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    Quote Originally Posted by MsLayne View Post
    If you can't afford to go out...stay at home. That's like going to a restaurant and not tipping, you could have cooked the meal yourself.
    Very well said! You wouldnt order a $20 steak, and be like "Hey, how about I just give you $10 for this? You'll still sell a steak, you know."

    Yay for analogies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by abcd View Post


    Why do you say to stay away from the Pompano club? The reason I am asking is because I was there once.

    I hear they let fucking cheapass losers in there.....once.

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    ^^ Dude. Lemmiwinks was stabbing YOU with that comment.

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    ^ Just wanted to make sure you knew.

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    Quote Originally Posted by abcd View Post


    Why do you say to stay away from the Pompano club? The reason I am asking is because I was there once.
    because it sucks.



    Quote Originally Posted by lemmiwinks31 View Post
    I hear they let fucking cheapass losers in there.....once.
    lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by veronicachick View Post
    well I used to work at cheetah hallandale... and it was good... good size good variety of girls. I never visited solid gold in ft.lauderdale so I can't really compare the two... the clubs down here are DEF not all the same tho... I suggest scarletts or cheetah hallandale(stay away from the pompano location)
    I work in miami now... kendall area so if you are staying in ft.lauderdale the drive is far.... but there are some decent clubs in that area
    We were thinking of driving down to Key West while we are in Ft Lauderdale. Any suggestions in that area? Keep in mind that I really don't want to go to any of the clubs unless my wife is with me. So someplace that they would welcome women.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MsClaireVoyant View Post
    I'm a girl and I've been to strip clubs hundreds of times. I've gone to the rail and tipped and bought dances. There are always lots of other girls in there when I've gone. *shrugs* Maybe it's a regional thing? I live in California.

    I'm in N.C. I just switched clubs, and there are lots of female custies, but many of them seem to be there to pick up guys! That pisses me off, and they are often rude to the dancers!! I like to go ask them for a dance!

    But, I LOVE when the female custies are there to have fun! I LOVE giving CR dances for women. And I love when they tip me on stage. I will let women touch my breasts all night but not usually male custies. I love ladies who are there to have a good time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by abcd View Post


    What is wrong with having fun and trying to save either myself or a friend some money?

    Ladies... don't feed the toll. You know this is one of -those- guys that we talk about in the dressing room and make fun of.

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    ^^+1, Crow. I've had him on ignore forever. Trust me, ladies, it makes your time on SW much more pleasant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Evan86 View Post
    I'm in N.C. I just switched clubs, and there are lots of female custies, but many of them seem to be there to pick up guys! That pisses me off, and they are often rude to the dancers!! I like to go ask them for a dance!

    But, I LOVE when the female custies are there to have fun! I LOVE giving CR dances for women. And I love when they tip me on stage. I will let women touch my breasts all night but not usually male custies. I love ladies who are there to have a good time.
    When my wife and I went to the club in Ft Lauderdale there was only one other women in there besides the dancers. We were both a little nervous going in but the people there made us both feel comfortable. We had some very nice conversations and my wife seemed and was relaxed once we were talking with the different dancers. They made her feel comfortable. Actually I was the one that was a little nervous. It wasn't until I saw some of the articles in here where I questioned would women be welcomed. She was not in there to pick up anyone and she did go to the rail once she got the nerves put aside and did tip. Matter of fact some of the dancers were kinda teasing her asking her to go to the rail and tip.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lance_d_1 View Post
    ..... It wasn't until I saw some of the articles in here where I questioned would women be welcomed. .....
    Lance_d_1,

    If you were to judge a female customers' welcome-ness in a SC based on the average female customer based thread posted on this website, you'd think that all of the dancers hate us, and we will be completely ignored while in the club. Well of course that is FAR from the truth, as you & your wife found out.
    I stopped reading the negative stuff long ago because it simply did not reflect what I was seeing in the clubs I was visiting. I wasn't ignored, and got plenty of attention from the dancers. Once I established myself as a spending regular, I sometimes got too much attention!
    If a dancer doesn't want to approach couples, then that is certainly her choice. If the couple are cool people, spending some money and just having a good time, then it's her loss. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

    Glad to hear that you two had a good experience.

