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    Default My roommates are thisclose to getting murdered

    I'm in grad school, and I share an apartment with 3 girls, but we all have our own bedroom.

    My roommates are driving me crazy.

    I'm still on stripper-time, while they think sleeping in past 8 is lazy. So every morning, they are up at 6am, and they are LOUD. Talking, screaming, blasting music, etc. When they sit in the kitchen and chat, I can hear every word of their conversation, as if they were in my room (and yes, they sometimes talk about me).

    One roommate likes to bring home strange guys regularly (which in itself I would not care about). But the guys she brings back are shady as hell, so I lock my bedroom door...because you never know, and I have my laptop/TV, etc in there. She gets really offended by this, to the point where she took my T3 iron (which I had left to cool on the bathroom counter) and threw it at my door...then pretended to not know how my iron had ended up on the floor.

    Anyt ips for blocking out the noise at least? I tried ear plugs and a fan, but I can still hear every damned word.

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    Yuck. I say just wait until the day before rent is due and move out so they're screwed for rent money
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    the girl threw your flat iron? wow these people are silly. and honestly they need to respect the fact that you need your sleep. I say move out as soon as you can.
    I live in a house with 3 other people and even tho my bedroom is upstairs sometimes I can hear the people downstairs when they are up. I always sleep in since my classes are in the afternoon. but if I tell em to keep it down they respect it for the most part.
    you need to live with people that respect your wishes to keep it down while you sleep.... that's verryyy rude of them and even if you weren't on stripper time 8 am is early.

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    See, I have an issue with this since I am on the opposite time schedule. It's really hard to keep quiet when your other roomates are sleeping in all the time. 8AM is NOT that early if you have shit to do. I think it can go both ways and for the most part, yeah they might try being a little more considerate, but you have to remember they shouldn't HAVE to revolve around your sleeping times.

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    I hate house sharing and have vowed to never do it again - my last housemate would bring home strange men and i just had to tell her that it made me uncomfortable especially when she'd pop out for groceries and leave these strangers in the house with only me there!

    Locking your stuff up is just common sense - tell them you do it for insurance purposes since many insurance policies in shared households are not valid unless people have locks in use on their rooms to secure their property. Maybe you need to sit and talk to them and tell them that you are considering moving out because your schedules seem to conflict so much.

    Maybe moving out is something you should consider - is there another dancer you could live with who might appreciate your schedule a little better? Or just find a place to live with thicker walls!

    As for blocking out the noise - i found headphones a blessing, some soothing music does wonders.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MixedBabe88 View Post
    See, I have an issue with this since I am on the opposite time schedule. It's really hard to keep quiet when your other roomates are sleeping in all the time. 8AM is NOT that early if you have shit to do. I think it can go both ways and for the most part, yeah they might try being a little more considerate, but you have to remember they shouldn't HAVE to revolve around your sleeping times.

    I totally get that they shouldn't have to revolve around my schedule; I would never expect them too. But I do expect some common courtesy. And they don't "have shit to do". They sit there and chat about nonsense.

    For instance, I'm up late. I know that, so I try to keep quiet. No TV after 9:00, if I use my cell phone I go outside, no guests, etc.

    But when, at 9:30, when I was washing dishes (including some that were there's) she came out screaming at me for being disrespectful.

    Just as I shouldn't expect them to revolve around my schedule, they shouldn't expect me to revovle around there's. It's just courtesy.

    But thanks for the support girls. The stupid college required a full year lease, so I'm stuck here until August But then I'll definitely be out

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    well, what*I* would do, would be to stop revolving around THEIR sleep schedule. 930!? wtf? my son isn't even asleep by then! and you shouldn't have to stop your social life for their convenience if they obviously dont give two shits about yours... have your friends over if you want to. they'll deal with it. and if they bitch, then POLITELY tell them that you live there too, and just as they are allowed to have people over and be loud when they are awake, you are as well. and while you have tried to walk on eggshells around their lives, so as to be respectful and not disrupt their sleep, etc. that you feel that the courtesy is not returned, so you are doing what you want to do in the house that you pay to live in. and if they feel that you are being unreasonable, they can get back to you when you don't have guests over/aren't busy/whatever and have a "house meeting" to discuss common courtesies and acceptable behaviors.

