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    Ok i wanna try a new approach of how i give my dances, I'm not the best dancer and not a nasty one either. I prefer to do dance by dance cause I dont do hourly (in VIP) anymore cause i had too many experiences with creepy guys. So i think the best way to change things up is to do the whole seductive thing but dont know how. Could anyone give me advice like how to move (dance), whispering in ear (what can you say), how to stay in seductive mode to lure in the customer for the kill lol.
    Also if i stay in seductive mode from the time i approach and the time i leave what would you talk about what can i say??? I usually stay funny and talk about anything which works out great but I cant be seductive and be like "Hey papi blah blah blah so what do you think about the Rays???" lol
    PLS HELP!!!!!!!!

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    A lot of "I want you/ care for you" eye contact

    I just breathe in their ear. Talking makes them think and that's bad.

    Move slowly, but forcefully. Move at like half or a third of the music's tempo.

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    i don't talk unless the guy starts talking, then i'll chat a little bit, but otherwise i'll just giggle and smile..

    infact i get told a lot that my giggle is naughty/sexy/cute, so it's sorta become a regular occurence in dances, along with a lot of sexy eye contact and a little bit of lip biting
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    I don't talk... because I feel weird doing the dirty talk thing. I do alot of eye contact... sometimes I smile a little to pretend that I am enjoying the dance... I run my fingers slowly up and down the back of their necks.... things of that nature

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    I highly reccomend picking up the book 'Superflirt' by Tracey Cox! It's a great crash course on seductive body language and will really help you out : ).

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    I'm getting good at selling multiples. And its been since I started my whole girlfriend experience dances
    Usual dance + softly nuzzling up to neck,nose to nose rubbing (yes i'm serious lol) and lots of "I'm enjoying this dance so much" faces and big smiles.
    It's all about creating the illusion that you love dancing for him,making him feel like you are the only two in the club.
    As for talking, I tend to punctuate the guys reactions e.g if he looks like he really enjoyed a move I say "did you like that? This ones just for you" and repeat it for him. Or if I notice he stares at one body part for a long time I ask "Do you like my curvy waist/big tits/long legs" etc.
    Then at the end I thank him and say how much I enjoyed the dance

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    To the OP:
    you know how sometimes you end up dancing for a customer who's really cool, makes you comfortable, and you have tons of fun dancing for him?

    Dance like that ALL THE TIME.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkpvc View Post
    I'm getting good at selling multiples. And its been since I started my whole girlfriend experience dances
    Usual dance + softly nuzzling up to neck,nose to nose rubbing (yes i'm serious lol) and lots of "I'm enjoying this dance so much" faces and big smiles.
    It's all about creating the illusion that you love dancing for him,making him feel like you are the only two in the club.
    As for talking, I tend to punctuate the guys reactions e.g if he looks like he really enjoyed a move I say "did you like that? This ones just for you" and repeat it for him. Or if I notice he stares at one body part for a long time I ask "Do you like my curvy waist/big tits/long legs" etc.
    Then at the end I thank him and say how much I enjoyed the dance

    I agree with this. I actually simulate sex. Give him the feel like he is getting "some". I move on him like I am riding him and reverse cowgirl style. I moan, breathe in his ear, get nose to nose, and tell them how much fun I am having. Of course, they never get off....If they did I couldn't sell more dances. I usually get 3-6 dances out of a guy when I do this. Also, I never talk to them unless they talk to me. If I do talk it is geared towards the subject of the dance or my body ... or even something "sexy" about him. I also get their name and use it during the dance...like you would during sex. I also collect the $$ upfront and pay the house on the way out. That way it does not interupt the flow too much. That's they way I do it.

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    I do my dances EXACTLY how pinkpvc described and I almost never get turned down when I ask if they want me to keep going. I treat guys how I would treat a boyfriend (minus the kissing, etc... of course) with lots of nuzzling and soft breathing in their ear. I play with guy's hair a lot and rub the back of their neck. And always lots of super sensual eye contact. That's a big one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TopChevyGirl View Post
    I agree with this. I actually simulate sex. Give him the feel like he is getting "some". I move on him like I am riding him and reverse cowgirl style. I moan, breathe in his ear, get nose to nose, and tell them how much fun I am having. Of course, they never get off....If they did I couldn't sell more dances. I usually get 3-6 dances out of a guy when I do this. Also, I never talk to them unless they talk to me. If I do talk it is geared towards the subject of the dance or my body ... or even something "sexy" about him. I also get their name and use it during the dance...like you would during sex. I also collect the $$ upfront and pay the house on the way out. That way it does not interupt the flow too much. That's they way I do it.

    Taylor
    How can you get paid upfront if you don't know how many dances he will buy???

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    Quote Originally Posted by CarlyMIA View Post
    How can you get paid upfront if you don't know how many dances he will buy???
    Carly, if that's you in your avatar, I don't see how you'd ever miss making the initial sale. Best-looking avatar I've ever seen on SW, simple perfection.

    Of course, repeat sales become more about performance/connection/chemistry than simple great looks. Good luck with applying what you've learned here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Carly, if that's you in your avatar, I don't see how you'd ever miss making the initial sale. Best-looking avatar I've ever seen on SW, simple perfection.

    Of course, repeat sales become more about performance/connection/chemistry than simple great looks. Good luck with applying what you've learned here.

    Thank you everyman! Yes, that's me in my avatar.. I wish it was more high resolution, would look even better =]

    So far I've been mostly "confirming" rather than "newly applying", but brushing up on old skills is always good!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CarlyMIA View Post
    How can you get paid upfront if you don't know how many dances he will buy???
    At the end of each song see if he wants to continue, if so collect the money then. And keep going on & on & on & on.

    Taylor

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    The GFE Lite (no sex) is what will really help.

    No talking abruptly because you'll snap them out of their trance. If a guy is remotely attractive or sexy flirt and tell him. Look him in the eye, smile and in a soft voice when the moment is right in his ear or to his face. I'm a little more daring and I've told guys before 'damn you got a fat cock' or 'you'd be fun in bed' if they have a nice touch and not a creep 'oh I like that'.

    Girls like hearing they are beautiful and guys eat that up too. If they're not sexy or attractive (or are lacking in the nether region if you were gonna go there) don't say anything because it will come across as fake. Just smile and act interested. You can always fake a smile.

    As someone else said move slow and make every move count but I suggest switch out the pace because that is what real sex is like. Pretend like your in a slow-mo vid or you're posing for a camera then all of a sudden when the music changes your in a fast paced porno for a few seconds. Then find a pose and hold it a little longer than normal. If you can pull it off and your custy can handle it you can be a bit silly too. Switch back and fourth to being an object to being like his real girlfriend. Then go back to slow and seductive. Sounds cheesy but they get lost in the dance.

    You don't have to be dirty at all, big cock, porn poses or acting like your getting fucked. Did you ever see that Herbal Essense commercial and the girls are getting off washing their hair. Yeah that! Just do the flattering moves or ones they like and linger on a few that they seem to be particularly interested in. Find his hot button...what do you say or do that he can't get enough of that are within reason?




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    this thread helps me alot

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    What has always helped me get multiple dances is to speed it up a bit (do one of your hot sexy moves you know gets guys going) right before the song is about to end, so that way of course they want to continue! It almost always works for at least one more song.

    Example: Right before the song ends I slide down their body until my boobs are in their lap. Then I look up at them and ask for another dance because I just got started. Somehow guys just can't say no when there are boobs in their lap lol.

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