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    Default I fell in love thru phone convos...help me!! one convo posted (long)

    Please help me....tell me anything....this was 2 years ago....i still think and dream about this person.... but i have had multiple relationships still then...i'm in one now with an amzing guy....what the hell is wrong with me.... i just had a convo on facebook with the guy after not hearing from him in months... here is part of the convo



    4:17amSean
    cuz that is that
    naw, i never fell in love
    never have and never will
    i had an image of you
    and a voice, and that is it
    4:18amme
    so that wasn't me?
    4:18amSean
    there was never the whole thing
    4:18amme
    i feel the same way
    4:18amSean
    it was a fake ass relationship supported by technology
    4:18amme
    which is part of the reason i want to see you
    4:18amSean
    it was young
    and no its completely over
    now*
    4:18amme
    the honest to god truth is to prove to myself that i was never in love with you
    4:18amSean
    well you weren't
    that's that
    4:19amme
    and that in reality, your not what i built up in my head
    yea, but i have to meet you first
    4:19amSean
    well i'm not
    4:19amme
    well, meet you again
    lol
    4:19amSean
    i'm not what you built up
    4:19amme
    i'm sure you aren't...but its something i gotta do for me
    for you and someone else
    4:20amSean
    aren't u in a relationship?
    wats that all about
    4:20amme
    yea
    4:20amSean
    so love him
    4:20amme
    he told me he is in love with me
    he is a great guy
    4:20amSean
    well good, go for him
    4:20amme
    treats me wonderful
    understands why i dance
    he is perfect
    4:21amSean
    good
    love him
    4:21amme
    ....and i can't bring my self to be in love with him
    4:21amSean
    spend 1500 on him
    4:21amme
    and it broke my heart, but i had to tell him that
    and i had to tell him i have to go to seattle
    4:21amSean
    who else is in seattle
    4:21amme
    i made the same mistake twice
    i fell for another guy who lives in seattle
    reminded me alot of you
    4:22amSean
    ha, see you think ur in love cuz ur desperate for love
    4:22amme
    and i got my heart broken in the same way
    4:22amSean
    but u've never been in love
    we were never in love
    4:22amme
    no, he i was desperate....i would be in love with this perfect guy standing right in front of me
    4:22amSean
    you never loved me
    4:23amme
    or the other guys i dated that were perfect
    something about you and him
    i think its the seattle water
    4:23amSean
    you never even knew me face to face
    4:23amme
    lol
    4:23amSean
    so i'm sorry you built me up
    4:23amme
    i never knew him face to face
    4:23amSean
    yeah, that's kinda weird
    4:24amme
    i know
    well, soon i will meet you
    4:24amSean
    these are weird relationships and i don't understand it


    well watever, if your in seattle call me and we'll see
    but its weird
    4:34amSean
    so you fell in love twice over the phone
    4:34amme
    i'm sorry if your creeped out
    4:34amSean
    you're telling me you fell in love twice
    over phone calls
    and AIM
    is that normal?
    4:34amme
    didn't you tell me you read an article about a woman who fell in love the letters?
    it happens all the fuckin time
    4:35amSean
    okie dokie, do what you want



    now that i have edited this....can we please stay on topic.....

    The topic is, who thinks that any relationship like this is wierd or "fake"?
    Has anyone ever been in a relaionship like this? How did it feel? How did you get over it?
    Last edited by Ms. Mia Roberts; 11-02-2008 at 02:49 PM. Reason: took out the parts that everyone doesn't need to read





    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    If they are spending money, we don't call them stalkers. We call them Regulars.
    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_Luscious View Post
    Fuck these people, seriously. Fuck them in the ass without lube or warning.
    LMAO!!!!

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    Default Re: I fell in love thru phone convos...help me!! one convo posted (long)

    whoa.....i just looked at that and it is definitely long as shit....sorry..... but pleas help....idk wtf is wrong with me....

    EDIT: I was feeling stupid not because of wanting to see him again, because i had even fell in love in the first place

    i'm gonna see him regardless of what anyone on here tells me, so don't be hurt when i don't take your advice telling me not to see him....i won't take it
    Last edited by Ms. Mia Roberts; 11-02-2008 at 02:53 PM. Reason: clarity





    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    If they are spending money, we don't call them stalkers. We call them Regulars.
    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_Luscious View Post
    Fuck these people, seriously. Fuck them in the ass without lube or warning.
    LMAO!!!!

