Will guys look at you in disgust if you have a lil bit of a pudge?
Will guys look at you in disgust if you have a lil bit of a pudge?
no. guys are so easily distracted by our other assets.
I feel like I have a little pudge sometimes and at work guys always swear I must live in the gym to have my stomach(lmao. wtfff).
as long as the pudge is not outrageous, you will be fine.


I've even seen some girls with outrageous pudge who still do well. They usually have bug tits to compensate.
That's funny, I also have a little pudge, and guys always comment on my "abs." Thank god for stripclub lights!


Haha, bug tits...![]()




i have a lil pudge and small breasts....i've still done fine.... sometimes i get a lil self conscious and suck in a little while on stage, but most of the time its fine and men don't notice.
I'm working on the stomach tho!
Have you been to a stripclub? My suggestion is for you to go to a few different clubs as a spectator and see just who is walking around there working. Ask them questions. A picture is worth a thousand words.
Sounds like you're having self-esteem issues about your stomach. A pudgy tummy is the least of your worries if you're thinking about dancing. Everyone has something they don't like about themself. It's just one of many hurdles you'll need to cross to be successful in this business.
A woman with the flattest stomach will have a guy look at her in disgust. It's just the nature of the business. There's someone for everyone and even if you're a pretty girl, not everyone will think so...




^So true...
I have the pudge ( I call it my kangaroo pouch) and little tits. I think mine is hella noticeable, but most guys are always commenting on how flat my tummy is.
A few (4 max in the 4 years I've been dancing), I will admit, have noticed it and said something. F*** them! Those are the asshole custys, and even they are so smitten with everything else on me that they're spending lots of $$ anyway. I take comfort in knowing that they're the fat asses in MY club spending money on ME on a saturday night cuz they're too ugly to get a date.
Another thing: I was once watching a Nelly video and kept thinking "all of these girls have guts. What the hell? I could be in this then." I later heard an interview with Nelly and he was saying that he likes girls with guts b/c that's what characterizes a real woman and makes her beautiful.
That being said, I am trying to lose my gut, but only for me! It would boost MY view of MYSELF and MY confidence. Guys won't look at you in disgust, but what's more important is how you look at yourself.



^^ Interesting, I've heard of guys saying they like a bit of pudge too because it makes the girl more real and thus more attractive. Of course, I've only heard one custie say that, so maybe he was a fluke. I definitely have a pudge. You can tell when I've been working more because it will get more flat, but then I take too long of a break with too many donuts and beer...
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Originally Posted by Lysondra
I had previously stuck the bananas and cucumber in my cooter, yes.




"A woman with the flattest stomach will have a guy look at her in disgust. It's just the nature of the business. There's someone for everyone and even if you're a pretty girl, not everyone will think so..."
^this is so true. Not just at a SC but in life..
I used to have my pics up on Hotornot.com (lolz) and I got like 20 some thousand views and votes. Overall I was like an 8.9 or something on there, right? But looking at all the votes, I noticed that even though most people did indeed find me hot, I got lots of 10 votes, etc, a LOT, like, hundreds of people, voted me a ONE or ZERO lmao... so I was thinking wow... people think I'm a ONE? That means hundreds of people would see me on the street and think I'm hideous.
At first this feels sorta insulting, but it really sorta helped me accept myself.. I was thinking this really shows it's truly impossible to be universally attractive. I remember not long ago I heard someone say they they thought Natalie Portman was disgustingly ugly.. I think she is the ideal female beauty so that put it into perspective for me too.
All we can do is be ourselves and be the best we can be, and love ourselves and screw anyone who thinks us anything less than a goddess.![]()



i am not pudgdy but i do get bloated if i drink, the next day i just wear a waste trimming belt when i work out so that i lose the extra water in that area....it also helps if you are trying to lose weight



I have an on again/off again pudge. A lot of girls do. Thankfully, stripper heels work to elongate the legs, thrust out the ass, and suck in the gut. As long as you exercise regularly, and your pudge doesn't stick out farther than your tits, you should be fine.
This thread made me feel somewhat better about my pudge. It's gone smaller during the last half a year or so, though. Plus at least around here most custies have beer bellies so who would they be to judge the girl anyway![]()





when i first visited stripclubs to see if i would be acceptable enough physically, i saw a fat girl with a pudgy tummy and cellulite getting tipped the very most onstage. she was having fun and looked totally happy to be there, and people compensated accordingly.
Depends if the girl is overall proportionate i guess...and also how big or prominint the pudge is. I think if the pudge is enough that customers or strippers start asking her if shes pregnant when she isnt, then the girl should start considering a new workout regimen to change it. And yes I know of a girl or two that was asked "are you pregnant" when she wasnt, because of her bulge.
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