So I go to the SC maybe once every two years, this last adventure was a special occasion for a buddy of mine so we went two nights in a row a friday and a saturday. There was one girl I was immediately attracted to. I gave her a little money on the stage, got a little smile and sat down. She later visits and we have a good little talk. I make it pretty obvious that we are college students who have maybe enough money for a dance and a few tips. She hangs around for a while longer as we just BS about whatever before she takes off. My buddies and I enjoy ourselves the rest of the night before we take off. I catch the girls eye a few other times throughout the night but thats about it.
The next night we decide to come back because it's my buddies last night in town. So I see my girl first thing as we get in there, she immediately recognizes and gives an almost blushing smile as she finishes her stage rotation and then comes to visit for a few. We talk for a good 15 or so mins or so about whatever, I ask her a lot of questions and tell her a bit about myself. It's a pretty mutual converstation and pleasing for both of us...I didn't really get the feeling that she's trying to hustle unless she is doing it in a very passive way...she actually tells me how much of a rip off LD's are and never asks for one herself. Eventually it gets to a point where I feel like I'm taking up her time when she could be making money so I encourage her to go do that and tell her to come back sometime later so I could buy a dance from her. From our convo I learned a few things about her(i think), she's been working for only 3 months, doesn't really like what she does, commutes from out of town so she can keep it a secret.
So anyways, she comes back and chats again a little later for about another 15 mins or so. We talk about more of the same and I just feel like we are genuinely enjoying ourselves regaurdless the setting of her being at work. So, the DJ calls in all the girls into the dressing room for a special and I let her know that I'd be that customer for her. So during the dance I noticed she placed her hand near mine and I slowly weaved my fingers with hers (this is me being as handsy as I get). Other than her being naked the dance didn't seem to be that sexually exotic but more romantically errotic that I eventually got a nice short kiss towards the end of the last song. It was a 3 for 1, so things had time to develop. After that dance and a final stage rotation she pretty much spends the rest of the night in my lap just chatting and enjoying ourselves. I felt a little bad because she spent as much time with me as she did and I didn't really have any money to give her but at the same time she still seemed to enjoy herself just hanging out with me. My buddies and I eventually have to get going (early flight). I wasn't really sure but I figured I would give it a shot anyways, so I asked for her number. She hesitates for a second before she says she hasn't ever done that before, she puts her number in my phone along with her real name*i think*. The number is legit, she's msged me back to confirm this. So she obviously gotten to me a little bit or else I wouldn't be on this website telling my story. Now, I need some insight from girls who know the scene better than me.
So...
-I go to the SC maybe 1 time every 2 years only on a special occasion
-I'm a college student and naturally don't have money sitting around for this to be a regular occasion and I let her knows that
-I'm 1 year older than her **
-She's single **
-I'm at a similar level of attractiveness as her
-She is fairly new to dancing 3months **
-She seemed to be genuinely having a good enough time with me to hang out for over half of the night knowing she wouldnt make more than about $50 off me.
My question...
-Was/Is she hustling?
-IF she was
*Why would she try and hustle somebody who is obviously not able to put out money worth the time
*Why would she give me her number/name?
I've met my share of scandelous women, but I really have no idea what to expect from a situation where women are required to be scandelous/hustle to make their money. It's seems pretty logical to just assume it was a hustle but I thought I'd try and get an opinion before I just blew this girl off as if it was just business.


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