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    I am interested in dancing and I want to go this week to talk to the manager,but I am scared as shit. Im like sick to my stomach nervous about the outcome,like what if i dont make enough money,what if I don't get hired, talking to and being around a lot of strangers. I am a very nervous person but I know I really need the money.Please give me some advice to calm me down,so I can go in there with a better outlook

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    The only way to do it is to... just do it. You'll be okay. Trust me, I thought I was going to have a panic attack during my audition, but I got through it and now it's pretty easy for me to get on stage. And I have teeeerrible anxiety and stage fright!

    My best advice is to call the club you want to work at and ask the manager when would be a good time for you to sit and watch the girls dance. You'll get a great feel for the club and it will probably quell about half your anxiety, then the other half comes with just trying it out. I guarantee you will have a great time. I think it is really fun and I am so glad I conquered my fear and just did it.

    Good luck and let us know how it goes! PM me if you have any other questions.

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    Thanks for the great advice. Sexslave, I totally commiserate, I've been trying to get up the nerve for a couple months. But hey judashearts, is it okay to ask to go in and observe if you are under 21? The club I would like to work at is 21+ though they hire 18+, and I'm afraid they'll say that I either have to audition or I can't be in the club.

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    Thanks for the advice I called and i am suppose to go in to check it out tomorrow,wish me luck

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    Stay calm and relaxed or at least try. I lost it when I first auditioned and ran off the stage and out the door. You can imagine my surprise when they called me the next day or so to come back. Glad I did to, I lost my internship and now dance full time. Just goes to show anything can happen, so plan for the worst expect the best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Celia View Post
    Thanks for the great advice. Sexslave, I totally commiserate, I've been trying to get up the nerve for a couple months. But hey judashearts, is it okay to ask to go in and observe if you are under 21? The club I would like to work at is 21+ though they hire 18+, and I'm afraid they'll say that I either have to audition or I can't be in the club.
    when I wanted to go in to observe I simply asked the manager if I could take a look around because I was interested in auditioning. they never had a problem with that.

    btw... they won't let you stay as a customer... the manager will just show you around. maybe let you watch the stage for a little.

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    i watched youtube videos of strippers and read up alot about it before i took the plunge. You have to convince yourself you WANT to more than you NEED to.

    Good Luck, I'm sure you will do great when you do audition.





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    Everyone's giving great advice already.

    I'd just like to add one thing...Enjoy yourself up there! I'm new to this as well and was *very* nervous at the beginning. Keeping that in my mind helped out a lot.

    Good luck! You're going to dazzle them.

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    Have fun! Know that you are hot. That's the only real advice I have. Be hot and know it. That way no matter what even if you fall on your face, who gives a shit, you're hot! lol

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    Ahh I am having the same problem, I think I lack any sort of backbone. It's always "I'll wait when I lose weight/tone up/re-dye my hair/get better at dancing/read every stripping website existing on the world wide web" and much more "What if no one wants to buy dances from an asian girl/I make a fool of myself on stage/the manager thinks I'm ugly" etc etc. I know in my mind that I should get out there and stop waiting until I'm thin/confident/fit/white.

    But really, getting naked in front of a group of guys for the first time would be incredibly stressful. I'm feelin' ya.

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    I agree with Ms. Mia Roberts. You have to really want to do it more than you need to. It really is so fun and I feel amazing about my body now that I know I'm a sexy bitch.

    The club shouldn't have a problem with you being 18 if they hire 18 and up girls, but Veronicachick is right, you probably won't be able to hang out for long.

    Just know you're hot and guys are PAYING YOU MONEY TO SEE YOUR NAKED BODY! You can't say no to that!!

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