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    There are two sets of couples, that come into my club that I will actually approach, say hi to - Chat up the wife and flirt with her husband. Because I know they are there to have fun..

    Couples usually are given a wide berth by me, unless they call me over. I'm not going. If they do and want to have fun or even chit chat for a few minutes. Sure! I adore couples and love entertaining them.

    It has to be on their terms and they have to let me know.

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    I absolutely LOVE when couples come in together and they're both there to have a good time. They're always a lot of fun!

    The women that come in that I can't stand are the ones that are obnoxious. They get too drunk and they start acting like idiots. They start dancing for whatever guy they're with to prove they're still sexy even when they're surrounded by half naked, beautiful women. They don't tip. They criticize all the girls in an attempt to make themselves feel better, and they're just all around downers. They wind up embarassing the poor guy that brought them in and they do nothing but screw us out of money.

    It doesn't sound like your wife was that type of woman at all and if you both went and had a great time and were respectful there is absolutely no reason you shouldn't go back and have fun again.

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    All I have to say is...don't pressure your girlfriend/wife into a lap dance. I can't count how many times I've had to give a dance to some poor girl who is just about terrified of me while her man stands watching, practically dribbling on himself. *Awkwardddd* I don't like the swingers or the really drunk girls either...so that pretty much sums up all female customers (with the exception of a very few)...

    From my experience, most women in strip clubs are their to prove something to their friends/boyfriends... After all, bisexuality is the new "in" thing...But, eh...as long as you don't try to shove your tongue down my throat or roll around on the stage topless during my set...you're okay by me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andy08 View Post
    ...so that pretty much sums up all female customers (with the exception of a very few)...

    Glad to know that I fit into that "very few" category.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    I absolutely LOVE when couples come in together and they're both there to have a good time. They're always a lot of fun!

    The women that come in that I can't stand are the ones that are obnoxious. They get too drunk and they start acting like idiots. They start dancing for whatever guy they're with to prove they're still sexy even when they're surrounded by half naked, beautiful women. They don't tip. They criticize all the girls in an attempt to make themselves feel better, and they're just all around downers. They wind up embarassing the poor guy that brought them in and they do nothing but screw us out of money.

    It doesn't sound like your wife was that type of woman at all and if you both went and had a great time and were respectful there is absolutely no reason you shouldn't go back and have fun again.
    Yes we both had a good time. And honestly I was surprised how much she liked it. The women there treated us nice. By that I mean they explained to us what to expect and kept asking if my wife was OK with everything. By the end of the night the women were dancing on stage in front of us and after their set came down to talk to us. It was really an enjoyable experience for both of us. We are going back to Ft Lauderdale again this May and plan on visiting that club again. You mentioned about respectful. we both were and the dancers there were also that way. So overall they made us both feel very comfortable

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andy08 View Post
    All I have to say is...don't pressure your girlfriend/wife into a lap dance. I can't count how many times I've had to give a dance to some poor girl who is just about terrified of me while her man stands watching, practically dribbling on himself. *Awkwardddd* I don't like the swingers or the really drunk girls either...so that pretty much sums up all female customers (with the exception of a very few)...

    From my experience, most women in strip clubs are their to prove something to their friends/boyfriends... After all, bisexuality is the new "in" thing...But, eh...as long as you don't try to shove your tongue down my throat or roll around on the stage topless during my set...you're okay by me.
    So my wife shouldn't of gone on stage? Just kidding. She did go up to the rail to tip with the lead of the dancer on stage. She pointed to our table and gestured to come to the rail. When I stood up to go to the rail she pointed to my wife and wanted her to go to the rail. This whole experience was great.

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    I just would not take a girl to a strip club, especially a girlfriend. I've seen guys dragging their girls along. The guy thinks he's smart and the girl looks uncomfortable and insulted. Sometimes its a mutual "partners in crime" caper though. Still, you have to wonder.

    One, I wouldn't be able to enjoy myself fully and two, when I'm with a girl - date or not - I don't check out other girls, and that would defeat the purpose of going to a SC now wouldn't it.

    Even if it were the girl's idea, I'd know she's just dong it because it's trendy or kinky (probably read about it in one of her trashy novels) and the reality is she is going to have issues and probably blame me later on.

