have a lot of fun with a woman who has manners!

    When we bitch about female customers, they're usually dragged there by friends/boyfriends/groups and HATE it. But a girl looking for some private girly fun, or a hot tease?... Love it. It's a pity that they're so rare.

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    Maybe I've just been lucky but I have only ran into a problem with a female customer one time. She tipped me very very well on stage but when I asked if either her or her man wanted a dance she was kinda rude and said no as if it was the most disgusting idea she'd ever heard. It was strange. I love female customers and I've always made money off couples but my anecdotal evidence doesn't really mean anything in the grand scheme of things.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Perry View Post
    Bottom line, girls are way fun when they want to be at the club and respect the dancers. I will seriously bring my A game and have a lot of fun with a woman who has manners!

    When we bitch about female customers, they're usually dragged there by friends/boyfriends/groups and HATE it. But a girl looking for some private girly fun, or a hot tease?... Love it. It's a pity that they're so rare.
    Yeah its a major turn on when you can see in a womans eyes that she is being hypnotized by a dancers body/moves. It does seem that more and more women are coming to the stripclub just to find something wrong with it. I've seen women come in in groups of like 4 or 5 and just sat at a table all night complaining about strippers or the men with their noses turned up

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    Quote Originally Posted by abcd View Post
    I love going go strip clubs with a woman.

    wait.....arent you the same guy that 'wont pay $20 for a lap dance'...and that you haggle until you can get one for $10, or less....

    how much of your cover charge do you try to get your date to pay for you?

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    I like to try to find coupons to get in for free or to go at times when there is no cover charge (during the day)

    When I have gone to strip clubs with a woman I have encouraged her to try to get dances for $ 10 or less.
    Thats not what happened with my wife and I. We paid what the dancer asked and I (we) had no regrets with that. Like I said at the beginning of this thread this was a first time in a strip club for both of us and it was actually my wifes ideas to go. Lets just say it brought out a side of my wife I didn't know existed. And for the dancers we met there they were all very courteous to the both of us. They made us feel relaxed being there. So our experience was great. And well worth what we paid. We would both do it again. And wouldn't even consider trying to talk them down in price.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lance_d_1 View Post
    Thats not what happened with my wife and I. We paid what the dancer asked and I (we) had no regrets with that. Like I said at the beginning of this thread this was a first time in a strip club for both of us and it was actually my wifes ideas to go. Lets just say it brought out a side of my wife I didn't know existed. And for the dancers we met there they were all very courteous to the both of us. They made us feel relaxed being there. So our experience was great. And well worth what we paid. We would both do it again. And wouldn't even consider trying to talk them down in price.

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    I like to try to find coupons to get in for free or to go at times when there is no cover charge (during the day)

    When I have gone to strip clubs with a woman I have encouraged her to try to get dances for $ 10 or less.

    And when she asks you for a drink......you say..."just a minute...that guy looks like he is about to go to the john.....as soon as he leaves, grab his."

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    which club in ft.lauderdale did you visit?
    if you dont mind me asking...

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    Quote Originally Posted by veronicachick View Post
    which club in ft.lauderdale did you visit?
    if you dont mind me asking...
    The place we went to was called Solid Gold. Why do you ask?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lance_d_1 View Post
    The place we went to was called Solid Gold. Why do you ask?
    ooo. just asking because I work in ft. lauderdale.

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    Quote Originally Posted by veronicachick View Post
    ooo. just asking because I work in ft. lauderdale.
    Do you work at one of the clubs there?

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    I like to try to find coupons to get in for free or to go at times when there is no cover charge (during the day)

    When I have gone to strip clubs with a woman I have encouraged her to try to get dances for $ 10 or less.
    You know, I might get booted or flamed for saying this... but you sound like you are a huge dick.

    That being said I think most of your reason for being a jackass is to get a rise out of people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lance_d_1 View Post
    Do you work at one of the clubs there?
    used to work at cheetah. but I moved

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post

    That being said I think most of your reason for being a jackass is to get a rise out of people.

    Obviously.

    We've lost most of our best contributors...but for some reason this obvious troll is still here. Why?

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    Quote Originally Posted by veronicachick View Post
    used to work at cheetah. but I moved
    How is cheetah's verses Solid Gold? Are the clubs all pretty much the same. Or are there clubs that we(my wife and I) should stay away from? If we vacation in Ft Lauderdale again next year what club would you recomend?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lance_d_1 View Post
    How is cheetah's verses Solid Gold? Are the clubs all pretty much the same. Or are there clubs that we(my wife and I) should stay away from? If we vacation in Ft Lauderdale again next year what club would you recomend?
    well I used to work at cheetah hallandale... and it was good... good size good variety of girls. I never visited solid gold in ft.lauderdale so I can't really compare the two... the clubs down here are DEF not all the same tho... I suggest scarletts or cheetah hallandale(stay away from the pompano location)
    I work in miami now... kendall area so if you are staying in ft.lauderdale the drive is far.... but there are some decent clubs in that area

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    If you can't afford to go out...stay at home. That's like going to a restaurant and not tipping, you could have cooked the meal yourself.

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