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    Default Re: I fell in love thru phone convos...help me!! one convo posted (long)

    I...I dunno. I mean, I was in an internet-type relationship for about a year and a half, and it was so, so, so hard to get him out of my head, for some reason. I had another local boyfriend for a while after we broke up once, but I went right back -- love, love, and all that shit. Then I went to college and...I dunno, things became...different, I guess. I can't explain it. I just started thinking about things -- about how he could be this guy, completely different from the image he'd portrayed, how...I dunno, about how I didn't really know him at all.

    Seems like your guy is at a point where he's just...seeing it as smoke and mirrors, and not as a real, tactile relationship. I'm definitely not saying that all good relationships are local and all that, and I'm not saying that his view is particularly correct, but long distance relationships...they evoke strong opinions sometimes, you know? And it seems that his opinion is negative toward them, so I'd let him go. It'll be hard, yeah, but if he doesn't want anything (or at least says he doesn't), you gotta respect that -- take him on his word, even if its not entirely accurate. If he comes back and says that he really cares, then so be it -- you go from there -- but right now?

    ...I dunno. I'm kinda ramble-y. Sorry.



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    Default Re: I fell in love thru phone convos...help me!! one convo posted (long)

    all the creepiness aside, he said he does not want to see you. so buiild a bridge, get over him and move on with life. he's right, don't drag him into it because you need closure. you can do that on your own in your hometown. don't beg a boy for anything, ever. espicially not to see him if he doesn't want you. you made an ass out of yourself in that convo, i'm sorry to say. just let it go and move on.

    /not as bitchy as that sounded, sorry.

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    Default Re: I fell in love thru phone convos...help me!! one convo posted (long)

    ^^^ maybe, but he has told me this exact same shit...and then called me months later and told me he was in love with me and all this other stuff.... that shit is confusing...

    and normally i wouldn't beg a man for anything....but there is something about him that i am crazy about





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    If they are spending money, we don't call them stalkers. We call them Regulars.
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    Fuck these people, seriously. Fuck them in the ass without lube or warning.
    LMAO!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ~Isabella View Post
    all the creepiness aside, he said he does not want to see you. so buiild a bridge, get over him and move on with life. he's right, don't drag him into it because you need closure. you can do that on your own in your hometown. don't beg a boy for anything, ever. espicially not to see him if he doesn't want you. you made an ass out of yourself in that convo, i'm sorry to say. just let it go and move on.

    /not as bitchy as that sounded, sorry.
    and the piece of the convo i left out had him suggesting we meet first...he said he would come down and see me in portland...which had me kind of confused when all of a sudden he said he didn;t.....





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    If they are spending money, we don't call them stalkers. We call them Regulars.
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    Fuck these people, seriously. Fuck them in the ass without lube or warning.
    LMAO!!!!

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    Default Re: I fell in love thru phone convos...help me!! one convo posted (long)

    Forget this guy - it seems that you want him because he doesn't want you. He is evidently a bit of a 'bad boy' and you find that challenge attractive. But from the convo you posted he really just wants you to leave him alone because (and please don't take this the wrong way, just trying to give you his POV) you come across as an obsessed stalker prepared to spend $1500 to go all the way to see him. If you had come across more casual like 'oh, i'm dancing in Portland this winter, so you'd better keep your ass out of the local strip clubs', then it probably would have led to him asking to see you. But you come across as very full-on.

    I'm not saying you can't fall for someone online but sometimes you meet people IRL and there is no chemistry, they're completely different to how you thought they'd be, sometimes people IRL are alot warmer and nicer than they appear online. Regardless, if you project yourself as wanting to get into something with people you've never met, then you can come across as desperate, needy, creepy and a whole host of negative things, which it seems to be the way he's perceiving you. (honestly, i don't mean for this to sound bitchy because you seem like a really nice girl)

    And if you have bf at the moment then i really think you need to take a long hard look at how you feel. Do you feel that your bf is 'too nice' and that's why you hanker after this 'bad boy'? Those 'bad boys' who turn good for their woman, treating them like queens at the centre of their world are rarer than hen's teeth. And you don't really know this guy enough to know what he is really like at all. Plus, your bf must be feeling devastated. Put aside this fantasy of a guy in Portland and maybe take some time to be on your own and figure out what you want out of a relationship.

