Recently i've been hostessing for my club, too much stress as a dancer plus an hourly wage helped.

I've found that the age old saying 'men always want what they can't have' is true.
the moment i stop showing skin and make myself unavailable they all want me.

Luckly as a hostess one of the conditions I arranged with the club is that as long as I dance on stage when no girls are available and clock off beforehand I can do LDs.
I'll only do them for an hour onwards because it's a hassle for the paying staff. And I always try to presuade them to take another girl because that's my job.

But now even when I dance I make it habit to pick up glasses and get drinks, I get more tips because i handle more money. Plus I get the benefits of being a dancer with the added bonus of less chit chat. (which i suck at.)