    Girls check each other out and compare thmeselves. This would be especially intense when the other girls are nice looking, wearing g-strings and sticking out their chests and behinds on stage - in front of the male they are with.

    I do not go to SCs to be with a girlfriend - can't simultaneously be on a date and checking out strippers. My girlfriend is not my buddy. Girls want their bf 's attention on themselves. I guess there would be reasons why girls would be curious about strippers, maybe the way they look at fashion models or other female celebrities, but she can go with her girl friends, not with me.

    Not worth the hassle and not even fun.
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    we are all perverts in the SC in my opinion. Hes a pervert, you're a pervert, I'm a pervert.

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    tip well, pretend you don't have a vagina, and have fun I say
    "Your sins are the only interesting things about you dreary cocksuckers" --Doug Stanhope

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    Quote Originally Posted by RedDixieCup View Post
    tip well, pretend you don't have a vagina, and have fun I say
    LOL!

    My vagina makes most of my decisions for me, and she'd be REALLY pissed off if I tried to ignore her....and trust me....you don't want your hootchie pissed off.


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    ok, change that part to "don't be an attention whore"

    LOL we don't need any angry whoo ha


    and for the record....my old man and I go to "the shoe show" together....we treat it like going to any other bar though. I'm certainly not going in there trying to call attention to myself. I try to be highly respectful to the girls, tip well (even though I'm not really looking for private dances, it's ok if my boyfriend goes). You cannot be jealous. It's not about you.
    Also, don't drink past the point where you begin to be obnoxious. Get a good buzz, have a good time....but act like a freaking adult. And treat people how you would like to be treated.

    I dunno, maybe it's that it doesn't seem like it's that big of a deal to go....or maybe it's that I'm really over being the drunk obnoxious chick.....but I see those girls going in there, on stripper territory and trying to make everyone look at them instead and it's embarassing for me as a female.

    Pet Peeve #1 the girls that lay back on the stage and put the money in their pants or bra or whatever and make the dancers go after it.
    lame. lame. lame.
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    I was on stage tonight and had four women sitting at the tip rail. I did some pole tricks (the girls always seem to appreciate it more than the boys) and come crawling over, give them a big smile, and say hello.

    -None- of them would answer me. In fact, one of them shot me this smug look...the others just sat and gave me this blank stare. Ouch. Do I have something on my face???

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andy08 View Post
    I was on stage tonight and had four women sitting at the tip rail. I did some pole tricks (the girls always seem to appreciate it more than the boys) and come crawling over, give them a big smile, and say hello.

    -None- of them would answer me. In fact, one of them shot me this smug look...the others just sat and gave me this blank stare. Ouch. Do I have something on my face???
    Do you expect them to enjoy it or congratulate you? Why should they? You do it for men. I would probably behave in a similar way at a male strip show, if someone were able to force me to go.

    Makes me wonder why they were there though. Maybe just snooping.
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    we are all perverts in the SC in my opinion. Hes a pervert, you're a pervert, I'm a pervert.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hopper View Post
    Do you expect them to enjoy it or congratulate you? Why should they? You do it for men. I would probably behave in a similar way at a male strip show, if someone were able to force me to go.

    Makes me wonder why they were there though. Maybe just snooping.

    That's the issue, most of these women are "forced" to go, or either they have something to prove and get so trashed that they interfere with our ( the house girls ) money making process.

    Such as my lovely experience last night, where on stage I had to literally pry my head out of some drunk chicks grip as she was trying to lay a lip lock on me. Her friend just stood at the stage and wiggled after she tried to put her leg on my shoulder. All this happened while their male escort watched in indulgent amusement.

    Fun.


    If they don't want to be there, they should not.

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    ^I only meant that I would only go to a male show if forced. I hear that women are worse on "ladies night" than men are at their clubs, like a Beatles or Oprah audience. what you discribed seems like an indication.

    I was just at a club tonight and there were a good number of women there, apparently just having a good time. There were three lesbians (pretty sure) there with a straight couple and all of them went to the stage tipping seats and participated nicely enough with one of the dancers.

    Andy08 - I'm not defending the way those girls behaved. They shouldn't have been at the tipping bar if they weren't at least tipping.
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    we are all perverts in the SC in my opinion. Hes a pervert, you're a pervert, I'm a pervert.

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