    or you could move out, but make sure you do it all legal-like. or they could end up trying to get back at you or whatever.

    ok, just read the last line of your post. oops! talk to the housing authority for your school and see if you can work something out with them for moving out. explain the situation, tell them your housemates are really rude and disrespectful of you, despite your gracious behavior towards them, and that you no longer feel that living in that situation is beneficial to anyone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kandie_kitten View Post

    One roommate likes to bring home strange guys regularly (which in itself I would not care about). But the guys she brings back are shady as hell, so I lock my bedroom door...because you never know, and I have my laptop/TV, etc in there. She gets really offended by this, to the point where she took my T3 iron (which I had left to cool on the bathroom counter) and threw it at my door...then pretended to not know how my iron had ended up on the floor.

    Anyt ips for blocking out the noise at least? I tried ear plugs and a fan, but I can still hear every damned word.
    unfortunately i have a VERY low tolerance for my shit being touched....she would have gotten her ass beat for that....





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    i can't stand my roommates either...as soon as i start working, i'm pretty sure i'm moving out into a cheap studio apartment a couple blocks from campus...

    my roommates are nasty slobs who don't want to clean the bathroom, and bitch about every little thing (my music, my guests, etc)......one of them even turned off my phone and once picked it up and hung up on the person because she claimed i wasn't here and the noise was bothering her.....i almost went crazy... i have been expecting calls from clubs offering a job and now i don't know if i missed them or not because this dumbass bitch touched my phone...... i can't live here anymore





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    Fuck that shit! You should start hosting afterbars at your place when they are trying to sleep Lols!

    No seriously though, move.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms. Mia Roberts View Post
    i can't stand my roommates either...as soon as i start working, i'm pretty sure i'm moving out into a cheap studio apartment a couple blocks from campus...

    my roommates are nasty slobs who don't want to clean the bathroom, and bitch about every little thing (my music, my guests, etc)......one of them even turned off my phone and once picked it up and hung up on the person because she claimed i wasn't here and the noise was bothering her.....i almost went crazy... i have been expecting calls from clubs offering a job and now i don't know if i missed them or not because this dumbass bitch touched my phone...... i can't live here anymore
    I second your notion of moving out. It's a good idea! College girls are bitches, esp bc you want to hide dancing.

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    my roomate sucks ass too. she literally does not clean. like use all the dishes in the house and leave for three days.

    then im left with the dilemma to go against my rule of not cleaning up after grown ass people, or have no plates and a stinky house.
    she also fucks up right after i do give in and clean. i clean the sink? she leaves hair in it. i straighten up, she leaves her shit all over.

    i use her stuff, and eat her food to make myself feel better
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    Quote Originally Posted by kikidejavu View Post
    my roomate sucks ass too. she literally does not clean. like use all the dishes in the house and leave for three days.

    then im left with the dilemma to go against my rule of not cleaning up after grown ass people, or have no plates and a stinky house.
    she also fucks up right after i do give in and clean. i clean the sink? she leaves hair in it. i straighten up, she leaves her shit all over.

    i use her stuff, and eat her food to make myself feel better
    if you straighten up and she leaves her stuff all over, just throw it away. i used to do it to my roomies all the time. they'd leave their shit everywhere for days, i'd always clean it up, so i got tired of it and just threw it away. they couldn't dirty it up if they didnt have anything to dirty it up with. they bitched, but they eventually started putting their shit away, so i'd stop throwing it away.

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    wow, I really feel for you, these girls sound like total bitches. You can hear them talk about you sometimes? Nice. I also cannot believe that they get offended that you take proper precautions when they bring random dudes home! That's so ridiculous that it is almost comical. I would just keep standing up for yourself, screw them, they're in the wrong. Karma will get their asses soon enough in some form or other, so skip the vindictive behavior if you're tempted to do something shady (which would be totally understandable! ).
    What saved my sanity and kept me sleeping well in college, was a fan and a humidifier..going at the same time. I didn't even fill the humidifier up, I just let it run to drone out the noise.

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