    Spar x

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    Quote Originally Posted by spartaca View Post
    Forget this guy - it seems that you want him because he doesn't want you. He is evidently a bit of a 'bad boy' and you find that challenge attractive. But from the convo you posted he really just wants you to leave him alone because (and please don't take this the wrong way, just trying to give you his POV) you come across as an obsessed stalker prepared to spend $1500 to go all the way to see him. If you had come across more casual like 'oh, i'm dancing in Portland this winter, so you'd better keep your ass out of the local strip clubs', then it probably would have led to him asking to see you. But you come across as very full-on.

    just clarfiying. i do understand what you are saying. maybe i should have inclused the other part of this convo. he did ask to see me. but this was before i told him i was a stripper and going to portland to strip. i just told him i was going to portland. And he is nowhere NEAR a freakin badboy. that shit doesn't turn me on in him (i could get that from a much sexier man where i am). he looks like a nerd and i don't find him the least bit attractive. I think what got him so upset and confused is that he thinks i want to see him to fall in love with him all over again. Part of me is still in love with him, yes. But i barely talk to him, i'm not a stalker, and i want to see him once just to chill, talk, and get closure....we talked for 45 mins before i told him the stripper part, so the casual convo and catching up and all that was left out

    I'm not saying you can't fall for someone online but sometimes you meet people IRL and there is no chemistry, they're completely different to how you thought they'd be, sometimes people IRL are alot warmer and nicer than they appear online. Regardless, if you project yourself as wanting to get into something with people you've never met, then you can come across as desperate, needy, creepy and a whole host of negative things, which it seems to be the way he's perceiving you. (honestly, i don't mean for this to sound bitchy because you seem like a really nice girl)

    we didn't meet online. we met at a conference in seattle. there was a lil bit of chemistry because i gave him my number or email address or whatever. but not much happened because i was interested in someone else. i fell in love with him after going home and then sharing lengthy phone calls with him

    And if you have bf at the moment then i really think you need to take a long hard look at how you feel. Do you feel that your bf is 'too nice' and that's why you hanker after this 'bad boy'? Those 'bad boys' who turn good for their woman, treating them like queens at the centre of their world are rarer than hen's teeth. And you don't really know this guy enough to know what he is really like at all. Plus, your bf must be feeling devastated. Put aside this fantasy of a guy in Portland and maybe take some time to be on your own and figure out what you want out of a relationship.

    i don't hanker (lol @ the word hanker) for bad boys. what i loved (or maybe love) about him is that he was extremely sweet and he wrote some of the moste thoughtful and caring things i have ever heard in my life. i don't know where that whole tough guy shit came from but i think he is goin through a rough patch in his life because when i met him and fell for him, he was a virgin who didn't drink or smoke. lol. he just went to school (a good school) and ran track and wrote poetry. where smokin crack and takin e and gettin into fights came from....i have no clue. which is why he keeps tellin me "i've changed"...and also why when i think i meet him again, i'll realize wht a PL he is and that the guy i fell for is no where to be found.... and i'll drop it

    and i feel horrible doin this to my bf, but i sat him down and told him exactly whats goin on. And he understands and says i need closure before anything can progress between us

    and your comment wasn't mean at all. thank you for being honest


    Spar x
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    Default Re: I fell in love thru phone convos...help me!! one convo posted (long)

    Have you seen this guy on webcam? If not could be a case of
    Internet perception

    vs.

    internet reality


    4:25amSean
    i've had sex with over 10 different girls, i've sold drugs for the past 3 years, i'm a thief, a graffitti artist, i run from cops and i skip class
    i'm not a person you would know or like, so how about this
    This right here is a "shit i gotta say something to make her not wanna meet me" response. When i used to chat online i'd sometimes find out a girl is using fake pics so i'd say i'm gonna be in her area and wanna meet up and they'd all of a sudden come up with all kinds of reasons they can't. I remember before webcams became really popular i had a couple of encounters where women didn't exactly match the pics they had sent me. It was funny because they came up introduced themselves and started talking like i wasn't supposed to be like "uhh you're not the girl that i was seeing in pics"

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    Quote Originally Posted by grindonme View Post

    This right here is a "shit i gotta say something to make her not wanna meet me" response. When i used to chat online i'd sometimes find out a girl is using fake pics so i'd say i'm gonna be in her area and wanna meet up and they'd all of a sudden come up with all kinds of reasons they can't. I remember before webcams became really popular i had a couple of encounters where women didn't exactly match the pics they had sent me. It was funny because they came up introduced themselves and started talking like i wasn't supposed to be like "uhh you're not the girl that i was seeing in pics"
    thats hilarious! i can't believe they actually met up with you knowing dam well they were using fake pictures. lmaooo


    listen... by reading the convo this guy has made it painfully clear that he doesn't want to see you... in fact he kept saying you creeped him out. I'd be a little creeped out too if someone I never even met said he loved me and wanted to see me after all these years... I mean you told the guy you've been dreaming about him... I'm sorry but it's weird. Even tho he said to call him when you're in the area I'm not sure if he actually will see you.... you gotta let it go.

