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    Hi I'm Alex im 18 from southern california and im starting to dance to pay for school im new on sw and just wanted to say hi

    i also have a question im really comfortable with my body and dancing but i can be shy when it comes to talking to men and going up to them ? any tips or comments?thanks

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    *waves*
    Welcome!

    I was (and still am, to an extent) really, really, painfully shy, to the point that people thought there was something wrong with me. You know what, though?
    I started visiting SW regularly and reading Hustle Hut, and I started banking BIG. Just write down little tidbits and read them at work when you get caught up in being timid -- hopefully you'll feel more comfortable with a guide right in front of you. Also, look up inspirational quotes, conversation topics, dating and courtship guides, and the like. After that, just bite the bullet and go. My philosophy is that its pretty hard to fail if you're prepared, even if you're shy.

    And it can be good idea to work your shyness into your work persona. Like, build a personality around it. Let 'em think they're corrupting you.

    Anyway, good luck!



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    Pretend you are in a movie or a play. It's your chance to be an actress, no joke. The better actress you are, the more money you can make. Think like a vampire, too. No matter how rich the guy (says he) is, you are the one in control at all times, that's the way it needs to be.
    You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.
    Friedrich Nietzsche

    Free your mind, and your ass will follow.
    George Clinton

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