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    What do you think about a club regular who -

    Is there maybe once a week or every other week.

    Always get privates with somebody (or a few) -- but doesn't have a specific regular.

    Usually comes to your stage, but doesn't do privates with you.

    Are you glad to see him come to the stage, because a couple of bucks is a couple of bucks, and might as well be him? Or are you annoyed to see him there, because you know you're not going to sell anything more with him?

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    I'm indifferent to these kinds of customers. At least he's tipping, so I can't argue with that. I know that he has his favorite dancers and I'm not one of them, so I don't waste my time trying to chat with him or get him to buy dances with me. As long as he doesn't try to get me to talk with him endlessly for free when I know he's not going to buy a dance from me, I could care less if he's in the club or not.

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    I say "THANK YOU for always tippin me, you're a good example of what OTHER guys should be doing"... =]

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    If you're not doing dances with me, you're just another customer, no matter how much you come in.



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    Hey, at least he's tipping.. Tha'ts my motto.
    I know a few that think of me as a "buddy" probably because I was friends with one of their faves or unfortunately they've seen me out with my guy or seen him pick me (he's quite a live one), my town is a lot smaller than it seems. They tip me because they like me, but I think the fantasy has been ruined.. *sigh* oh well, a tip is a tip and most of them don't even care if you actually dance for it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CarlyMIA View Post
    I say "THANK YOU for always tippin me, you're a good example of what OTHER guys should be doing"... =]
    Yup. This is what I do. I had a guy like that in ATL who was in every weekend, both Fri & Sat, would tip me like $10 every time I went on stage. He was really cool and fun to talk to. If I wasnt busy, I'd hang out with him for a couple of songs and he'd buy me a drink. But he totally understood my need to make money.

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    I'm more or less indifferent to these guys.
    I'll smile and say "thank you" like I would anyone else... but once I get off stage, I'm not going to go over and waste our time by trying to chat you up or ask for a dance.
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    I can't imagine why any dancer would be annoyed at a guy who came to the stage and tipped her. As long as he doesn't start trying to waste her time with conversation after the fact with the promise of dances that he has no intention of buying.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rockell View Post
    I'm indifferent to these kinds of customers. At least he's tipping, so I can't argue with that. I know that he has his favorite dancers and I'm not one of them, so I don't waste my time trying to chat with him or get him to buy dances with me. As long as he doesn't try to get me to talk with him endlessly for free when I know he's not going to buy a dance from me, I could care less if he's in the club or not.
    ^i agree with this completely. so long as he's not rude, isn't wasting my time, tips when he comes to my stage, and is spending money on girls... i don't give a shit. of course i'd RATHER the money be going to me, but it's better than some douchebag that comes in every day and sits at the bar for 4 hours without tipping -anyone-.

    we have a customer exactly like that. he comes in nearly every single day, sits at the bar, drinks, wants girls to talk to him, and almost never tips anyone. he's been doing that for years.

    it's very irritating.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I can't imagine why any dancer would be annoyed at a guy who came to the stage and tipped her. As long as he doesn't start trying to waste her time with conversation after the fact with the promise of dances that he has no intention of buying.
    I was just thinking about those who pretty purely consider the stage only as an advertisement or loss leader for "more", might be annoyed that nothing more was coming. Kinda like taking the free food samples at the supermarket without buying that specific product (only other ones that you regularly buy).

    And I don't waste any off-stage time with chatting. Purely stages & privates.

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    I just see them as normal customers. If they tip me on stage, great. I'll thank them. I'll probably ask a few times if they want dances, but if they say no after a few visits to the club, I'll stop asking them and ignore them unless they give me money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    I was just thinking about those who pretty purely consider the stage only as an advertisement or loss leader for "more", might be annoyed that nothing more was coming. Kinda like taking the free food samples at the supermarket without buying that specific product (only other ones that you regularly buy).
    Well, there is no accounting for personality I guess but I think most ladies will be happy to get the tip you are offering even if nothing else comes of it. I don't really agree with your analogy however. The guys sitting around the club watching the stage, not buying dances and not tipping are the ones who are doing the "free samples" thing...

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    And I don't waste any off-stage time with chatting. Purely stages & privates.
    I wasn't implying that you do.
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    I think the reality of club interaction is that we all deal with many different assumptions and presumptions of which some are not correct. The most fun I've had in a club is when I've altered the view!

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    Quote Originally Posted by rockie View Post
    I think the reality of club interaction is that we all deal with many different assumptions and presumptions of which some are not correct. The most fun I've had in a club is when I've altered the view!
    Agreed. Also, I tend not to spend a lot of time worrying about what the dancers, staff or even the customers think of me or my actions in the club as long as I am with a lady that I am enjoying myself with.
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    I could care less about anyone's view, but don't look to piss anyone off in a place I intend to return. One of the best dances I've received came from a dancer who only out of exasperation decided to ask this alleged "brazilian only" customer for a dance. I'd tipped her stage dances for a year without it ever going any further. "Genwar" may have 22 rules. I have one - If I'm in a strip club I don't do the asking. Some funny conversation and good entertainment has evolved from that day of exasperation. It started with me telling her I'd buy 2 dances no matter what, but busting her for the " loser scoping" that make her decide to change the year long tradition of ignoring me post stage.

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    ^^Huh?

    Also, I think it's good to ask for dances, because if a girl is busy she'll know to get back to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Otoki View Post
    ^^Huh?
    Thank you. I read that and thought, "I have no idea what the fuck this guy is saying." I'm glad it wasn't just me.

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    I like these guys. I too see them as "normal" customers. They tip. they get dances. they are there often enough to make the dancers comfortable. On slow nights or nights where none of the men are tipping buying dances you might see several dancers just "shooting the shit".

    Further more on bad nights they might help add to the little money you have made.

    My club has several regulars like this, and im always glad to see them come back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cadencetyme View Post
    I like these guys. I too see them as "normal" customers. They tip. they get dances. they are there often enough to make the dancers comfortable. On slow nights or nights where none of the men are tipping buying dances you might see several dancers just "shooting the shit".

    Further more on bad nights they might help add to the little money you have made.

    My club has several regulars like this, and im always glad to see them come back.
    Same. I understand that's how they relax, they support the club by buying the odd girl dances (most girls get a chance to be with him), the occassional drink. The tipping part would make him pretty valuable, sometimes a good tip can really make my night, or if i'm having a shitty night, well, that doesn't hurt. And I second the making dancers comfortable. Sometimes if I'm scouting the club and I don't see anyone but the regulars, I have no problem going over and asking what's going on, sort of like a warmup to when the business walks in.
    That's a long way away from those couple of douchebags at my club that don't buy dances, don't offer girls drinks, don't do tips, and sit there drinking pop and act like getting dances is absolutely beneath them because "they're not like that". Dude.

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