    I was in a somewhat similar situation... I started talking to this kid on facebook(but he went to my highschool.. we just never really talked that much at school) and he is now away at college... concidently I was going to the city he lives in the following weekend and we made plans to meet up. We talked everyday leading up to the day of the trip. So when the day came we met up, hooked up, and I went home with the biggest crush on him. I built him up to be this perfect person for me but honestly I don't even know him! We only hung out once and he lives hours away so how could I like him so much. I had to shake it off. hopefully you can shake it off too.

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    Thanks for clarifying. It sounds as though he had a big attitude change when he found out you started dancing tbh. If he has changed so much as to get himself involved in all of that shadiness then no doubt he'll have developed the attitude that goes with it. I think the person you fell for has gone and it will only bring you grief if you don't chalk it up to history. I'd hate for you to go to Portland and try to see him only for him to be obnoxious to you, especially sine in this convo he seems to have been quite hurtful to you already. Protect your feelings and your dignity and live life in the real, rather than what you might dream could have been.

    Love & light
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    um, who cares??
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    I like them large and cut. Sort of like strawberries.

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    srsly. i read about 20 lines of that and the dude is just being a total dick. it was dumb to even waste your time having that chat with him.
    Quote Originally Posted by alessandra View Post
    I like them large and cut. Sort of like strawberries.

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    I know it hurts, but dude dont give a rats ass bout you. Delete/forget him.

    Convo should have ended at 3:58!

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    Quote Originally Posted by grindonme View Post
    Have you seen this guy on webcam? If not could be a case of
    Internet perception

    vs.

    internet reality




    This right here is a "shit i gotta say something to make her not wanna meet me" response. When i used to chat online i'd sometimes find out a girl is using fake pics so i'd say i'm gonna be in her area and wanna meet up and they'd all of a sudden come up with all kinds of reasons they can't. I remember before webcams became really popular i had a couple of encounters where women didn't exactly match the pics they had sent me. It was funny because they came up introduced themselves and started talking like i wasn't supposed to be like "uhh you're not the girl that i was seeing in pics"

    shit....lmao....thats hilarious!!

    but i have to clear this up. It makes it sound as if i met him on line....i repeat, i DID NOT MEET HIM ONLINE!!

    I know exactly what he looks like...he is a nerdy white kid. I met him at a conference in seattle....he rapped in front of a crowd of 2000 black people.....AND DIDN'T GET BOOED! lol, he got a standing ovation

    and to me it is the same stuff he has said before because he wants to be a tough guy. he wants me to hate him. he said that to me, that he was a durggie and a bad boy and all this crap, after crying on the phone that he wish he could see me and make him all better and all this crap....he is just confused which makes me not take any of this seriously.... even tho, maybe i should





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    Fuck these people, seriously. Fuck them in the ass without lube or warning.
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    Quote Originally Posted by veronicachick View Post
    thats hilarious! i can't believe they actually met up with you knowing dam well they were using fake pictures. lmaooo


    listen... by reading the convo this guy has made it painfully clear that he doesn't want to see you... in fact he kept saying you creeped him out. I'd be a little creeped out too if someone I never even met said he loved me and wanted to see me after all these years... I mean you told the guy you've been dreaming about him... I'm sorry but it's weird. Even tho he said to call him when you're in the area I'm not sure if he actually will see you.... you gotta let it go.

    he told me he loved me first, after a week of speaking....and 6 months after breaking up with me... and i don't think he is creeped out...i think he is scared..

    I was in a somewhat similar situation... I started talking to this kid on facebook(but he went to my highschool.. we just never really talked that much at school) and he is now away at college... concidently I was going to the city he lives in the following weekend and we made plans to meet up. We talked everyday leading up to the day of the trip. So when the day came we met up, hooked up, and I went home with the biggest crush on him. I built him up to be this perfect person for me but honestly I don't even know him! We only hung out once and he lives hours away so how could I like him so much. I had to shake it off. hopefully you can shake it off too.
    i didn't like him when i first met him, but we barely talked. Just something about his spoken word he did on stage and a comment he made in our conference group about racism....intrigued me. So i don't think it was this perfect person i built up. However, i do believe that the person i fell for...might not be there anymore...and thats what i'm kinda hoping.

    and it just sucks because i know if i told him i was moving to seattle and not just visiting, this would be a different convo.

    and before the part of the convo that i posted here, it was a good...we were catching up and he wanted to take me bike riding and get dinner and show me the city...and then all of a sudden...changed.

    i'm kinda hoping that i meet him and he is a dick. then I know i'll b completely over him





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    LMAO!!!!

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    He sounds like a head fuck to me.

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    hey honey i am real sorry but i am going to be honest cause i always get honest adivce on sw even if its hard to take. than being said from what i read i don't think hes into you at all and i when you told him you a stipper he looked his nose down at you. futhermore hes a drug dealer and what not DON'T MEET THIS GUY HES A TOTAL JACK ASS.

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    Sorry but i think this guy is a total douche bag and he is trying to empathize it & make it obvious to you.

    He isn't even trying to hide it. He hates himself and doesn't think he is worthy of a relationship or doesn't you have the same feeling you had for him; that is why he wants to make you hate him thru the things he says...(i.e. :25amSean
    i've had sex with over 10 different girls, i've sold drugs for the past 3 years, i'm a thief, a graffitti artist, i run from cops and i skip class) these are things he is saying to try and turn you off to turn you to him.

    But maybe you are like me and you want to see the best in people. No matter how fucked up they are. From my point of view looking in---- I can see how messed up it is. It's proably best you don't see him in the long run. On the other hand, when people try to look into my life, and give me advice I'll deny it to the end--- I can only see what you posted here and don't know the situation with you and him.

    Best of luck to both of you.


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    Quote Originally Posted by OmgShesWild View Post
    Sorry but i think this guy is a total douche bag and he is trying to empathize it & make it obvious to you.

    He isn't even trying to hide it. He hates himself and doesn't think he is worthy of a relationship or doesn't you have the same feeling you had for him; that is why he wants to make you hate him thru the things he says...(i.e. :25amSean
    i've had sex with over 10 different girls, i've sold drugs for the past 3 years, i'm a thief, a graffitti artist, i run from cops and i skip class) these are things he is saying to try and turn you off to turn you to him.

    But maybe you are like me and you want to see the best in people. No matter how fucked up they are. From my point of view looking in---- I can see how messed up it is. It's proably best you don't see him in the long run. On the other hand, when people try to look into my life, and give me advice I'll deny it to the end--- I can only see what you posted here and don't know the situation with you and him.

    Best of luck to both of you.
    thank you. My goal is to let go...ive been holding on way too long. I'm gonna start my changin this name. "Mia Roberts" has to die





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    If they are spending money, we don't call them stalkers. We call them Regulars.
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    Fuck these people, seriously. Fuck them in the ass without lube or warning.
    LMAO!!!!

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    ^^^what they said. Get a hobby girl, this seems like a waste of time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lola85 View Post
    ^^^what they said. Get a hobby girl, this seems like a waste of time.
    if you ever felt for a person deeply (whether is had been in a long distance relationship or not), you would understand in the slightest. Ive never felt this way about any man before and i'm having trouble letting go. Just getting over it....easier said than done





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    If they are spending money, we don't call them stalkers. We call them Regulars.
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    Hey Ms Mia Roberts .....this guy is mind fucking you. Block him from contacting you and move on. Seriously.






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    Quote Originally Posted by Hello_Kitty27 View Post
    Hey Ms Mia Roberts .....this guy is mind fucking you. Block him from contacting you and move on. Seriously.
    i can't tho. I feel like i have left something undone by not seeing him again. I hadn't talked to him for 5 months before this convo, i haven't tried to contact him. I tried blocking him from my mind and that shit just doesnt work. I don't think he is mind fucking me, i think he is fucked up in the head. There is a big difference. I don't want him to take me back, or fall in love with him again. I just want to see him, shake his hand, and finally feel like i can get it off my chest because i finally did what i always said i would.





    Quote Originally Posted by Emily View Post
    If they are spending money, we don't call them stalkers. We call them Regulars.
    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_Luscious View Post
    Fuck these people, seriously. Fuck them in the ass without lube or warning.
    LMAO!!!!

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    Default Re: I fell in love thru phone convos...help me!! one convo posted (long)

    I dont agrre with you going to meet up with that dude.

    But some lessons you have to learn on your own.

    Good luck hun, be safe, and you never know maybe you'll meet some cool people if things dont work out with dude
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